Flagellation in social life. Belt for a wife as a method of education How to properly spank a husband at home
I read on other forums that some girls may like it and I think that there are many sick people like me, but no one admits it :-)
For example, here is one of my fantasies:
It's as if my parents sent me to live with them good friend, and they themselves went on a long business trip for 2 years. I'm 10 years old and I'm very spoiled. Uncle Vova (let's call him that :-)) is very intelligent person, loves order and discipline. My parents gave him the right to raise me as he saw fit. I have known him since childhood and love him very much. But I’m also afraid at the same time. I know he is very strict. He tells me the rules in the house, what can and cannot be done. For disobedience he will punish me with rods. Of course, I don’t believe him (no one has spanked me in my life) and the first thing I do is break one of the rules, for which I run into a spanking. When I realize that I got into trouble, I start crying and asking for forgiveness, but Uncle Vova is relentless. Very calmly he explains to me what he will punish me for, saying that he warned me... Then he tells me to take off my pants and lie down on the bed. And he himself goes for the rods. I'm so ashamed, but I do what he told me. I'm just shaking with fear. When I see the rods, I turn away so as not to see how he will swing. During the spanking, I try to be patient, but soon I start crying and asking for forgiveness. After the spanking, Uncle Vova leaves. And I lie there and cry and can’t believe that he still did it... An hour later I go to his office and ask for forgiveness and he gently hugs me to him and calms me down. Then he spanked me many more times bad grades, for absenteeism, for the fact that I climbed porn sites and when he asked me about it, I lied that I had never visited them... Everything is quite colorful and believable in my fantasies...
Only I don’t perceive anything sexual in my dreams. I just want to be a girl of 8-10 years old with a strict man.
I would like to add that as a child, my mother punished me with a belt, not very often and not particularly painfully, and I really didn’t like it. The words "flogging", "rod", etc. No one has ever heard from me, since I’m even embarrassed to say them. I immediately blush... And in general, I can’t discuss these topics with anyone... But in my dreams... I WANT TO BE Whipped...
I am writing anonymously because I am very ashamed... Are there others like me? You can write anonymously.
(from translit)
Of course, at first I didn’t believe that she would actually beat me with rods; I thought he would scare me and calm down. My marital experience, with Svetlana and with my first wife, suggested that wives are easy-going and almost always ready to forgive, you just need to take the first step yourself.
Perhaps at that moment she was still hesitating and, standing over me, was deciding how to behave further. But I didn’t have time, I didn’t have time to say anything to my wife. A flash appeared on her face light shadow, it seemed that she had decided something for herself. A moment later, Svetlana, narrowing her eyes angrily, looked at my naked body and, with the calmness of a person who knows what to do, began to choose the rods. At that moment I realized that I was really going to be whipped. And nothing will help avoid spanking, and it is useless to ask for forgiveness; you should have thought about it earlier.
My wife chose three birch rods, walked up to the bed and smacked me hard on my buttocks. Out of habit, her blow was awkward and weak, I didn’t even scream. This probably surprised her, and the next four times she tried her best, so much so that I screamed loudly. She stopped, maybe to take a break, or she was stopped by my scream.
Under the woman, I guess you were also screaming with pleasure? - she said angrily.
I was silent, and she hit me again. She very quickly learned to whip with the rods, and now they whistled defiantly before landing on my buttocks. Tears welled up in my eyes from pain and shame. The blows rained down in a continuous stream, I screamed after each of them. Finally, taking a pause, I began to beg for mercy. But this only infuriated my wife; she cursed angrily, remembering my mistress, and continued the execution even more energetically. After that, I was already squealing like a little boy who is being whipped for school offenses. This is at my thirty-nine years old!..
Honey, forgive me! - I begged again after another portion. In response, she examined three birch rods, pretty much broken off on my bare butt, then turned her gaze to me.
And then she smiled for the first time during the spanking. There was something condescending in this smile, one could read superiority beautiful woman over a naked man tied to a bed, freshly whipped. I no longer felt my wife’s gaze; just a woman was looking at me, and I felt not like a husband, but only a man who was punished in the most shameful and shameful way that only a woman can think of for a man.
However, at that moment the punishment was not over yet. Apparently, the red transverse marks from the rods on a man’s big white buttocks can bring a woman to ecstasy; or a man screaming under the rod excites a beautiful lady in the best possible way, especially if she whips with her own hands.
In short, my wife looked at me intently, either a smile or a grin wandered on her lips; she walked up to the coffee table, took fresh rods, quickly returned to me, swung her and... the whistle of three birch twigs was heard again.
This bundle turned out to be stronger - before the rods broke, I received three dozen very deft blows. Each of them was accompanied by my heart-rending scream. It hurt, but much more acutely than the pain, I felt shame. Even the shame of spanking. The first caning in my life. At thirty-nine years old. When a young, very beautiful, slender woman in a short skirt spanked. There was something sexual mixed in here, and therefore my penis grew to unimaginable sizes, at least it seemed so to me.
When the execution was over and my wife untied the ropes, I tried to hug her and tried to unbutton her blue blouse. But my wife resolutely pushed me away.
“I don’t make love to a man who’s just been whipped,” she said impudently. Look at your butt in the mirror.
The mirror was just opposite, Svetlana turned it slightly and grinned with satisfaction:
For a husband, rods are the first way to behave well. And remember: now, if anything happens, it’s a spanking. If it doesn’t help, I’ll tell that woman over the phone how I whipped you for her. And from now on I will punish for offenses with rods. In our family, the husband is beaten with rods or a belt, like a schoolboy, understand?! - concluded my wife with undisguised pleasure.
Before the next spanking, Svetlana did not explain why. True, there was no smell of women here, after all, flogging is a very instructive punishment: after those first whippings, I never cheated on my wife again. Never. But it turned out that the rod was now given to me, her husband, for other offenses. She only said: “Are you not a child who, before being flogged, must first explain the reason and expediency of the flogging?!”
That's it, simple and short. After which she ordered me to take off my pants, and she went to the kitchen. "For the rods?" I thought with fear. But she went from the kitchen to another room and hesitated there.
For some reason, I understood that this time I, a forty-year-old man, could not avoid a spanking. Svetlana, if you’ve already decided something, then everything is tight, you won’t move it for anything. Stubborn.
There was nothing left to do but undress. I was left in blue knitted long johns that hugged my butt tightly. He lay down on the sofa, sticking out his buttocks. The heart was beating noisily, and the penis became huge again. And then she came in. In a beautiful black dress, very short, shoes high heels and with a thick wide belt in his hands. Oh God! This gorgeous lady we will punish me! Belt? Everything swam before my eyes.
No, don't! - I began to beg.
But there was nowhere to go, I continued to lie motionless, half naked, in blue underpants, with my butt up. Meanwhile, the lady hung the belt on the chair, took out two ribbons from her pocket and tied my hands and feet tightly. I didn’t dare resist, I was so ashamed.
How long can you tolerate such a disobedient husband like you?! - Svetlana Ivanovna either asked or stated. (For some reason, I instinctively felt that during a spanking my wife should be respectfully called by name and patronymic.) - That's enough! Today I will whip you like a schoolboy with a belt! - concluded the wife.
However, she very soon got tired of talking, and she got down to “business.” I could not even imagine such a cruel, ferocious spanking. I cried from shame and pain. It must have been a funny picture: a big guy, tied up, crying as a gorgeous lady punishes him with a belt. But it seemed to my wife that this was not enough. Probably to enhance the educational effect of the spanking, she stopped for a minute and pulled down my long johns from my butt. It was extremely embarrassing, my penis began to pulsate, and during the next three blows of the belt on my buttocks, I came. I almost didn’t feel these three blows, although they were very strong...
During the entire story, he nervously smoked cigarette after cigarette, leaving about a dozen cigarette butts in the ashtray.
This is how we live,” he said at the end of the conversation. - No, after all, women are amazing creatures: she easily and imperceptibly made me her slave, but none of those around me even know about it. You are the first one I told everything to, I don’t even know why. I wanted to speak out... besides, you are a doctor... maybe this is a clinical case?
But I even like that I have such a strict and extravagant wife,” he continued, not allowing half a word to get in. - On March 8, I gave her a book, you know, such a beautiful gift edition “Notes for the Hostess.” So Svetlana wrote on the cover of this book: In the film "Wild Orchid" a gorgeous lady flogged a naked man with a whip and said: you are a very bad boy, you are a very bad boy... You should do the same with you and say: you are a very bad husband.
And in the last section - “At your leisure” - I drew a sign: “Husband’s behavior for a week.” And the graphs are numbers; behavioral assessment; note. And then she wrote: “March 8; unsatisfactory; should be punished: flogging with pants down - 35 strokes, but since today is a holiday, the punishment is reduced to 20 strokes.”
Do you want to raise your husband? - You will succeed if you try very, very hard. And you will try, because you need it, you are interested in it. A wife always raises her husband, but does it work?
Let's do this... Considering current problems, we will find ways to solve them and put them into a single letter mosaic of proposals. Agreed, ladies? Then let’s get started so that time doesn’t expire in vain.
Problems associated with men, but of concern to women
Cleaning socks
Don't be surprised that this problem comes first. Women are simply tired of the “sock invasion”! What infuriates women the most is such facts as “mismatched” socks and “sloppy” socks. They are shamelessly scattered throughout the apartment, overshadowing even the aroma of the coolest perfume with their smells. Naturally, this cannot always be tolerated.
- How to deal with this?
Place a basket in the corner. Tell him to throw all his socks there, imagining that he is scoring a goal in football.
Throw away socks you find without buying new ones. A man is unlikely to like this. Don't wash his socks. Let him wear those that have already been remembered for their week-long freshness.
Washing dishes
The woman would have washed all the dishes herself without saying a word. But men are starting to get impudent! They are too lazy to wash it themselves, and put the dirty dishes not in the right place, but in front of their beloved’s very nose, saying:
“Darling, thank you, everything was delicious... Please wash the dishes, don’t forget!”. The woman’s hands give up...
- How to deal with this?
- Buy disposable tableware.
- Create a dishwashing schedule.
- In general, stop washing dishes so that a lot of them accumulate.
Grocery shopping
You are very worried that your husband does not go to the store. Or, if he does, he buys something completely different from what you asked for... And you, cursing everything in the world, tell yourself that, starting tomorrow, you will go grocery shopping exclusively on your own. But tomorrow it turns out that you have a lot to do, and you still don’t have time to get to the store. Nothing remains. The husband was sent on a hike again.
- How to deal with this?
- Give him a list of products that you need.
- Go shopping together.
- Send messages with a list of products to his mobile phone.
Curses
You are extremely unhappy that your hubby is swearing in your presence. You asked (tearfully) that he try to wean himself from such words, but the request hung like a cloud between you. And you, exhausted, simply try to come to terms with it, thinking that nothing can be changed.
- How to deal with this?
- Talk. Tell me how unpleasant it is for you to hear and listen to this.
- Start cursing like a shoemaker, too, albeit temporarily.
- Stop paying attention to “ugly” words.
Internet is an addiction
What..., the most painful thing “touched”? You are not the only one, you can safely believe! Many men cannot live without the virtual world. And, plunging “just for a minute” into this world, they forget absolutely everything.
- How to deal with this?
- Throw your computer out of the window.
- Turn off the Internet.
- Punish him with no sex at all!
Dislike of calls
No, your spouse loves it when you call him. But he rarely calls, or important matter. This offends you, irritates you, and leads you into a dead end of complete misunderstanding of the situation.
How to fight?
- Do the same with your loved one.
- Buy him a new and fancy mobile phone (smartphone).
- Give him a scolding about this.
Jealousy
Constantly, always, to everyone... Familiar and unpleasant? Fixable, albeit labor-intensive!
- How to fight?
- Take a break from depression about this.
- Have an educational conversation about this.
- Prove (by any means) that you don’t need anyone but him.
Bed matters
Hubby isn't happy with sex? And he caresses in the wrong way, and loves in the wrong way, and “bypasses” foreplay…. Don’t tolerate it, but correct the “problems.”
How to deal with this?
- Tell me what specifically doesn’t suit you.
- Tell us what you like about sex.
- Praise anyone if there is (appears) for something.
Love for porn films
It's not you we wanted to insult! There are men who really like to watch everything so different...
- How to overcome this?
- Be better than any porn star.
- Ask them not to do this again.
- Watch some erotic film together and, if possible, shame him...
Friends are the center of his universe
Does your husband pay little attention to you? Does he run away to his friends at the first opportunity? Of course, you cannot live like this, without the attention of a man, your beloved!
- How to deal with this?
- You too go to your girlfriends.
- Show that you don’t really like all this (to put it mildly).
- Show how upset you are.
Other methods of properly raising a beloved spouse
If your husband is not amenable to education, try to arrange education again, but using different methods...
If you want to raise your husband using your salary, this is possible. Remember what he likes, what he likes, and try to please him in everything constantly and at the same time raise him carefully, slowly... After this, he will do everything you need!
But try not to become impudent, otherwise your spouse will think that you are in love not with him, but with his money.
If you want him to let you go to his girlfriends, introduce him to all your girlfriends so that your spouse does not have any suspicions that you are cheating on him. Some wives leave the phone numbers of all their girlfriends in order to keep the relationship “ideal.”
What is the most difficult thing to cultivate in men?
Love of order, and “not jealousy.” But this can also be cultivated if you try. Don’t forget about the “golden rule of morality.” Don't remember what it sounds like?
We repeat: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
Can you imagine what will happen to you if they start educating you? There will be a lot of resistance, you will agree. So don't torture a man! Educate, but with caution, carefully, so as not to lead to quarrels.