Psychology of women / 09.08.2019

How to seduce a married woman at work. Rules for seducing a married woman

In fact, human society, since the time of King Pea, has carefully advised men not to hang dangerously close to the fragrant skirts of their neighbor’s wife. And, believe me, not at all because it is immoral and immoral. Quite the opposite. It’s just that our wise ancestors knew for sure since the Ice Age: seducing a woman is a very quick and extremely simple matter. But seducing a married woman in general is easier than ever. The only question is - why do you need this?
Oh, it’s still necessary... You’ve never met such a beauty in your life, you’re going crazy with passion and are ready for literally anything. Okay, I'm ready to agree with this. Moreover, despite the fact that over the past two years I have written no less than a thousand times that all of Eve’s daughters are the same in principle, which means that the one you so ardently desire is absolutely no different from the others. Or rather, it is different, but only in that it is not yours. That is why you desperately want her.

Well, if you need it so much, take it. But first, remember the four big DON’Ts that every decent man should take into account when seducing a married woman.
LARGE DON'T:

1 DO NOT interfere with the family nest, which was founded by a respectable, influential and wealthy man. And this despite the fact that bankers and pot-bellied businessmen, as luck would have it, have incredibly high-quality and fresh wives. I think additional explanations are unnecessary. You yourself understand perfectly well that at best you will be beaten very badly. And this, I repeat, is the best case scenario. So stay away from pretty ladies in silver sables and black Mercedes. Even if they themselves strive to hang around your neck. They, of course, have fun. But here’s to you... However, you still have one loophole... Quickly become wealthy, respectable and influential, and only then steal his rightful half from your new Russian colleague. Although it is unlikely that she will interest you then. You will immediately buy yourself a brand new one - brighter, younger and not used.

2 DO NOT try to interfere with the idiotic and, in essence, completely harmless happiness of the newlyweds. Firstly, in the first two months after a hard-won and long-awaited wedding, women become so pathologically stupid that they are unable to react to any external stimuli. Secondly, according to statistics, newlyweds spend 90 percent of their time in bed, doing whatever they want until they are completely mentally and physically exhausted. Don't climb into the marriage bed! And in general, you shouldn’t waste your time and nerves - yesterday’s bride simply won’t understand that you are seducing her. You can pinch her, pull her, lift up her skirt and even drop her on the sofa - the young wife will still look inside herself with well-fed honey eyes and from time to time tenderly say: “And my bunny - can you imagine? - loved to steal apples as a child. .. Isn’t it cute?” Therefore, if you are not lazy, wait a little. After a year or so, the beauty’s eyes will lose all their honeyedness and begin to sparkle with the beautiful, hungry sparkle of an unsatisfied predator, the bunny will turn into an ordinary goat, and the phrase about stolen apples will be heard with outright regret that, alas, stolen apples in our country are not shot . And right on the spot.

3 You CANNOT seduce a woman who is unhappy in her marriage from the true path. Well, there, her husband is a drunkard, or beats her up in vain, or walks wildly... You never know how much grief there is in a cat’s fate. It is better for an honest libertine not to get involved in such a family. This sounds paradoxical, of course, but judge for yourself. First of all, it's simply unsporting. The prey is so easy that your act will strongly resemble the most ordinary poaching. Secondly, this is somehow completely inhumane. What can you give the poor thing, except one hasty sexual intercourse a week? But she needs to get married, for real, in a good way, with borscht, kids and washing machine"Vyatka-semi-automatic". You won't marry her, will you? You won't take it. So it turns out - they stroked a stray kitten on its matted fur, treated it to a sausage of dubious freshness, and then took it and threw it out the door. Very humane.

4 And, finally, the most important thing, a big and categorical NO. Under no circumstances should you meet your chosen one’s husband, much less drink with him. Women are big bitches and famous sadomasochists. Don’t feed them bread, but let them bring both husband and lover together on the same territory. In order to compare them with each other in a calm atmosphere once again and secretly enjoy their power. Here, they say, which ones I grabbed. Yes, two at once. Categorically do not succumb to her provocations and avoid meeting your opponent at all costs. And not at all for reasons of personal safety. It’s just that men, unlike women, are collective creatures, in other words, pack creatures. The feeling of camaraderie is in their blood. Therefore, I bet one hundred against one hundred that you will sincerely feel sorry for the poor horned fellow. Because he's probably a completely normal guy. And after the first bottle, a normal man, as you know, easily turns first into a great guy, and then into the best buddy... In general, after the third you will probably lose forever married mistress, but you will gain a bosom buddy. Which is better is unknown. Choose for yourself.

Anyway, enough moralizing. Let's move on to tactics.
So, we decided that it is best to break up full-fledged, happy, healthy, moderately wealthy families of about five to seven years old. And preferably with a certain number of children. This is it. Just a nutritious broth for breeding lovers.

A woman, of course, cannot escape from such a cozy and familiar swamp; she is warm and damp there, but also bored to the point of complete impossibility. Especially if the husband is already thoroughly fed up, and the cubs have grown so much that they do not require all of the mother’s time and energy.

Now is the time for you to appear on stage. But not at her house, God forbid, not at her house! Her house is generally taboo for you and for your novel. Try to unobtrusively get to know the object of your passion (or boredom) on completely neutral territory. Simultaneously with the acquaintance, begin the most active collection of information about your future lover - the family situation, interests, likes, dislikes, weaknesses and habits. However, you most likely won’t have to try very hard - women are talkative, and married women are talkative to the point of indecency - so she will tell you everything herself. The main thing is to be patient and filter through this entire muddy and colossal stream of words, which any woman will never fail to bring down on a man’s head.

That's it, consider that you have already taken the first (and most important!) step towards rapprochement. You listened to her! Of course, her husband (if he, of course, normal person) stopped communicating with her for at least the third month after their unforgettable wedding- oh, you can’t imagine what a cute dress I had... everything is so transparent, one continuous guipure all the way to the floor, and at the bottom there are such tiny ruffles with silver edging and soutache, soutache, soutache...

In general, she will tell you everything and even without leading questions. And you take it into account, take it into account! How many years has she not been to the theater, and how many - to the movies, that ice cream is best vanilla with chocolate, and creme brulee has made her sick since first grade, that cloves are disgusting, and Ivan Ivanovich, the head of the planning department, is a sweetheart and a handsome guy, but he wears such disgusting shoes, and you have simply amazing taste - wow, what a tie: pink piglets on a green background, a miracle! - your wife probably gave it to you? Oh, you're not married...

You must act according to the information received. (Although to be sure, it is worth double-checking her, carefully consulting with her friends and colleagues, because even truthful women - for a completely incomprehensible reason - willingly and a lot lie about little things.) If the husband abandoned the doll long ago and thoroughly, and she yearns for great and pure passion - shower her with flowers (prudently sending bouquets by messenger directly to her work), tender notes and wet kisses. If she is not satisfied intellectually, visit exhibitions and vernissages together with her, urgently find out who Borges is, and learn a couple of poems by Georgy Ivanov. If her husband, on the contrary, is unhealthy active and your lady is crazy about skydiving, ice fishing and mountain biking, buy her fuzzy slippers with pom-poms, a ball of wool and knitting needles. And in addition, tell him that what you value most in women is comfort and homeliness.

In general - act according to the situation and method from the opposite. That is, generously give your married beloved everything that her callous and unscrupulous husband deprived her of for many hopeless years. And when the intensity of your joint passion subsides a little, think for a second and try to remember how many years you haven’t taken your own wife to the theater? A? And anyway, where did she go?
Small adultery is not allowed
1 You cannot drag out adultery for more than a year - champagne is drunk in one gulp, otherwise it fizzles out and turns into vile, sweet water.
2 Never promise anything and never say “I love you.” It's hard because she will pull those words out of you in every possible way, but you hold on. You say - you're finished. No comments.
3 No meetings at her or your home. Only a rented apartment and absolutely neutral territory. Otherwise, you will never get your beauty away from home. So, by inertia, you will run into the light - drink cognac and complain about life - until you go crazy. And then, lo and behold, she’ll ask to get married...
4 You cannot give gifts that can easily be used to identify you. And in general, it’s better not to give her anything at all. For her own good.
5 Meeting places (meeting places) should be changed as often as possible, no kissing in public places, metro and public transport use it as little as possible - they will detect it. However, they will detect it in any case. The world is not without good people.
6 You cannot leave traces of ardent passion (in the form of scratches, bites and bruises) even in the most secluded and sweet places of your lover. Not good... She, after all, has a legal husband... Children...

How to seduce married woman
Situations happen that you become interested in something and sometimes you have absolutely no strength to fight this feeling. And the very fact that the chosen one already has someone traumatizes the soul and psyche. But nothing is impossible. Seduce already married girl quite real.
The first thing you need to know is that you should never interfere with the family itself, especially if her husband is an influential and rich man. In such a situation, there is a risk of not only not getting anything from the chosen one, but also getting punches from her husband.

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Second. If a girl got married recently, then it will be extremely difficult to seduce her. She hasn't lost her love yet. Of course, nothing is impossible in this case. But only if, before the marriage, there were omissions and problems in the already established relationship between the spouses, or when the marriage was forced.
Third. First of all, for a married lady you need to become. If you are just an acquaintance or a good friend to her, then everything is pretty bad and there is little chance. But if you manage to interest her and make her imagination deviate from marital fidelity, considering you as a lover, then the job is half done.
Fourth. A married woman craves attention just like an unmarried woman. But this manifests itself especially acutely if she has been married for several years and her husband has stopped paying her special attention and tenderness. Then sympathy, complements and your external data will play into your hands and allow you to quickly gain her trust and seduce her.

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Fifth. During the first meeting, you should under no circumstances constantly talk about yourself. It is better to leave your personality more mysterious, a secret for her. But you need to listen to it carefully and thoughtfully. This will show her how serious your intentions are and how interested she is in you. She also needs to be amused so that the conversation does not seem one-sided. Your participation in the conversation should be unobtrusive, full of understanding, but also fun. So that she sees in you not only a “vest”, but a man who is interested in her and ready to listen to her, support and cheer her up.
Sixth. If the first time you tried to get closer to her, you received a refusal, then this does not mean that she is not interested in you. This is the most favorite pastime of married women. The husband no longer sees a goal in her, but if an unfamiliar man achieves it, then she wants to feel even more

And today I, the witch Olga, am going to talk about how to achieve love and make any married woman, or a woman in an informal relationship with another man, yours. But just remember that all this will work provided that you want to make the woman YOURS - at least take her into your house or into your apartment, and not so that after losing or having a quick sleep, you immediately break up with her.

We will achieve exactly serious relationship, since they and only they are the only valuable ones. You want fast ones, but nothing meaningful victories– go to sites with a pickup artist. I will talk about how to achieve the love of a woman who currently belongs to another, immediately promising that I will definitely tell you about how to keep this love in the very near future.

Well, before I start teaching you the technique of attracting a woman’s attention, I’ll start with a very interesting letter sent to me by one of my clients, which I publish without cuts and with the full consent of the author:

“Let’s start with the fact that the proverbs “it’s not good to take someone else’s property” and “you can never build your own on someone else’s happiness” were invented by losers who tried to protect their unions and marriages with the help of such “lofty words.” If you do not agree with this, then immediately close this page of my favorite site, because the entire text below is addressed to real men who are ready to go ahead, take what is theirs, and, if necessary, protect what they have received at the cost of bruises and abrasions. And not necessarily your own.

Well, we understand that none of these sayings work even in the sandbox, when one day we notice little cute Lenochka in it. We look at her and understand that we are ready to exchange all our cars and all our transformers so that she can play Easter eggs or mother-daughter games not with the neighbor Valerka, but with us. But Valerka already exists, and he has already claimed his rights to Lenochka and is not going to disappear anywhere. Therefore, for the first time, we are faced with an adult choice - either leave everything as it is and leave, or give Valerka blows, receiving in response (which is very likely) bruises and abrasions.

And we still don’t know that such choices determine our entire lives, as well as the quality of our sexual and personal lives - to give up and retreat, or to get involved in battle and take ours... And this despite the fact that every day society cultivates in us completely different values, the main one is that it is not good to appropriate someone else’s property! And seducing and making someone else’s wife your own is even worse! For some reason, it is believed that the woman you can fall in love with must be free. And if she has a husband, then you have no right to even look at her, let alone want to.

I don’t care what you did, but all the women I had were taken by me from other men. A girl or woman who was not needed by anyone, that is, lonely, never seemed valuable to me. But the fact that she had a boyfriend allowed me to talk about the presence of a certain sign of quality that was present not only in the woman I beat off, but also in me, the man who beat her off. Perhaps this is akin to a sports victory, or the feeling of the strongest who gets everything. But even though I’ve been involved in sports all my life, not a single sports victory has given me pleasure similar to what you feel when you look at a woman you beat off. And when you “hunt” for a woman, neither bruises nor a broken nose will be cancelled, which makes the hunt more interesting and brighter.

Lenochka, although she was considered the first beauty in the city (in the junior league - naturally), was a poor student. Even though I was good, put us next to each other and you understand that I had no chance. Her guys were tall, handsome, strong. And I am a gray male mouse who has not yet gotten rid of teenage acne. Only I had two huge advantages: time and patience - and I had my eye on Lenochka back in the 5th grade.

Throughout sixth grade, I slowly “educated” her. At first, he won the right to accompany her to classes in the pool. In the seventh, she allowed me to ask her to dance a couple of times. At the beginning of the eighth, I accompanied Lenochka from school every day. Thanks to this, Lenochka got used to me. But her suitors are not. And since there were a huge number of hooligans among them (pretty girls always like bad boys), I got the worst of it. And because I didn’t shine in strength in those days, I was always on the sidelines - not even a backup option, but something in between, between a servant and a jester. But I stayed, and the hooligans changed at the speed of a bullet. And each of them considered it their duty to arrange a “grater” with me:
- She's not for you! Get out of here! I'll go with her!

And again a week or two passed, and the bully disappeared. And I stayed. And at the same time, in constant skirmishes with them, I learned to fight. And one day the day came when I defeated the strongest bully, and Lenochka went to me. And I got it completely and completely.

But then we finished school. Lenochka went to vocational school, I went to college and a successful life. We parted, and each of us began our own personal story. I will talk about mine. I had many women and several wives. And I fought them all off, because it’s different to value good attitude women to me, and mine to her, I simply could not.

And recently I met Lenochka - she had gained weight, looked ugly, shabby, somehow. She almost threw herself on my neck. And when I took her to a cafe, she immediately began to tell me that she dreamed of leaving her husband and leaving for me. We broke up immediately! I referred to an urgent call from the office and left. But I remained grateful to her. After all, it was she who taught me to be a real man! And for this I will always remember her!

Alexander G."

But the point of the letter was not to tell me some “life story.” The author asked me to answer the question “is he okay?” Has he become a hostage to some strange game in which it is difficult for him to love a woman who does not need to be won off from another man? And can women who agree to be beaten off be considered normal?

I'll start with the most important thing:

Any woman likes it when men fight for her. But only a stupid woman brings everything to the most cruel conclusion in order to leave with someone who is stronger. Whereas the smart one chooses the best of two candidates in order to stay with the most successful one.

But in any case, a woman likes such attention, because it allows her to feel needed and valuable. And the opportunity to choose not from just one man, but from 2 or even 3, allows her to avoid those mistakes and life’s troubles that haunt her plain-looking and useless friends, who are forced to cling with a death grip to the first person they come across . Moreover, if both applicants are ugly, stupid, old and poor, the woman still feels happy and still chooses the strongest (see above) or the most successful of them.

But everything is not so simple. Often the choice a woman makes is so unpredictable that it is incredibly difficult to describe its criteria, or, if you will, the “trump cards” that her chosen one has. But I, the witch Olga, will still try to do this, focusing on the most important points that determine not only the choice, but also the very possibility of it:

1. To begin with, a woman must be dissatisfied with the marriage she currently has. Manifestations of such dissatisfaction can be very different - from outright complaints, to the fact that she began to stay at work more often, rests alone, or does not answer her husband’s calls, although at the moment she is not doing anything special.

2. She is attracted not even to the one who is sexier or richer than the other, but to the one of the two who is ready to treat her with real care and responsibility. If she is just getting married, then she is more interested in someone who wants a stable or serious relationship. And here the “bird in hand” principle, so wonderfully described in the well-known “Dowry,” comes into play.

3. She should see the candidate partner extremely often - work together with him, study, live under the same roof. The option “rich, but appears once a year” is not acceptable for any woman.

4. She will cheat if she is not stopped by certain aggravating factors - children, sick parents for whose treatment her husband pays, a joint business that she runs with her husband. Alas, you will be the last to “kill” the “inner caretaker” who lives in the soul of any woman, even if you can help the woman get rid of the fear of sex in public places or the fear of public condemnation.

5. Well, you must be able to provide for her, her present and future children. And even in modern world This is not the number one trump card; it still occupies second place in the list of women’s ratings.

Now look at the woman you decided to seduce. Are all the points the same? Then let me teach you how to properly seduce a married lady.

1. Become her best friend.

Married women both want and fear genuine passion. And if you compare dreams and fear, then the fear will always be great, because even if they are bad, they already have a husband, and no one ever knows how they will end up with their lover. Therefore, you should not immediately portray crazy love, which will scare away a married woman, since it will increase the fear that lives in her of losing the little and wretched thing that she has - her unhappy family life. Always start with friendship, which should be full of devotion, understanding, light patronage and constant reminders that although you really like the woman, you initially agree to be with her only as her friend.

But such seduction tactics have their pitfalls. One of them is that a woman may begin to consider you not her friend, but her girlfriend. If this happens, she will certainly start crying on your shoulder, discussing her minor everyday problems, sharing culinary recipes and discussing shopping. If this happens, then consider that nothing will happen to you. After all, even if you confess your love to a woman, she will definitely answer you joyfully:
“Both I and I love you! But as a best friend! - and with best friends, as you know, they do not make love or sex.

Therefore, always clearly define the line that separates a strong, sexy and intelligent male friend from an asexual, almost gay friend who does not evoke any sexual emotions.

2. Always try to act in complete contrast.

You must not only awaken in a woman sexual attraction or love. You must make her decide that you are her husband's best. And it’s so much better that she can leave her husband and go to you. This is not difficult to do if from the very beginning you begin to implement the first point of the scheme proposed by me, the witch Olga. By becoming a friend to a married woman, you instantly gain access to all her secrets. To the fact that she doesn’t like and irritates her in her spouse - including this. Therefore, take the trouble to listen carefully and remember everything, so that after that you can begin to build your behavior in complete contrast.
The husband is greedy - be generous.
Your husband drinks a lot - give up alcohol.
Your husband doesn’t want to have children - become the best (potential, of course) father in the world.
The husband does not share the woman’s hobby or condemns her worldview - become her spiritual brother, or start doing the same hobby as her.

You can become better in any direction. So women, suffering from the fact that their husbands are overweight and out of shape, are drawn to athletic and fit men. Those who are tired of poverty will never pass by a man who earns good money. Women who are tired of being everything free time spend at home, they will look with burning eyes at a man who spends all his free time at exhibitions, premieres, friendly get-togethers or traveling. Etc.

In general, disassemble the image of your opponent into its components, and create the image of his complete antagonist, and I promise - the woman you choose will definitely fall in love with you.

3. Maintain complete anonymity.

Remember when I talked about the fear that any married woman experiences before cheating? It is because of him that you should try to maintain complete anonymity, doing everything so that her husband does not know anything about you or about his wife’s attitude towards you. This should be done for 3 reasons:
first - you will create a feeling of security in a woman, which will allow her to decide to have an affair with you, and she will do this only when she believes that it will not harm her marriage;
second - too early a showdown with her husband can pretty much ruin your life, especially if he is a psychopath, hysterical, or has a violent temper, multiplied by physical fitness;
third - you cannot guarantee that the woman you are currently seducing will turn out to be “exactly the one”, and therefore, without quarreling with her husband, you can return her back to the family at any time, saying at the same time that she is in everyone is to blame for deciding to sit on two chairs at once, or something like that.

But remember, if a woman suddenly decides to introduce you to her husband, this is a sign of complete failure. She decided that you could become a friend of the family, and friends... But I already wrote about this.

4. Try to please her friends.

You didn’t know, but the pattern is incredibly simple - the more “close friends” a married woman has, the more unhappy she is in her marriage. Therefore, first of all, take a closer look: if next to the object of seduction you do not see a flock of friends with whom she spends most of her free time, meets after work, constantly calls back, and to whom she trusts her secrets, the more she loves her husband, and the less ready to cheat on him.

If you have friends, be sure to give them maximum of your friendly attention. Remember that it is your friends who will begin to persuade a woman to cheat on you and her husband if they like you. And with the same zeal they will persuade her not to cheat with you if they don’t like you. And if so, then be sure to pay your attention to her friends, while observing maximum caution. If you overdo it, the woman whose reciprocity you are seeking will begin to set you up with one of her single friends, deciding that your attention to her is a sign that you like her.

That is why a woman’s friends should be treated exactly like her friends - I am friends with you because I really like this lady. And besides, you must constantly show them: Look how wonderful I am! Compare me to her husband! See how much better I am than him! And tell her, stupid, that she is completely in vain refusing the happiness that I am ready to give her!

5. Learn not only to listen, but also to speak.

Psychologists have long noticed that married women, even those living with impotent husbands, primarily suffer not from a lack of sex, but from a lack of communication. They may have a million girlfriends, but it is when communicating with a male friend that they feel truly complete. Especially if a male friend knows how to listen carefully, with interest, empathy and without interrupting.

But it won’t be possible for a long time to travel only due to the ability to listen. A woman will pour out her soul to you for about 2, at least 4 weeks. After this, she will dry up, her mental wounds will heal, and she will demand something in return. She will need communication in which she can talk with an interesting, witty interlocutor. And therefore, if you do not know the art of maintaining a conversation, start learning this right now.

After all, unlike lovers, who spend most of the time they spend together on kissing and sex, you will not have such pauses. You will have to communicate closely and constantly. And if you can't keep in touch on a regular basis high level, then the woman will not need you. She already has her own boring and uninteresting bore - her husband. And she absolutely does not need a second such individual.

I once wrote that when going to cheat, a woman first of all makes an exchange - she exchanges her old life for a new one, a boring man for an interesting one. And if there is nothing to exchange for, then the exchange (betrayal) will not take place.

6. Be careful.

But it’s not enough to just talk and listen. You also need to be able to hear. But do not think that I advise you to constantly agree with a woman, or from time to time remember what she said. A true man What distinguishes something from a fake is the ability to act. Therefore, always be ready for action. She says that she is bored - take her to a concert or to the theater. She complains that she is not growing spiritually - give her a volume of poetry or a couple of fashionable novels. She says she doesn't go anywhere - take her to an expensive restaurant.

Remember that she suffers from her husband’s indifference and his chronic indifference, and therefore if you show that you do not suffer from either the first or the second, she will definitely fall in love with you. After all, your woman’s life is boring and routine, and therefore she will always be drawn to someone who will give her a real holiday. Only this holiday should make your dreams come true, not yours. And I will now explain what exactly I mean:
Taking a woman to football, to a beer bar, fishing, or to noisy gatherings of your friends is not right.
Taking her to places where she has long dreamed of visiting and introducing her to those whose attention she lacks is the only true option.

And it’s all very simple to understand: she herself will tell you how much she liked the holiday you organized or didn’t like it at all. You are her friend, and friends don’t need to lie and tell lies. Therefore, do not doubt that you will always receive a firm assessment of everything you do for her.

7. Show that your relationship is not completely stable.

And you will have to try this trick at least once. When you see that a woman has completely let you into her life and finds communication with you not only pleasant, but also natural, be sure to give her a psychological “ice shower.” Without warning, just disappear for a couple of days (up to a maximum of 5), and then return in the same way without explanation. At the same time, act as if you have someone on your side with whom you are about to fall in love.

It is such a step that will make a woman:
a) think about who you are for her;
b) understand that she loves you;
c) understand that she can lose you;
d) decide to take steps that can help her keep you close to her.

It has been noticed that in 8 out of 10 cases, it is after such a disappearance and return that the relationship between a man and a married woman moves from the level of romantic or friendly to the level of sex. And most women do not know any other way to keep a man close to them than to surrender to him. Thus, they show: “I am ready for anything, even betrayal! If only you stayed with me, and didn’t look for solace on the side! I'm scared to lose you!!!"

But, by the way, your disappearance may also show that a woman does not need you. If after him she meets you, showing that she wasn’t worried, if she doesn’t try to “find out the whole truth,” and if she doesn’t be jealous of you, it’s bad. You remained her friend or acquaintance, but she never thought about an affair with you, and she will not think about it in the future.

8. Don’t forget to talk about your feelings.

You will also not be able to do without declarations of love. But you just have to admit it right time. Too early and a woman, tormented by the fear of losing her marriage, will push you away because she will not be ready for either cheating or changing her life. Too late - and she will burn out, relegating you to the role of her friend, and safely burying her love under the decision: “HE doesn’t love me, he’s not interested in me. God, what a mistake I could have made! It’s good that I didn’t tell my husband about anything! I will now be a super-faithful wife forever! And with him (with you) we will remain only friends.”

You should confess at the moment of greatest happiness that the woman next to you will experience, when you can give her a real holiday. Or during your return (see points above), when you see that she is happy that you are back with her, although she already thought that she had lost you forever. The third option is that the woman herself can ask you about your feelings, if this answer is not enough for her to decide whether to cheat on her husband or not.

And you should always say only one thing:
- I love you!
- I can’t live without you!
- I want to live my whole life with you!

And the last thing is the most important for any married woman. She will almost never exchange her marriage for a relationship that may soon end in nothing. She needs a man with whom she will not only be interested and joyful, but who will also make her his wife. Was this never part of your plans? Then think carefully about whether it’s worth starting the game. But if you are ready to lie about “I want to spend eternity with you,” then lie, otherwise you will not be able to get a married woman to give herself to you.
Witch Olga

Is it worth doing?

Surely many men looked at pretty women and were sad to learn that they were married. In fact, human society has long discouraged men from hovering dangerously close to their neighbor’s wife. Some people think that seducing a married woman is easy. The only question is - why is this necessary?

Ah, after all, someone needs it. Otherwise there would be no betrayal. What motivates a man who seduces a married woman? Passion, love, the opportunity to be with a woman and at the same time be free from some obligations, the desire to possess someone else's wife?

Before you set yourself the goal of seducing a married lady, think about whether it’s worth doing it at all. After all, you can easily seduce. Are you ready to maintain a secret love affair, or do you just need to have some fun a couple of times? Well, if the passion is strong, try it, after all, it is not such a difficult task. It all depends on the woman herself. You can seduce one very quickly and easily, but the other will have to be worked on subtly and for a longer time, because as they say: “water wears away stones.”

So, first, remember the four “don’ts” that a man should take into account when seducing a married woman.

1. You cannot interfere with the family nest, which was founded by a respectable, influential and wealthy man. And this despite the fact that bankers and pot-bellied businessmen, as luck would have it, have incredibly high-quality and fresh wives. At best, you will be beaten very badly. Therefore, stay away from pretty ladies in silver sables and black Mercedes. Even if they themselves strive to hang on your neck. They, of course, have fun. But for you... However, if you are from the same circle, and with With a lot of money and connections, you will obviously get away with it, although it is unlikely that you will be interested in her then. You will immediately buy a new one - brighter and younger, right?

2. You cannot try to interfere with the happiness of the newlyweds. A waste of time. Of course, there are exceptions, but they are quite rare. Therefore, if you are not an unhappy lover, then look around and find yourself another married lady.

3. You cannot seduce a woman who is unhappy in her marriage from the true path, unless, of course, you want to marry her later. First of all, it's not interesting. The extraction is very easy. Secondly, this is inhumane. Surely she needs a husband more than a lover.

4. You cannot meet your chosen one’s husband, much less drink with him. At least for reasons of personal safety.

So, your goal is a woman with a normal family and better with children. A woman, of course, cannot escape from such a cozy and familiar swamp; she is warm and damp there, but also bored to the point of complete impossibility. Especially if the husband is already thoroughly fed up, and the cubs have grown so much that they do not require all of the mother’s time and energy.

Now is the time for you to appear on stage. But not at her house. Her house is generally taboo for you and for your novel. You don't want her reputation to suffer. Try to unobtrusively get to know the object of your passion on completely neutral territory. Simultaneously with the acquaintance, begin the most active collection of information about your future lover - the family situation, interests, likes, dislikes, weaknesses and habits.

You must act according to the information received. If the husband abandoned the doll long ago and thoroughly, and she yearns for great and pure passion, shower her with flowers, tender notes and wet kisses. If she is not satisfied intellectually, go to exhibitions and opening days with her. Choose places for walks so that there is little chance of meeting any of her or your acquaintances or friends.

It is better not to drag out a love affair for more than one year. Meeting places must be changed as often as possible, do not kiss in public places, use the metro and public transport as little as possible - they will be detected. However, they can detect it in any case. The world is not without good people.

You cannot leave traces of passionate passion (in the form of scratches, bites and bruises) even in the most secluded and sweet places of your lover. You don’t want her husband to kick her out of the house, do you? Then you, as the culprit, will have to help. Why unnecessary problems?

So, knowing these simple rules, think about whether you really want to accomplish what you have in mind.

HOW TO SEDUCE A MARRIED WOMAN
(behavior and situation problems)

In fact, human society, since the time of King Pea, has carefully advised men not to hang dangerously close to the fragrant skirts of their neighbor’s wife. And, believe me, not at all because it is immoral and immoral. Quite the opposite. It’s just that our wise ancestors knew for sure since the Ice Age: seducing a woman is a very quick and extremely simple matter. But seducing a married woman in general is easier than ever. The only question is - why do you need this? Oh, it’s still necessary... You’ve never met such a beauty in your life, you’re going crazy with passion and are ready for literally anything. Okay, I'm ready to agree with this. Moreover, despite the fact that over the past two years I have written no less than a thousand times that all of Eve’s daughters are the same in principle, which means that the one you so ardently desire is absolutely no different from the others. Or rather, it is different, but only in that it is not yours. That is why you desperately want her. Well, if you need it so much, take it. But first, remember the four big DON’Ts that every decent man should take into account when seducing a married woman.
LARGE DON'T:
1 DO NOT interfere with the family nest, which was founded by a respectable, influential and wealthy man. And this despite the fact that bankers and pot-bellied businessmen, as luck would have it, have incredibly high-quality and fresh wives. I think additional explanations are unnecessary. You yourself understand perfectly well that at best you will be beaten very badly. And this, I repeat, is the best case scenario. So stay away from pretty ladies in silver sables and black Mercedes. Even if they themselves strive to hang around your neck. They, of course, have fun. But here you go... However, you still have one loophole... Quickly become wealthy, respectable and influential yourself, and only then steal his rightful half from your new Russian colleague. Although it is unlikely that she will interest you then. You will immediately buy yourself a brand new one - brighter, younger and not used.
2 DO NOT try to interfere with the idiotic and, in essence, completely harmless happiness of the newlyweds. Firstly, in the first two months after a hard-won and long-awaited wedding, women become so pathologically stupid that they are unable to react to any external stimuli. Secondly, according to statistics, newlyweds spend 90 percent of their time in bed, doing what they know until they are completely mentally and physically exhausted. Don't climb into the marriage bed! And in general, you shouldn’t waste your time and nerves - yesterday’s bride simply won’t understand that you are seducing her. You can pinch her, pull her, lift up her skirt and even drop her on the sofa - the young wife will continue to look inside herself with well-fed honey eyes and from time to time tenderly say;<А мой зайчик - вы представляете? - в детстве обожал воровать яблоки... Правда, мило?>Therefore, if you are not lazy, wait a little. After a year or so, the beauty’s eyes will lose all their honeyedness and begin to sparkle with the beautiful, hungry sparkle of an unsatisfied predator, the bunny will turn into an ordinary goat, and the phrase about stolen apples will be heard with outright regret that, alas, stolen apples in our country are not shot . And right on the spot.
3 You CANNOT seduce a woman who is unhappy in her marriage from the true path. Well, there, her husband is a drunkard, or beats her up in vain, or walks wildly... You never know how much grief there is in a cat’s fate. It is better for an honest libertine not to get involved in such a family. This sounds paradoxical, of course, but judge for yourself. First of all, it's simply unsporting. The prey is so easy that your act will strongly resemble the most ordinary poaching. Secondly, this is somehow completely inhumane. What can you give the poor thing, except one hasty sexual intercourse a week? But she needs to get married, for real, in a good way, with borscht, kids and a washing machine<Вятка-полуавтомат>. You won't marry her, will you? You won't take it. So it turns out - they stroked a stray kitten on its matted fur, treated it to a sausage of dubious freshness, and then took it and threw it out the door. Very humane.
And finally, the most important thing, a big and categorical 4 DO NOT. Under no circumstances should you meet your chosen one’s husband, much less drink with him. Women are big bitches and famous sadomas-zochists. Don’t feed them bread, but let them bring both husband and lover together on the same territory. In order to compare them with each other in a calm atmosphere once again and secretly enjoy their power. Here, they say, which ones I grabbed. Yes, two at once. Categorically do not succumb to her provocations and avoid meeting your opponent at all costs. And not at all for reasons of personal safety. It’s just that men, unlike women, are collective creatures, in other words, pack creatures. The feeling of camaraderie is in their blood. Therefore, I bet one hundred against one hundred that you will sincerely feel sorry for the poor horned fellow. Because he's probably a completely normal guy. And after the first bottle, a normal man, as you know, easily turns first into a great guy, and then into the best sidekick... In general, after the third you will probably lose your married mistress forever, but you will gain a bosom buddy. Which is better is unknown. Choose for yourself. Anyway, enough moralizing. Let's move on to tactics. So, we decided that it is best to break up full-fledged, happy, healthy, moderately wealthy families of about five to seven years old. And preferably with a certain number of children. This is it.
Just a nutritious broth for breeding lovers. A woman, of course, cannot escape from such a cozy and familiar swamp; she is warm and damp there, but also bored to the point of complete impossibility. Especially if the husband is already thoroughly fed up, and the cubs have grown so much that they do not require all of the mother’s time and energy. Now is the time for you to appear on stage. But not at her house, God forbid, not at her house! Her house is generally taboo for you and for your novel. Try to unobtrusively get to know the object of your passion (or boredom) on completely neutral territory. Simultaneously with the acquaintance, begin the most active collection of information about your future lover - the family situation, interests, likes, dislikes, weaknesses and habits. However, you most likely won’t have to try very hard - women are talkative, and married women are talkative to the point of indecency - so she will tell you everything herself. The main thing is to be patient and filter through this entire muddy and colossal stream of words, which any woman will never fail to bring down on a man’s head. That's it, consider that you have already taken the first (and most important!) step towards rapprochement. You listened to her! Of course, her husband (if he is, of course, a normal person) stopped communicating with her for at least the third month after their unforgettable wedding - oh, you can’t imagine what a cute dress I had...
everything is so transparent, one continuous guipure all the way to the floor, and along the bottom there are such tiny ruffles with silver edging and soutache, soutache, soutache... In general, she will tell you everything and even without leading questions. And you take it into account, take it into account! How many years has she not been to the theater, and how many - to the cinema, that the best ice cream is vanilla with chocolate, and creme brulee has made her sick since the first grade, that carnations are an abomination, and Ivan Ivanovich, the head of the planning department, is a darling and handsome, only he wears such disgusting shoes, and you have simply amazing taste - wow, what a tie: pink piglets on a green background, wonderful! - Your wife probably gave it to you? Oh, you are not married... You must act according to the information received. (Although to be sure, it is worth double-checking her, carefully consulting with her friends and colleagues, because even truthful women - for a completely incomprehensible reason - willingly and a lot lie about little things.) If the husband abandoned the doll long ago and thoroughly, and she yearns for great and pure passion - shower her with flowers (prudently sending bouquets by messenger directly to her work), tender notes and wet kisses. If she is not satisfied intellectually, visit exhibitions and vernissages together with her, urgently find out who Borges is, and learn a couple of poems by Georgy Ivanov.
If her husband, on the contrary, is unhealthy active and your lady is crazy about skydiving, ice fishing and mountain biking, buy her fuzzy slippers with pom-poms, a ball of wool and knitting needles. And in addition, tell him that what you value most in women is comfort and homeliness. In general - act according to the situation and method from the opposite. That is, generously give your married beloved everything that her callous and unscrupulous husband deprived her of for many hopeless years. And when the intensity of your joint passion subsides a little, think for a second and try to remember how many years you haven’t taken your own wife to the theater? A? And anyway, where did she go?

SMALL "NO" OF BIG ADULTERY

1. You cannot drag out adultery for more than a year - champagne is drunk in one gulp, otherwise it fizzles out and turns into vile, sweet water.

2. Never promise and never say anything.<я тебя люблю>. It's hard because she will pull those words out of you in every possible way, but you hold on. You say - you're finished. No comments.

3. No meetings at her or your home. Only a rented apartment and absolutely neutral territory. Otherwise, you will never get your beauty away from home. So, by inertia, you will run into the light - drink cognac and complain about life - until you go crazy. And then, lo and behold, she’ll ask to get married...

4. You cannot give gifts that can easily be used to identify you. And in general, it’s better not to give her anything at all. For her own good.

5. Meeting places (meeting places) need to be changed as often as possible, do not kiss in public places, use the metro and public transport as little as possible - they will be detected. However, they will detect it in any case. The world is not without good people.

6. You cannot leave traces of ardent passion (in the form of scratches, bites and bruises) even in the most secluded and sweet places of your lover. Not good... She, after all, has a legal husband... Children...

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Why do women cheat?

Just a chance. Opportunity commit treason- the main factor, according to various researchers of adultery. When a woman is given such an opportunity, she will commit infidelity in 40% of cases. So seducing even a married woman is not as difficult as it seems at first. All you need is a favorable opportunity.

At work. What better opportunity to have an affair than in an office full of attractive men? Working women are more likely to commit infidelity than those who stay at home. Of course, we do not want to say by this that everyone is busy at work women cheat to their husbands, it’s just easier for them to do it without arousing suspicion. The relationship between women's employment and marital fidelity has been observed for a long time. Half<служебных>romances are started by married women. On average, according to statistics, a third of married women found lovers at work. Apparently the workplace is a very sexy place.

Parental infidelity in marriage. According to psychiatrists, physiologists, and psychologists, there is a clear tendency to repeat<семейной традиции>in the behavior of mature children. If a child has seen the infidelity of one of the parents, he may well conclude that infidelity is family life quite normal.

A woman is the initiator of sex in marriage. Sociologists believe that in most cases, if a woman initiates sex at home, she is prone to cheating. This trend is especially evident in women who have reached forty years of age. They have a different view of the initiative in sex than those women who are ready to wait for a man to propose.

Justification for infidelity. A woman justifies her infidelity if she feels unhappy in her marriage, if she faces separation from her husband, if she falls in love with someone else, if she does not receive sexual satisfaction in marriage, etc. Under such circumstances and with such a view of them, women more often change by finding<законные>justifications for your actions.

An example of treason. A powerful factor in women's infidelity is the example of a friend. It could also just be a conversation about husbands and lovers. The more connections a woman has, the more friends she has who also cheat in marriage.

IN big city- more opportunities. In a big city, where no one knows each other, it is much easier to have an affair, and what is even more important to hide it, than in small town, where you can’t say too much because everyone will already know.

The woman is the head of the family. A woman who plays a leading role is more likely to have an extramarital affair. She is more proactive than a woman who obeys her husband in everything and is naturally more confident in herself and her future.

The husband loves his wife more. More often than not, the partner who loves less is less dependent and therefore more willing to take risks in the marriage. On the other hand, the more dependent partner values marriage too much to even look away. This also applies to those women who do not love their husbands and married for convenience.

Young people change more. Women in the youngest age group have more extramarital affairs than older women. Sociologists have found that the largest share of adultery occurs among women age group 26-30 years old. Research recent years claim that now young wives cheat more often than young husbands.

Women in their forties. Between thirty and forty years old, married women most often decide to have extramarital affairs. This may be because the marriages of women who take lovers in early youth often break up. And in general, young wives who cheat on their husbands get divorced more often than mature women. The average and most typical age for adultery- 35 years old. This is the most<опасный>for a woman age.

A woman's rich sexual experience before marriage. Sexological researchers have established a direct relationship between sexual experience before marriage and extramarital affairs: the richer the former, the greater the likelihood of adultery. Consequently, based on today's data, the number of adulterous women will increase in the coming years: the number of women who had sexual experience before marriage increased from 50% in the 40s to 90% in the 90s

Education. According to researchers, women who are more educated than their husbands are more likely to cheat on them and have more extramarital partners. Most often, education influences infidelity at an older age. For women, this is one of the most important reasons for their infidelity. There is such a tendency: poorly educated women are drawn to men with a higher education than theirs. Be that as it may, the greater the difference in education in the family in favor of the wife, the higher the risk of infidelity on her part.

Critical period or a streak of bad luck. There are times when it seems that everything is so boring, you want something new, change something, somehow decorate your monotonous life. During these periods, some women change their hairstyle, update their wardrobe, and some start love affairs. If the husband does not clearly grasp this opportunity and does not distract his wife with something else, then there is a high probability that the wife will have an affair for a change.

Frequent separations. Frequent business trips, irregular working hours, work on different shifts of one of the partners make it likely romance novels very big on the side. Partners who lead separate lives are more likely than others to engage in extramarital affairs. Researchers have found that married partners who take vacations apart have 20% more extramarital sex than others.

Sexual dissatisfaction. The lower the frequency of marital sexual intercourse, the more likely extramarital affairs are. For women, the influence of this factor on infidelity has increased with the advent of the era of sexual freedom and the realization that every woman deserves to fulfill her sexual desires.

Dissatisfaction with marriage. A negative assessment of one's marriage is also one of the main factors in adultery. This factor is not specific, but general, but its correlation with wives’ infidelity has greatly increased for those marriages that last more than twelve years. Older wives prefer to compensate for the failures of their marriage by relationships with lovers, while younger wives, disappointed in their marriage, prefer to get divorced.

Long-time friendship with a man.

Quite often, extramarital affairs begin with friendship between a woman and a man, which gradually transforms into a strong emotional attachment. If this friendship continues, it leads to sexual relations. 82% of women who found their lovers at work, according to a magazine survey<Вумэн>, emphasized that at first they found reliable friends in them. Friendship was the starting point and a particularly attractive aspect in sexual relationships. Of course there are reasons female infidelities there are a lot and they are all individual, just like every woman and every man is individual. We have given just some general reasons. Naturally, one cannot think that in the presence of any of the problems listed above a woman will definitely cheat. This is wrong. Everyone's attitude towards betrayal is completely different. If a woman does not want to be cheated on, then she herself will not do it. In a sense, the opinion that both partners are to blame for the betrayal of one of the partners is correct. Therefore, love each other and value your relationships, protecting them from betrayal.

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