Why can you love a woman? Why can you love a girl?
I was surprised to find that many men, as well as girls (to themselves) are wondering: ? The question is quite strange, since it is a feeling that exists outside of logic. Therefore, young people who think about it cannot fall in love with a woman and experience this feeling. Therefore, they are looking for a logical reason. Or this is a girl who is so insecure that she wants to find positive qualities in herself for which she will be loved. This all happens because of complexes. In particularly advanced situations, it is better to go to a psychologist and work with this problem.
Be careful, although of course you are saying this for the right reasons. Not because of your mercy, because you are limited by circumstances. After the 3-month threshold, before being in a committed relationship, 62% of male study participants referring to a past relationship and 70% of those referring to a current relationship stated that they said "I love you" first. Therefore, people begin to think about their feelings and their expression first. According to the same study, women wait about 5 months to express their love.
“I love you” can be a very powerful emotional blackmail tactic that can erase mistakes, fill voids, create a relationship out of nothing. You don't want it to come back like a boomerang in the form of reproach at the end of your relationship. “But you said you loved me!” Does this sound familiar? Be careful not to let other needs or desires push you to make such statements. And most importantly, don't tell him you love him to just hold him. All you're doing is prolonging your suffering, considering what you just said and trying not to hurt yourself for now.
But I’ll answer this question anyway.
You can love a woman for:
- that she is a woman. A person of the opposite sex. And opposites attract. Logical, isn't it?
- her faith in you and support.
- her beauty.
- ability to manage a household.
- great sex.
The list goes on. But I’ll repeat it again. Love is a feeling that defies logic. You can fall in love with a woman, and then simply cannot find any reasons other than “because I just love her, she’s great.”
With the desire to turn it into an unforgettable moment, “I love you” loses its spontaneity, becoming a kind of “I did this and that.” Let the love grow and at some point the moment of the highest declaration inevitably comes. Until then, free yourself from thoughts about your relationship and allow him to develop harmoniously without interfering.
Try not to relate to something. If, for example, you enjoy quiet time in your relationship, don't rock the boat by dropping such a bombshell. He will accept it unprepared and associate the calmness with the unexpected event that flew over him. You may not like it as a result. As a general rule, unless there are signs that his emotions have increased, if he acts like he doesn't have a care in the world, you shouldn't bother him. He doesn't burden him with his "I love you" burden. You don't want to waste a statement like that on people who don't want to hear it, and you can't get them back once you say it.
Now let's move on to some other questions from this topic.
Can a younger man love an older woman?
As the people say, all ages are submissive to love. And, of course, a man can fall in love with a woman older than himself. Moreover, in our time, a woman even at 40 years old can look simply beautiful and will give a head start to some of her younger rivals. Moreover, an older lady has several undeniable advantages over young girls.
A simple test would be to see how he reacts when you overpower him with romantic gestures. If he responds to one coin or at least tries to do something special for you, then you are on the right way. It may not be ready to open yet. The point is that reaction prevents you from making a big mistake.
Actions say more about feelings than words. Before you say, “I love you,” you can prove it to her. It's much easier to digest and more believable when you're making a statement that you've supported for some time through facts, rather than being told about it and then being pressured to demonstrate to live up to expectations.
“She gained life experience.” He knows how to perceive life adequately and does not live with rose-colored glasses. This is very important for a man, as it helps both of them understand each other better.
“She knows how to do a lot around the house - she’s more independent than her young self.”
“She knows the value of relationships.”
“She is more relaxed in sex and already gets real pleasure from it.
Whatever his reaction, it is unnatural to return. Don't expect an answer right away. It may take time to digest what you just said. Enjoy the moment and wait. Do not apologize under any circumstances! The weird feeling you have won't go away, but you will only make the situation worse, as if you made a mistake by telling them, or worse, by loving her!
At some point, you can calm the silence. You put it before a fait accompli. It's like you told her you wanted to get married and have kids and grandkids, so you don't wonder if she'll take something to make her giddy. If you answer in his place, you will only give him a missed loophole. This will continue as if nothing happened and you should have the same conversation on another occasion.
“She knows how to support her man in difficult times and give valuable advice.
Another interesting question:
Is it possible to love an ugly woman?
External beauty does not always determine feelings. Moreover, there are as many tastes as there are people in the world. For one, the girl is ugly, but for another, she is exactly his type. Everything is relative. It happens that you meet a girl who does not make any external impression. However, after a short time she captivates with her openness, cheerfulness, excellent sense of humor, coupled with intelligence. And chemistry can play differently.
How do you choose the right time? At some point in your life you meet him. At first you don't want to fall in love, you don't accept the idea. Do anything, run away from you, run away from him, just to prove that you don't like the hell that it hurts you somewhere he does or says, because others are probably just as interesting and you can play. But the more you run, the more you want to return to it. And, at some point, you make money because every fight has an ending and you are tired.
You declare your love, you are honest with yourself and with you. You admit that you are in love with Luleya and that you carry mountains for him. And he admits that after a while he loves you, but at some point you realize that you have idealized the relationship and that you have put your lover on a pedestal that he does not deserve. You also expect that when he falls from there it will break his neck.
Have you had this experience when beautiful girl turns out to be no good in bed? And I don’t get pleasure from sex with her. And, on the contrary, some gray mouse makes you change your opinion about it.
So it’s not just about appearance, but about the totality of all the features and qualities of a woman. Which, when put together into a certain puzzle, can greatly hook a man and awaken feelings in him.
Because, you see, you perceive him differently than everyone else who sees him: kind, beautiful, smart, spiritual, magical, a person who understands everything he has to offer, a person he admires, has succeeded in life, with whom you can say anything, and you say the most intimate things. You ask, however, how a person who says he loves you and gives you love can sometimes be so cold and uncaring. You usually want everything from the person you love, or at least an ounce of his patience, his love, his time.
Only a woman who does not love, does not insist, does not ask, does not care and does not care. And then, what do men really want? Be aware of this for as long as you want for it. You're last on your list of priorities. It hurts to see how all your love is trampled. And he is sometimes disappointed with your attitude. When in fact this attitude is a consequence of his actions, his indifference to you. You can't ask a woman to trust you, to accept you the way you are, if you lie or tell half the truth, out of your desperation to be free or not to explain.
Now you know why you can love a woman. And it doesn’t matter whether she’s older or younger than you.
Because of girls, we shave in the morning, do stupid things, fight with other guys and be happy. 50 compelling reasons to love girls.
1. At first you learn a lot of new and funny things with them.
2. They smell better. Much better. In every sense.
3. Many of them have normal boobs like this.
4. They often also show their boobs!
5. Tits, tits... Ahhh, there are still legs!
6. They eat less. It's profitable.
7. They get drunk faster. This is doubly beneficial.
8. They most likely will not quietly drink your beer in the evening.
9. The second and third roach in the refrigerator are also usually safe. They don't eat much.
10. When they paint their nails, they look adorably helpless.
11. They can have children. And the kids are cool.
12. They can raise children up to 3 years old. Therefore, children live up to three years.
13. Thanks to her, you now have a hairdryer and a lot of useful things at home.
14. A fur coat is cheaper than a car. Yes, yes, this is a big plus for women!
15. Yes, they don’t necessarily need an expensive car!
16. They motivate us to different achievements. Hmm, yes, it's still good.
17. They sincerely do not understand what can be done every week in the sauna.
18. Well, why go around in circles, I’ll tell you straight - many are generally attractive.
You can't lie to a woman who believes every word you say. You can give your destiny a reason to choose, and if you decide poorly, don't expect happiness. A man who truly loves a woman knows that she needs a real person. While others, the majority, believe that since he has it next to him, he doesn't need to do anything. Relationships, if not maintained, will eventually fizzle out. Many women wonder what they should do in such a situation. And the ideal answer is that indifference is met with indifference and ignorance with ignorance.
19. They are almost always ready for sex. And the older you are, the more.
20. They can beautifully explain some bullshit that you did in a drunken oblivion.
21. You can tell them something new about cars!
22. By the way, they rarely smoke and litter in the car.
23. They maintain some kind of order. Without women, the Great Second Sock Problem would certainly bring us all to the grave.
24. You can write them a stupid SMS and get an excited response.
25. They remember the birthdays of mutual friends and children.
26. And they can write something sensible in a postcard.
It's just that when you really love and participate, you can't be indifferent. Such people, unfortunately, love only them. And they don't make it authentic. They love their image reflected in the selfish mirror that they enjoy day after day.
This is the problem with so many relationships. One loves, and the other does not appreciate him. It’s not in vain to say that behind everyone successful person he is a successful woman. She is very beautiful, at least he sees that. It's generous, and it's one of the reasons he loves it. It is alive and spending time with it is a real adventure. This is someone who would be willing to compromise on the relationship. It is passionate, and passion only works between two identical people from this point of view. When she is with her, she feels like she is meant to be and she doesn't need anything else or anyone else.
27. They often also know how to cook. And most importantly, they know how to cook often.
28. One of them asked you to buy a cool new coat.
29. They can pick up a normal tie.
30. And many (but not all) can still tie it normally!
31. Women are fooled by all sorts of bullshit. It's fun.
32. Thanks to one of them, you visited the theater.
33. And I also visited the Felar... Filyar... Philharmonic.
34. A pile of unironed laundry causes a woman not only to feel sad, but also to want to iron it.
35. It is unlikely that after meeting you you will find out that she is a fan of the football team you hate.
36. She always has a set of bubbles, you can probably wash yourself with some kind.
37. They can be entrusted with the most dull and tedious work. And also responsible and also painstaking. And urgent too. They will definitely finish everything.
38. On Friday and Saturday evenings they can drive on the way from the restaurant.
39. They have cool girlfriends. And my girlfriends have (well, in general, see paragraphs 3-5).
40. You always have every chance of defeating a woman in a fair fight.
41. She'll tell you're drunk before you even get behind the wheel.
42. They don't make you jealous of porn magazines because she doesn't buy them.
43. If she gets offended, she won’t hit you in the face with all her might. And why is there this nonsense, laughter!
44. They can’t afford to make the bed! Every day!!!
45. They know what pills to buy to be cured of various diseases.
46. They are not afraid to call a doctor and even go to him.
47. Since they live longer, I am sure that they will be buried without a mess.
48. If you did something
If she sees her soul reflected in her eyes, then she is home. When you remove a woman, remember that he will go with a broken heart and will never forgive you. Typically, men admit it when it's too late. Then they will be full of regrets for the rest of their lives because they left the most important things in the world to escape their fingers.
We live in a world where it is believed that there is still time and there is a second chance. If you, the man of her life, love her and you can't imagine life without her, don't lose her! Grow up, be wise and don't repeat past mistakes. The women you love are everywhere. Women with whom you can lose most of your life are useless. There is only one woman who truly loves you, unconditionally.