Where to hold a party: ideas and tips. How to throw the coolest home-party in the city What to do at a house party
A party at home is a risk and an extreme measure that only desperate and professional daredevils should decide on. First of all, this concerns the New Year, when a good half of friends do not know where to sit on such a night. If fate has decreed that the organization falls on your shoulders, and your favorite kitchen becomes the scene of action, you should not despair: the main thing here is to resolve all issues with experience and in advance in order to smooth out the unpleasant consequences. On the eve of the holidays, FURFUR asked musicians, DJs and house party bigwigs two simple questions: what is essential for any proper house party and what situations are best avoided so as not to ruin your mood?
The main thing to understand is that a party is not “going to visit.” No table with Olivier is needed - just a buffet! Drinks and snacks. Someone might have a minibar - great. The organizer should approach the process as if his apartment was a small club. Accordingly, you need to think about what kind of music there will be, who will play it, and who you want to see as guests. Random people no need to call. But if among the guests there are people who are unfamiliar with each other (females, for example), this will still add additional interest to the party. The music should be selected based on the general average taste of those gathered. So that at some point all the drunks start shouting “van deey you gona liv in peeris...” and merge in ecstatic unity.
In general, the ideal party should look like what is shown in American pop films! To do this, the density of people needs to be a little higher than what usually lives in this apartment.”
The main mistake, it seems to me, is always the same - there is no need to entertain guests. At a good party, guests entertain themselves. Leo Tolstoy in “War and Peace” wrote that a commander can influence the course of a battle only before it begins, placing regiments and giving them orders, after which everything is left to chance. This is true for any form of home gathering, from a bingo game to an underground punk concert. There are only two things you can really seriously influence the course of events - turn off Wi-Fi and send everyone home. The last resort should be resorted to immediately after the third visit by the police; in decent houses this is a sign of good manners.”
Having a balcony is very important. It will be possible to drive out all smokers there, and even more so with cigars, so that they can ventilate in the fresh air and can continue to decompose efficiently.
If we talk about the main mistakes of home parties, then in the first place is the decision to stir up drugs or women. It usually happens like this - everyone drinks alcohol in the right male company and suddenly the idea arises to find, get something, for example, cocaine. Old friends begin to behave like Nils with wild geese, walking around the house. As a result, some kind of pills appear, but worse than being on pills, there are no friends, for which you later become ashamed. There is no question of any quality at such moments, but everything should be natural.
Another common mistake is to approach a DJ and ask them to play some of their own music. It makes everyone terribly nervous and ends up sounding like some kind of complete crap.”
But seriously, find a place without night neighbors and police outfits, take those who will not be boring musically, preferably about fifteen to twenty people and not in pairs, otherwise everyone will be looking for a secluded place where they can kiss or have a drink. Don't forget also about light snacks and a supply of alcohol so you don't have to run around the city at night... New Year this or just a party - the instigator should be flexible and ready at least for the arrival of unexpected guests, friends of friends, and so on.
In general, for some reason it seems to me that if your New Year’s party is not just a simple olive gorge, and you are ready for nightly adventures, then everything will work out for you without any advice.”
Any person, even one who has never watched “Apple Pie,” sooner or later is faced with the need or has an irresistible desire to throw a loud house party with his own hands and become its king. TTR interviewed local art directors and partygoers about how to throw a party even better than the Project X heroes, and with a happy ending at that.
Vladimir Olovyanishnikov (Jeff D), art director of Gm Family campaigns (Oj Bar, Nebo Summer Restaurant, Teahouse No. 1 Lounge):
— House parties are parties that are built only on the atmosphere, which can happen by itself or be carefully thought out! A positive mood is the main basis of any home party. Among friends and beautiful girls everything will work out by itself. The amount of alcohol at a party, of course, is also an important factor (I recommend only high-quality alcohol). Our basics are over here, perhaps I’ll talk about those moments, or rather about what is needed in order not to spoil these basics. I won’t write about themed parties, everything is clear here: Halloween, so wear a vampire costume (as an example). I'll tell you about a house party with music and dancing:
- Only verified friends. Girls are an exception, although even here you need to be selective, because you don’t want to ruin your mood in the middle of the party.
- Service. You are the host of the party, make sure that you and your guests are comfortable, think through everything to the smallest detail.
- Music. 40% of a successful party is the musical mood; if you don’t want to tear your drunk friend away from the computer, remote control or tape recorder, you’d better call a pro! It could be anyone: a professional DJ or just your responsible friend.
- Purity. I don’t understand people who shit at guests, so I recommend it plastic dishes for drinks, but still depends on the level and budget of the party.
- MS or Language. There is always a person in the company who will amuse or rock your guests with his stories, but if all your friends are boring, just call a cheerful guy who won’t let you get bored.
Radion Rozadeev, former partygoer:
— The key to a successful house party is alcohol, neutral music, responsible friends who drink a little, at least two or three people (after all, you want to know your home in the morning), unbreakable dishes, but the most important thing is to distribute flyers about the party to people you really care about want to see, although there will be more than enough extra characters.
Vlad Revkov,event manager in the music industry:
Everyone has tried or wanted to throw a house party in the style of American films at least once in their life, but I think not everyone succeeded as intended. I'll give you a couple of tips based on own experience. The most important thing is to create an atmosphere so that your guests feel relaxed and at home!
The music should be chosen according to the tastes of the guests, since these are your friends, only you know what they prefer. Now every second person calls himself a DJ, so finding one for your party will not be difficult for you, choose from those that you like and that suit the music format. And you will also need a ringleader who will encourage and energize your guests.
The more guests, the merrier, but guys should be invited only to those with whom you know and have communicated personally! More than once there were cases when strangers ruined a party and destroyed the apartment, leaving only ruins.
An important point is the design of the apartment. It will set a contrast for your party, work on light music and garlands. Take ultraviolet lamps, or simply paint regular lamps. The ideal solution would be strobes. I also love fog generators! A very inexpensive item to rent, but it will rock your party and your guests will love it. The rest of the design depends on the flight of your imagination.
You need to think over an entertainment program, some active games. They will help make friends with your guests and introduce those who have not yet met. Drinking games, twister, and those where girls touch boys, and boys touch girls.
Of course, you can’t go without drinks. Everything here is limited only by your budget. Buy enough to have enough for all your guests until the morning. Be sure to buy sparkling water.
If suddenly your mother comes home, pretend that you are all cleaning the house. She will be happy.
Roman Romanov, “Choose” magazine, “Radar” media group:
The main thing for a home party is to invite your close friends and everything will work out right away, and there will be activities for every taste.
A successful party can only be organized after preliminary preparation. It requires careful planning of all aspects. To ensure you don't miss anything and plan for an unfavorable outcome, use our party plan.
The plan includes determining the theme of the party, choosing a date, time and room, drawing up a list of invitees and mailings, planning a budget, selecting suitable games, creating a menu, drinks, choosing decorations for the room, small gifts for guests and saying goodbye. Each of these points has its own nuances. Let's look at them in more detail. Subject. It is preferable to avoid "80s" type parties, since guests may have attended them more than once. Try to come up with something original. You can pick up an idea. After choosing, select the necessary details and decorations for the room. Take care of the musical accompaniment. Collect enough songs so that they don't go around in circles. Don't forget about the equipment. Date, time and place. Choose the best date for the party for your guests. Choose a time when most guests can arrive. Home parties have become a big hit these days, but you can also choose a public venue. A good option are restaurants, bars, public parks, entertainment centers, sports complexes, etc. Don't forget to decorate the room based on the theme of the event. If you're throwing a classic party, be sure to have napkins, cutlery, and lighting ready. Make sure people have easy access to food, drinks, and toilets. Place fragile and valuable items away. List of invitees. Events with a large number of people are considered the most successful, but guests should not feel like sardines in a barrel. Decide how many people you plan to invite and find out in advance exactly who will come. This is very important because you need to budget properly for food and room rentals. You can create an invitation using social networks and post it on your page. Beautiful picture with a description of the party will create an impression of pleasant anticipation. Then send each guest a message on social media. To get people to respond, ask a question at the end. If some people are not there, contact them most in a convenient way. Don't forget to include in the invitation important points, for example, for guests to take drinks or food, choose the appropriate outfit, indicate the cost of the party (if any). Start inviting them three or two weeks before the event. Budget. List all costs. If the amount turns out to be too impressive, exclude things that are not too important. Experts recommend including every guest in the party. Ask them to bring something with them, prepare music, do costumes, etc. This way you will involve people in the process, give them responsibilities and they will feel important and needed. This will increase the chances that all planned guests will arrive.
Now you know how to throw an amazing party. Only formalities remain. Take responsibilities seriously and resolve them as early as possible important details. Guests will remember you as a pleasant leader and will be happy to come next time.
The parents have left... then it's time to throw a huge party! Your parents have left, you and your girlfriend have rented an apartment or bought your own, or just found an empty space... then it's time to throw a grand party!
So, first of all, it is necessary to complete all urgent and urgent matters and, most importantly, not to start new ones, so that nothing can interfere with your holiday.
You should also not forget that those you are going to invite may also have such cases. Therefore, call everyone in advance and find out if they will be free at this time. It’s a good idea to know who might be late, whether everyone has the opportunity to get to you or, conversely, from you, and perhaps it wouldn’t hurt to agree on seeing off. Explain where the party will be held and make sure everyone finds the street, house, building, intercom and apartment.
1. Party area.
Such an event should be held in at least a 2-room apartment. Of course, if you have luxurious single apartments with an area of at least 50 meters, then feel free to prepare them for the celebration. The fact is that it is necessary to provide several so-called interest zones. Some people will want to discuss the problem of the Far East, others will want to discuss the latest episode of the new series. Under no circumstances should you lump everyone together.
Direct preparation of the apartment:
1. Hallway. It is necessary to free up as much space as possible for outerwear(especially if it’s not in the summer), shoes and bags. Put all your things in the closet. And free up space, and things will be safer. From all the pockets, take out slippers or any shoes suitable for wearing at home.
2. Bath and toilet. Leave the minimum amount of jars and bottles that guests actually need. In the bathroom there is soap and clean towels. In the toilet there is a sufficient amount of toilet paper.
3. Kitchen. In the kitchen, you should prepare a LOT of free space for dirty dishes, which will appear literally from the first minutes of the party until the end. Best to use disposable tableware. It is necessary to think about where it is better to put dirty, but not disposable, dishes. Stock up on plenty of garbage bags, napkins, sponges and rags. Don't forget the ashtray!
4. Rooms. In the rooms, follow the principle as in the case of the bathroom and toilet. We leave a minimum of things. All more or less valuable things should be put away. Otherwise, be sure that half of them will end up on the floor, and the guests will be tormented by a feeling of guilt for what they did. Do you need it?
2. Table.
There are several options here. Classic table with drinks and snacks. Remember that a party is not a feast. You should not fill the table with heavy food and strong alcoholic drinks. In this situation, the holiday quickly promises to turn into a quiet hour...
When seating yourself at the table, try to remember the relationship between the guests. If you seat everyone not according to their interests, then at least according to their tolerance to each other. You can throw a party in a Western style - do buffet. Place snacks and drinks around the apartment so everyone can come and grab what they need. There is a money factor to consider here. In my opinion, a buffet is easier not only on the stomach, but also on the wallet. Sandwiches, canapés, and chips are ideal for this option.
3. Entertainment.
The main component of any social event is entertainment. The main thing here is to be fully prepared. You can have a party with dancing, games, group viewing of a movie or discussion general(interesting!) topics.
Costume parties are a good option. For example, a retro party, a pajama party, etc. Let's say, if you decide to arrange retro party, then warn everyone in advance that entry is only in costumes from the 70s-80s. It will be so interesting to see who gets what from the chest!!!
Such a party will provide you with a great opportunity to immerse yourself in the atmosphere of past years: remember the once popular songs and dances. Try to imitate actors from old films. I think everything will come on its own in the process.
You can devote a party to a specific event, book, movie.
Competitions, games. The Internet is full of show jumping and entertainment. Your task is to choose what you consider the most interesting and suitable for your company. Games like Twister are extremely popular at parties.
4. Music.
5. About the computer.If you are not planning a computer party, and the music will not be played from it, it is best not to turn on the computer and generally disguise it so that no one remembers about it. Otherwise, some guests may get lost in the virtual wilderness until the end of the holiday. If, nevertheless, the computer is turned on, take care of the necessary files or files that are not intended for public viewing (for example, your photos, videos).
When the party is over and the guests have gone home, you have to inspect the apartment, collect garbage, sweep, shake out, wipe, wash and wash everything that needs it, mend, glue, sew and repair everything that can still be repaired, and tie knots for the future so that the next party will be even more fun.
Already chosen a theme, but still wondering where to hold the party? Tips from the creators of P&P especially for you!
Advantages and disadvantages of various places of “deployment” for those who are planning a great holiday with friends and family!
But before we begin the debriefing, it is best to consider some adviсe:
- When choosing a place for a holiday, you need to decide on the type of party, age category of guests, and your financial capabilities.
- Pay attention to the distance of the place from the city - this will give you food for thought about how to get there and how to leave there.
- Ask the administration about additional costs (deposit, parking, maintenance, tableware rental, electricity)
- Find out in advance about the restrictions (noise, music, age, permission to drink alcohol, smoking).
- The style of your party remains an important factor. It’s not entirely appropriate to spend it in an apartment, but on the beach.
- Think carefully about what and how you will entertain your guests. Think it over competitive program, get advice from a presenter or invite an animator for children.
- If you are organizing a party on your own, do not forget about lighting and music - the main components of a good holiday.
- When leaving far from the city, take with you not only food and drinks, but also a first aid kit.
- When celebrating in close proximity to water, it is best to remain sober.
House, apartment
Home is, of course, great choice. Here, dishes and a refrigerator are at hand. Late guests can be shoved into corners and left until the morning, and you yourself can fall into bed without cleaning up the mess :). However, owning your own home also has its drawbacks. Which? Let's see!
- Insufficient space for big company, a lot of furniture, dishes that can be damaged or broken.
- Noisy company is a punishment for neighbors.
- It is not always possible to organize a themed party due to lack of decor and space.
- Relatively cheap - you only need to pay for food and decorations.
- Everything is at hand - from attributes for competitions to your favorite music.
- An ideal economical solution during the cold season.
Own garden, meadow
The garden is an ideal solution for a quiet family dinner, children's party or. Beautiful trees bright flowers. But, as they say, the sun has spots too!
- If the weather is bad, the whole party will be closed.
- If there is lush vegetation, there is a chance that the garden will be trampled to the ground, especially if there are children among the guests.
- Option
- In the absence of trees, it is necessary to solve the problem of the scorching sun.
- Problem with a lot of insects.
- In the evening, the issue of lighting becomes acute.
- Fresh air and beautiful scenery.
- An ideal place for a modest tea party.
- Great place for a photo shoot.
River bank
Who doesn't love fishing, fun swimming and cool water on a summer evening? However, when thinking about where to throw a party, pay attention not only to the advantages of the chosen place, but also to its disadvantages.
- Danger of water for small children and drunk adults.
- A large number of mosquitoes during the day and evening.
- Only for the warm season.
- Cool in cloudy weather, as well as after sunset.
- If there is no tent or awning, rainy weather will ruin the whole evening.
- Possibility of holding a themed party - , .
- An opportunity to fish and play in the water for everyone present.
- A great way to freshen up after active games or in the heat of a summer day.
- A beautiful sunset and, as a result, gorgeous photos.
Country house
Do you love inviting friends to barbecue at your own dacha? Have a great weekend! However, is this a good place when you want to have a party?
- The “decor” of the premises usually leaves much to be desired, because our people bring exclusively unnecessary and old things to their dachas. Therefore, you can’t count on a glamorous party :).
- The remoteness of the country house from the city. Lack of transport for guests and, as a result, the inability to leave the cottage after the end of the holiday.
- If you have a small dacha it is very difficult to accommodate all the guests.
- Suitable for cold periods only if heating is available.
- In most cases, a summer house is an ideal solution for those who do not know where to hold a party. Here you can play loud music - summer residents are used to loud weekends, have fun and dance with all their might:).
- An excellent option for - the main thing is to choose the right topic. Especially in this case, dachas on the banks of a river, lake or bay are attractive.
- In case of bad weather, there is always the option of staying indoors or on the veranda.
- Fresh air and the company of friends will allow you to easily drag out the holiday even until dawn!
Nightclub
Prefer to have fun on the dance floor? Let's decide together whether a nightclub is suitable for a party?
- It’s an expensive pleasure, because you need to pay not only for entrance tickets for your guests, but also to reserve a table and treat everyone to drinks.
- Noise and a large number strangers may interfere with communication. This is especially problematic when one of the guests does not know the others well.
- Guests may not calculate the dose of alcohol and you will have to resolve issues with security, taxis, etc.
- This is not a realistic option if the company includes too many adults and/or children.
- Definitely a great place for a small group of people who know each other very well.
- Dancing until you drop.
- A solution for any time of year.
- A real stylish party.
- Good photos - most often nightclubs have their own photographers who are unlikely to miss a cheerful company of young people.
Bowling (billiards, karting, etc.)
Are you into sports or interesting games? Should this be the central attraction of the holiday?
- Many invitees may simply not like the style of celebration you have chosen. For example, I don’t play billiards and I start to get bored 10 minutes after the game starts :).
- An expensive pleasure, especially if you need to rent several tracks/tables/cars + you need to take into account the cost of food and drinks.
- For those who are bored, it’s a fairly monotonous activity – an hour or two and the party begins to “fade out.”
- A fun pastime for true connoisseurs - my friend celebrated his birthday at a bowling alley and we had a great time together, even though many of us were playing for the first time.
- Non-standard entertainment for some people, because many have never been anywhere other than a cinema in their lives :).
- Possibility of holding a holiday 365 days a year :).
- Lots of funny pictures.
- In principle, it is suitable for children aged 12-15 years.
- You can arrange competitions by first dividing the guests into teams.
Children's entertainment complex
Are you planning a children's party and want to relax yourself at the same time? Read and think :).
- The financial side of the issue is quite significant.
- The venue is for children only.
- Limited area and work of animators.
- Impossibility of holding “your own” holiday.
- Children have fun with the animator, you relax.
- Convenient for parents whose children were born in the cold season :).
At sea
Do you dream of a warm sea with your friends? Perhaps the question of where to throw a party can be easily resolved?!
- The idea is expensive. You only dream about such a holiday in one case - the guests don’t give you gifts, but spend everything on travel + take into account the costs of housing, food and entertainment.
- If the sea is too far away, there is no point in going there for just two days.
- Not realistic in the cold season :)
- Fun :)
- Sea :)
- Change of scenery, new places
- A great birthday for any company.
In a cafe, restaurant, karaoke bar
Are you planning a luxurious holiday at a venue? We weigh all the advantages and disadvantages!
- Expensive. A banquet these days, even in the simplest cafe, starts from $13 per person. And this does not include dessert, alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks.
- A theme party will only take place in a closed hall. And this all comes down to money again :).
- You will be fed and watered - you won’t have to cook anything or clear the table.
- You can sing and dance to your heart's content, depending on the level of entertainment in the establishment.
Rented recreation center, boarding house, sanatorium
Many former children's camps, recreation centers, Soviet sanatoriums, etc. practice renting out houses, sheds, barbecues and furniture for holding events on their territory mass events. But are there any disadvantages to this type of vacation?
- There is a limited number of sleeping places - there are enough tables and chairs, but in a rented house there may be only a couple of beds. We'll have to think about where to put the guests.
- Suitable for summer only.
- You will have to prepare treats, transport food to the base, and also think about transporting guests :).
- Fairly loyal pricing policy.
- The opportunity to listen to music loudly and dance, because everyone around is relaxing.
- An excellent option for those whose guests like to stay longer, because the rent is paid per day.
- If the base is located within the city, then you can get to it public transport, and you can actually get home by taxi.
- Great place for a themed party.
- The presence of both open area and canopies.
- In 99 cases out of 100, there is close proximity to water.
Yacht, motor ship
Recently, holidays on the water have become relevant and interesting. Does this type of vacation really have a lot of advantages?
- High price for renting a watercraft.
- It is also necessary to take into account the costs of catering, and in the case of a yacht, the crew’s salaries.
- If there are heavily drinking guests, this is a dangerous pastime; there is a chance that you will spend the rest of the evening fishing guests out of the water.
- A yacht cannot accommodate a large number of people, and ships are not always beautiful.
- Only for holidays in the warm season.
- Exotic and fun.
Zoo
Are you planning a fun children's party? Is there a possibility that spending it at the zoo could be fun?
- Treats include only hot dogs, cotton candy, ice cream and carbonated drinks.
- If the zoo is small, then the fun will end in an hour.
- Only for the warm season.
- A large number of people, if there is a large group of children, there is a danger of losing someone along the way.
- A zoo can be a pleasant addition to children's party which takes place at home or in the country. To entertain the children with something, you can take them to the zoo.
- At the zoo you can organize a competition for the best drawing or the best parody of an animal.
- Affordable pleasure.
- Especially relevant for a children's Zoo themed party.
- You can arrange a fun quest with cards on the theme “Who can find the monkey faster?”
Private house or apartment for rent
Does it make sense to rent a house or apartment for a holiday? Let's figure it out together!
- Many owners do not rent out their premises for entertainment events, fearing broken dishes and problems with the police.
- Quite an expensive pleasure + the cost of servicing the holiday.
- The need to cook and carry food yourself.
- An opportunity to have a great time - often houses of this kind are equipped with a swimming pool, sauna or billiards (for a fee).
- Availability of separate rooms.
- If this is a house, there is a local area, most often there is a gazebo or canopy.
- Dishes, refrigerator, electricity - everything is at hand.