How to approach a girl on VKontakte? 5 typical mistakes when meeting online

For modern youth, communicating on the Internet is perhaps the most common way to meet the person they like. Some are skeptical about this: they say that one cannot get a complete picture of the “interlocutor” from correspondence alone. However, these days, social networks (and, in particular, the popular site VKontakte) provide the opportunity to communicate any information about yourself: publish photos, videos, write about your thoughts and feelings, post interesting news on your page, etc.

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They are overly self-confident, abrupt in their movements, and speak in a confident and edifying tone that does not tolerate objections. Nothing will surprise them, they are smart and they declare this at every step in their interactions with everyone they come into contact with. With such a girl, the main thing is not to bend and not to be fooled by her provocations. And when the opportunity arises, tell her that this behavior of hers is not becoming. This should be said in a kind, edifying tone.

When you already know a girl, it is very good, because she already trusts you. The next step to take is to interest her. You need to make her think about how to go on a date with you. And you can interest her, first of all, with your attractive appearance. If you go to a place where your “victim” will be, then you must definitely put yourself in order. Believe me, attractive clothes and good perfume are what every girl likes.

If you communicate with a girl in places where there are other beauties along with her, then this is very good. You definitely need to flirt with these girls in front of her. You have to show that you are an interesting guy that other women like. As soon as your “victim” sees this, she may want to meet you herself.

This can be used as a hook if she starts to refuse - you can tell her something like, your jeans are dirty, the sole is peeling off. And then continue communication as if none of this happened.

Further, you will not know anything about the girl until she opens her mouth and says something. This makes the task of “rolling up” much more difficult. But there is no need to be upset. Difficult does not mean impossible.

And anything can serve as a reason: you can ask her to help you do something, you can offer her to solve some general problems. You just need to think carefully here.

Then, after the girl comes on a date, you need to start acting as if you are already her boyfriend. You must understand that if a girl has already agreed to meet with you, it means that somewhere inside she already understands that maybe something will happen between you. And here everything depends on you. If you continue to communicate with her as a friend, then you will have nothing, and the girl will never hint at a relationship to you. And when you flirt with her, touch her, hug her and kiss her, everything will be wonderful.

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In contact. Here's how you can approach a girl on VK. You write to her - “Hello. By the way, you are very unusual girl”, the phrase about unusualness in 80 percent of cases gives the opposite question from the girl - “What.” You can add the phrase - “You have one very unusual feature that guys don’t really like…. But I like her...” She will most likely start asking you about the line. Girls are generally very curious creatures, they are like children.

11. Before some holiday, he offers to celebrate in his company. To make such a decision, the guy will go through two hundred times in sweat and nerves, so if you like the guy, agree, don’t give him a heart attack.

12. He tries in every possible way to remind about himself, for example, he calls and supposedly ends up in the wrong place. This is the most common piece of “jamb”. As a rule, it happens in order to start a conversation. Sometimes he calls because of an absolutely stupid request, in your opinion, but this is also just an excuse to start a conversation. By the way, only the bravest guys call; usually you have 100,500 SMS messages from the “target” in your phone.

In this case, the girl will try in every possible way to find out your name, but she should not give up her position. The amount of time the girl is interested in your personality will depend on the time during which you manage to hold out. Moreover, you shouldn’t pretend to be a kind of macho, since girls can only admire and admire them, but they still pay attention to ordinary guys. Also, when approaching a girl, remember that they themselves love to get to know each other. But, at the same time, they are characterized by shyness and indecisiveness, and therefore they prefer when they get acquainted with them, and not when they meet someone else. You can see for yourself how to kiss correctly if you need to take the initiative during communication.

Everyone says: “Why meet girls you already know if you can just invite them on a date?” But in practice, only a small part of guys can take it upon themselves to do this.Many are hampered by such circumstances as fear of the opinions of others (after all, they will have to approach in the presence of classmates, classmates, colleagues) and the fear that she will think something wrong about them. After all, they already know this girl at work, and inviting her to a meeting is somehow... shy.
How to approach a girl if there are so many familiar faces around and it seems that she will think that you are “some kind of strange”? This problem is solved much easier than all the others. After all, you already know the girl, which means there is at least some trust between you.
Another feature that can hinder you or, on the contrary, help you is her friends. Here it is important to know how to approach her correctly in the presence of her friends. If her friends don't like you, you're unlikely to be able to invite her to a meeting in their presence. And vice versa, if they like you too, then you can approach their company and start a conversation. All the girls in this company will seek your attention and actively participate in the conversation (unless, of course, you are a shy guy). Here you also work to increase your demand. Only if in the previous “technique” we were talking about social, here we are talking about being in demand among the opposite sex.
By the way, I advise you to pay attention to your “goal” less attention than everyone else. This will hook her. In addition, since you already know each other (in person or in absentia), then the wrong decision would be to immediately ask her on a date. It’s better to “pull back” so that she thinks about you and doubts what you like.
And only then you can invite her to a meeting, using some reason for the meeting. It doesn’t matter what exactly it will be - joint preparation of a report or going to the attractions. The main thing is that this reason does not “scorch” you in front of your colleagues and mutual friends (even if she likes you, she can still refuse you for fear of being judged by others).
How to approach a girl on VKontakte (VK)
If you are very shy, you can use this social network to charm her.
How to approach a girl on VK? It's easy!
Come up with an interesting, catchy comment on one of her photos, analyze her profile and ask some interesting question related to what is written there. Thanks to her photos and profile, you can easily start a conversation. Of course, this is not the only reason - you can use others (for example, ask a question about something related to your work/study). And then everything will depend on your skills in conducting interesting correspondence, the ability to please, raise your importance and arouse attraction to yourself.
If communication has developed, then feel free to move on to other topics not related to yours. working together(study, hobby). This way you can check how much she is interested in you. At the same time, you will hint that you have other plans for her than talking about a joint activity.
What tricks are not working right now?
1. Methods such as presenting flowers have not worked for a long time. If before this was something unusual, now you can put the girl in an uncomfortable position. If you were asking how to approach a girl you haven’t met yet, then I could also advise you to buy a rose and give it as a gift (you need to buy it in front of her). But because we are talking about someone with whom you sometimes (or often) cross paths, the situation changes a lot, and the above methods will not be correct.
2. The same applies to other obvious signs of attention. If you clearly show your desire to “glue” her together, then she will become uncomfortable in front of other colleagues (classmates). By doing so, you will only ruin everything for yourself.
3.Also, you should not write or call on behalf of an anonymous fan. If she has a boyfriend (or, more difficult, a husband), then this approach is most likely doomed to fail. After all, this could be a test on the part of the husband/boyfriend: if she answers in a positive way, she will thereby set herself up.
This is where the advice ends. There are no more secret tricks on how to properly approach a girl and make her happy. Then everything will depend on your confidence and ability to interest a girl when communicating by phone or in contact.