Karmic relationships are love from a past life. How to break off karmic relationships.
Rarely has anyone not experienced such sensations: you meet a person for the first time, you start communicating, and it seems that you have known him for many years. Understanding at a glance, interaction from the first days of acquaintance between people can appear only if there is karmic connection.
What is Karma?
Karma is the influence of the past on today's circumstances, the fate of a person. Surely the karmic connection arose for a reason - the knowledge of the soul means that the souls have known each other for a long time and met in one of the past lives.
If a karmic connection arises between a woman and a woman - in past life they could be friends or be closely related, between a woman and a man - the connection was either family or love. Karmic partners meet in order to end past relationships in this life: to get closer or finally part.
Signs of a karmic connection
How to understand that the meeting is predetermined by fate? Signs of a karmic connection between people can be explicit and implicit. To clarify whether the souls were really familiar before, perhaps with the help of additional actions that can only be performed by people who have contact with higher forces.
To determine the degree of connection, they conduct clairvoyance sessions, read Tarot cards, runes, gypsy cards, or make an astrological forecast.
It is possible to recognize a karmic meeting by obvious signs - an inexplicable craving for strangers
people to each other. They met by chance, talked a little, and after parting, they remember the meeting, as if they gave the vis-a-vis a piece of their soul. Many years pass, and people still remember this meeting.
In order to return the experienced emotions, people are ready to perform actions that are unusual for them by nature.
If a relationship is established, the emotions in them are strong enough - both positive and negative. If you know how to recognize a karmic connection, then you will not resist the will of higher powers and will save yourself from destructive emotions.
Relationships can arise not only because of the meeting of souls in the past - a karmic connection is determined by the date of birth, connecting astral entities.
New destinies
Astral entities fill human bodies, fueled by energy. They are constantly evolving, their subtle bodies are depleted after entering a person. At the moment of meeting with the karmic half, a person opens up, and it is easier for the ethereal creature to penetrate inside. They can completely change a person, and loved ones will stop recognizing him.
The following types of astral entities are distinguished from living people:
- angels - carry positive;
- demons - they destroy the inner world, push to actions that cause negative, are able to completely destroy the personality - if a person tries to resist rebirth, he develops mental illnesses, for example, schizophrenia.
Astral entities leave the bodies of deceased people and go out in search of new victims.
They can be classified:
- demons or laurels - they are attracted by lust, greed, adultery - rough energy;
- bastards - they make you create conflict situations, switch to profanity.
There are several other forms of entities with different habits - some of them choose victims depending on the energy, certain habits, others are looking for a new body for themselves by gender. For example, demons prefer to inhabit women, reptiles prefer men.
Sometimes sorcerers and shamans prepare entities specifically to deal with certain people - on request. They are transported in the astral dimension.
If a karmic meeting occurred with a person whose soul is filled with someone else's astral essence, the relationship will hurt both parties, since the connection is created artificially.
It is very likely that the energy field, created without changing the hypostasis, would not have tightened the other side. However, it is as difficult to break off such a relationship as it is true.
Checking the truth of the connection
A karmic marriage is considered one of the strongest alliances. But how to know that the relationship is true and the essence of a person participates in them, and not astral guests who have changed their character?
Astrology and numerology can help in this. If for astrological predictions you need to have special knowledge and inner instinct, then you can figure out the basics of numerology on your own by making a calculation using special tables. Of course, only specially trained psychics and astrologers can make full-fledged predictions, but even an amateur can understand what is happening on the basis of systematized observations.
For example, marriages are considered nonrandom if the age difference between a man and a woman is a multiple of 5. The most strong alliances those in which, after meeting, they find out that the difference is 15 years.
The karma of marriage is calculated by the date of birth. The partners add up all the numbers in the date of birth.
For example: 19.04. 1957. After summing up, the number 36 is obtained - for this person every 36 years something global will happen in his life.
The age of the partner is calculated in the same way: 08/28/1962. The age of change is also 36. Marriage is karmic.
Another pair of partners: 08/10/1965 and 07/19/1963.
Age of change - 31 - you need to keep in mind, a dozen is added completely; and 47. Even multiples do not match. The connection is not karmic, although the marriage can be successful.
Numerology can help everyone individually understand the main character traits, find out addictions, outline the field of activity in which it is possible to achieve success.
How karmic relationships are formed
- Karmic relationships develop in different ways, just like any relationship. Partners can communicate for a very long time, and the fact of their marriage becomes a surprise to others;
- A huge difference in tastes and social status;
- A marriage is concluded with lightning speed, and after a few years people cannot say what prompted them to it;
- A very important sign of karmic connections is moving. People, having got married, leave to live in another place, in some way breaking off ties;
- Childless marriage - a closed future is predetermined by karma;
- Fatality and difficult relationships - people, in the opinion of others, need to part. One of them is an alcoholic, drug addict, sadist and the like, he torments his soul mate, but she is not able to leave.
Psychics explain complex relationships with karma - in a past life the situation was the opposite, and now a partner who receives constant negativity is responsible for his own sins. But not everyone agrees to suffer and periodically try to get rid of such a relationship. How to break a karmic connection with a man or woman who makes life a hard labor, and is it possible to do this?
Not only spouses ask about this, sometimes friends cause physical and mental suffering, whom it is impossible to leave, since you evaluate your own act as a betrayal.
Breaking up a difficult relationship
The possibility of a breakup is largely determined by the quality of the relationship.
- If people complement each other, the connection is magnetic - a break is impossible. It's like Yin and Yang -
one cannot exist without the other. One will disappear - life will lose interest for another; - The debtor-creditor - in a past life they were in the opposite role, and now they are repaying debts - take care in the reverse order.
Once karmic debts will be paid - and this can be felt by changes in attitude, by ease of communication - you stop feeling guilty, leaving the sick or drunk, it is possible to break the connection.
In order to pay off debts faster, you should analyze everything that causes irritation and pacify the negativity in yourself. The opportunity to change karma should not be missed.
It must be remembered that by our action now, in the future, we will rid the being into which the soul will enter from moral, and, possibly, from physical suffering.
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Manipulators, alcoholics, liars, tyrants, traitors - why do they meet on your way? Or maybe they are not just dating - do you live with one of these men?
In this article, we will look at the most common types of destructive (karmic) relationships and spiritual reasons their occurrence.
Read to the end - and find out what makes you step on the same rake and how finally stop doing it.
... And I will be faithful to him forever.
(c) A.S. Pushkin. Eugene Onegin
Ask any woman why she needs a relationship with a man.
The answer is to live happily, mutually develop, love and be loved, create a prosperous family.
But is this the case in fact?
How is it that obeying the "call of the heart" you suddenly find yourself in a destructive relationship, which
- wear out your nerves,
- hit on health and wallet,
- deprive you of faith in yourself and break your self-esteem?
At the same time, you “understand everything”, but as if “you can’t help yourself” ...
I, as a spiritual practitioner and healer, will describe the origins of the problem, based on the concept relationship between souls.
Roots of cause of your choice of NOT THOSE men often go beyond the usual reality, leaving past incarnations and the space between lives.
It was then that you made certain decisions - contracts, vows, vows- which continue to work to this day.
Channeler and writer Sal Rachel calls such a phenomenon "Karmic relationship".
“The most typical type of relationship between souls on Earth is karmic agreements.
These relationships usually begin with a primary attraction in a past life, often sexual, and a desire to get to know each other deeper.
Then, since almost no one on earth is healed, problems arise between people and they are not resolved in physical life.
Then a couple of souls decide to meet at future life to continue working on the issues together.
The degree of energy tension that accompanies this decision determines the difficulty of the break. "
These agreements between souls, as a rule, are accompanied by "formulated decisions" given to higher powers, other people or oneself - vows and vows.
You forget about them, and they act through time and space - at times, ruining your life.
How karmic relationships manifest
A meeting with a "karmic partner" is usually accompanied by special, unusual conditions of the body and mind.
For example, you overreacting on an unfamiliar person.
Love at first sight? Not at all.
In fact, you do not know the man at all and what is on his mind, and "falling into the abyss of passion" is not safe for you.
For the emergence trusting relationship would normally require months communication.
But if this “ karmic man", As if" something happens against your will. "
Here is a description of a typical karmic relationship of one of the clients:
“I still can't explain what I found in it. He didn't even match the type of appearance that I like.
But literally after the first conversation with me "Blew the roof off." I didn't seem to be in control of myself.
He was married, we did not see each other often. But I remember this feeling of "illness" - as if I could not live without it. When I said goodbye and walked two steps away from him, my body began to break and twist, like with the flu.
Once he promised to “come back soon”, but in the end he disappeared for several days and did not call. I woke up on the third day and realized that I ate almost nothing and sat by the window all the time.
Only common sense helped me to return to reality, and I with an incredible effort of will said goodbye to him. But for several more months I was shaking at the mention of his name.
The oath was "With him forever."
I am happy that this torment is finally over. "
Signs of karmic relationships and vows:
You stayed with him alone, not knowing anything about him.
That he is dangerous for everyone, you do not care ...
King and the Clown. Sorcerer doll
- Feelings of "kinship" or "Love at first sight"- you've seen a man a couple of times, but already "love him."
- Uncontrolled physical attraction, up to pain and heat in the body. Too quick and violent sexual contact.
- "Not self-control", a painful, exhausting condition, addiction from a man.
- Naive trust unfamiliar person, because "he is good and cannot deceive."
- Far-reaching promises from the very first meetings ("I will save him", "I will be his wife, no matter what", "We are made for each other").
- Harsh songs or books, films ("Beauty and the Beast", "Cinderella", etc.) are constantly spinning in your head. This indicates a strong scenario your connection.
- Impossibility to leave from him, even if you understand that you are suffering, and a normal relationship will not work.
Write in the comments if these states are familiar to you? Under what circumstances did this happen to you?
Why does this happen? Let's turn to spiritual sources again.
“Agreements and vows between souls are imprinted as etheric imprints and energetic patterns of the causal body.
- Etheric body contains a physical body template. Many physical conditions, including diseases, originate in the etheric body and then gradually descend into physics.
- Causal body has a causal relationship with other human bodies. It is a part of the soul that carries the memory of past lives, karma, decisions and contracts of the soul. "
So you are experiencing all these strange sensations because the etheric and causal bodies powerfully affect your physical condition and emotions.
To put it more simply, you have not "love at first sight", but exhausting love from the past.
This condition manifests itself for that so that you finally notice the problem - and freed themselves and a karmic partner from this burden.
Sometimes it's enough just realize and complete the oath or agreement.
Consider the types of exhausting relationships with men - and what energy patterns (vows, vows, decisions) you need to complete.
Karmic relationships and their corresponding vows
1. A man does not love you
Manifestation in your life: Long unrequited love.
You are in love with a person who not really needed, and in every possible way are trying to earn his love (which is impossible).
You even behave obsessively- you are ashamed, but you continue ...
A man can honestly reject you. This is painful, but not the worst option.
Much harder if it is long and cold-blooded uses you for their own purposes.
Or, you quietly yearn for the unrealizable, and dozens of worthy partners pass by at this time.
You may even reasonably understand that there is no chance here. But something like "Stronger than you" ...
An oath of eternal love, an oath "to be always with him", an oath of loyalty / devotion.
Spiritual origin:
“Many times souls conclude contract to stay together forever.
This stems from a misunderstanding of the nature of the universe, since all souls are already eternally connected with each other.
However, due to the belief in separation, souls often go all-out in order to keep in touch with each other.
If you meet in next life, there may be a sense of duty or obligation to each other. "
I will add that often women with these vows have a grudge against a man: “I have done so many things, but he never fell in love with me.
It is too resentment from past lives- he did not remember you and your love, but you "agreed".
It is because of this that such a relationship is difficult to end - it seems that if you wait and try, he will surely "remember". But alas ...
2. A man with whom marriage is impossible
Manifestation in your life: You don't can't get married.
For example, you choose married men who "feed" you with promises.
Or, meet a person who expresses reluctance to marry with you. But you stay with him, hoping that "he will understand the power of your love and change his mind."
Vows and vows to be completed: celibacy, marriage vows from a past life.
Spiritual origin:
You can date men who won't marry you for two spiritual reasons.
- Either you are generally "prohibited from marriage" - this is celibacy, abandoning the family for the sake of "spiritual service."
- Either you are "already married", that is, they continue to act on you marriage vows and vows from past lives.
“When feelings between people (souls) are strong, they may want to consecrate their union with ritual and ceremony.
Such rituals can survive the death of physical bodies and carry over into subsequent lives in the form of energy patterns.
Marriages don't always last "until death do us part." Sometimes couples keep intent on being together forever. "
3. A man with severe addiction
Manifestation in your life: The man you have chosen suffers from alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling addiction, etc.
Option - "total dependence on you"As if he is" unable to cope with life "and without your relationship" cannot live. "
This may be accompanied by
- his outbursts of aggression, dangerous to your life, psyche, health;
- lack of money - he is not able to earn enough or instantly "blows" them down the drain;
- his "persistent" depression, suffering, talk about the meaninglessness of life and suicide;
- his suspiciousness, outbursts of jealousy and paranoia.
Often you are also very angry and break into a man, however, you do not end this relationship.
Vows and vows to be completed: an oath to remain with this person, no matter what ("Love is above my personal interests"), a vow of a savior, an oath to sacrifice oneself for the sake of another.
Spiritual origin:
“If energy is expressed with restraint, with full recognition and acceptance of oneself and the other, karma does not arise.
If either of you is in denial of what you are projecting onto or receiving from the other, your partner's energies are penetrating deeper and deeper into your aura, and yours into his.
What is called codependency.
The codependent heart falls into something like this: “I accept your suffering because I love you so much that I suffer from the sight of your torment. I'm strong. I can handle. Let me be your savior. "
Partners are bogged down deeper and deeper in the obsession of attachment, their emotions mixing.
For example, a man may feel depressed because he cannot see that the negativity of another partner has been taking on the negativity of the other partner for several past lives.
The woman will begin to feel anger because she has lived under the yoke of frustration and suppression, not an integrated partner. "
4. A man is a house tyrant
Manifestation in your life: In a relationship with your partner, you constantly suffer.
A man can humiliate you by criticizing your values, appearance, actions. If treason hurts you, he will openly flirt with other women.
Relationships are often accompanied by psychological pressure and tight control.
There are sophisticated manipulations, when you hardly understand that he did something like that - but you feel destroyed and devastated.
In doing so, you can even feel yourself guilty- and there will always be, "why".
This also includes men who commit monstrous deeds in relation to you - physical and sexual abuse, major financial fraud, painful break with attempts to "ruin your life."
This is one of the most dangerous types of relationships for your health and psyche.
Vows and vows to be completed: oath redeem(you think you are suffering "deservedly" because of some wrongdoing in a past life), vow Tit for tat(you vowed to take revenge on him in a past life, and now, with his behavior, he "gives you a reason again").
Spiritual origin:
“If souls who have entered into a karmic relationship believe in revenge, betrayal, or some other ego-based negative pattern, they may think that they need to settle scores for their past lives or, conversely, correct an imaginary evil.
Dear ones, keep in mind this is not a punishment situation. No one is demanding retribution or redemption from you. Two souls simply agreed to balance karma by resolving a past life problem.
In this case, it is enough to heal your guilt and let the grievances go away. "
5. Unloved, boring man for you
Manifestation in your life: You are entering into a relationship or marriage with someone who is almost do not love.
You feel a colossal gap between you, a mismatch in values and levels of development. You are simply bored, you lack the "spark".
This person doesn't seem to have done you anything wrong, and you almost hate him. Although, you may not even admit it to yourself. And, for some reason, you continue this relationship.
Vows and vows to be completed: vow "Together forever", marriage vows from past lives (they are already irrelevant, but they work and force you to be there).
Spiritual origin:
“Not all souls develop at the same rate.
If you have advanced faster on your path than the person you "owe" to, that person will pull you back.
Because of love, a soul moving forward can slow down its spiritual growth in order to "wait" for another. Sometimes it works.
But very often a soul refusing to grow will pull your soul down until both are unhappy.
You may be offended that he does not share your spiritual aspirations.
And he is angry because he is not able to meet your expectations or understand your strange behavior. "
I will add that in modern world this situation is exacerbated by many courses that teach women " grow my man".
"Make your husband a millionaire", "If the relationship does not work out, it is the woman's fault, put even more energy into it."
I have come across advice from some trainers to a woman to slow down her development, to stop the realization "for the sake of a man."
In fact, this may briefly "smooth out the conflict" - but in the end, even lead to mutual hatred.
However, decide for yourself.
6. The unattainable "ideal" man
Manifestation in your life: All the men you meet are "not fit."
You know exactly what a right, wonderful, high relationship should be - and every time you are disappointed, not reaching them with your next partner.
You seem to have a memory of perfect love and mutual understanding, in comparison with which everything else is petty fuss.
Vows and vows to be completed: an oath of eternal love in high-dimensional spaces, an oath to find your twin flame, an oath of loyalty and service to higher powers ("Christ's Bride").
Spiritual origin:
“In 99.9% of cases, one member of a twin pair remains in the higher realms, while the other leaves to explore the lower worlds (incarnates).
There are many built-in restrictions on the planet to prevent premature twin flame contact. Irresistible passion will turn the earthly soul away from earthly obligations.
Such a soul will no longer want to live in the world, and will not think about anything except meeting with a double in higher spheres.
And this is not only because the love between them is so strong that it does not allow them to concentrate on earthly affairs. But also because, along with it, comes the remembrance of higher dimensions - there is no war, poverty, suffering, etc.
Most of the harmonious relationships on earth are between soul mates (you have quite a lot of them). These relationships can be quite rich and beautiful. "
Completion of vows - breaking up or maintaining a relationship?
I will add a question from the comments to the article:
"Is it possible joint exit with a partner to another level of relationship? Of course, provided that both are working on themselves. Or from a relationship it is necessary go out?»
In fact, completing a vow does not always mean breaking up a relationship. It only means a sober view of relationships.
Simply put, both of you will no longer be affected by this "debt from the past." If you close the karmic connections, you will see in front of you real person and your relationship with him.
And you can stay with him not according to "duty", but according to his own free choice... This can even give an outlet for a new round of love and a level of trust.
Or, honestly and calmly close this connection. Sometimes you have to accept what is with a person, however, urgently needed breake down to save your psyche and life (and often - and his, especially in the case of codependency).
In many cases, you can translate a karmic love affair into friendship. This man remains a dear person for you, there is simply no longer any obligation to “love him forever” and live with him.
In fact, to part on time is much more love than in maintaining a mutually exhausting relationship.
A man may not be aware of all these processes and may not support them. It doesn't really matter. By closing the vow on your part, you free both yourself and your partner.
Ending a karmic relationship can be real. the gift of your soul to his soul.
We have listed only the most common types of destructive relationships and vows.
In fact, they can have hundreds of nuances and phrases. For example, to touch not only love partners, but colleagues or relatives.
One woman did not develop relationships with men because she was Married to her mother feeling, in her words, "an unhealthy attachment and desire to live with her."
A participant in the master class on vows took an oath of allegiance not in past incarnations, but in current life:
“When I was 16 years old, I swore love all my life and to be faithful to one person, moreover, I carved the first letter of his name on my hand with a knife.
Our paths parted, I married his classmate, left, this marriage ended in a terrible tragedy, then I got married again and again ... But I was never really happy. "
Perhaps you have already remembered some decisions that limit you? Share your experience in the comments!
The great joy lies in the fact that it is not at all necessary to drag out vows from century to century and suffer.
You once made these decisions of your free will, in your own will complete them.
Hope this post served as a big step in your transition to happy, full of love relationship!
It is known that chance often rules in life. We easily forget some meetings, others remain in our memory for life. Very often people, who are married or engaged, start asking themselves questions: “Have I chosen the right person? Is he really my other half, are we suitable? " You can clarify them in various ways, for example, by comparing the signs of the zodiac. It is also possible to calculate karmic relationships by the dates of birth of partners. But for this you need to know what karma is, and how exactly it manifests itself in life.
How karma affects fate
Usually karma is called innate, nodal moments that each individual needs to go through. They can manifest themselves at any age of a person, often changing his fate almost completely. Such key moments can be events, meeting people, marriage by mutual attraction. Usually Tarot cards indicate this: it is very difficult to get around such obstacles and overcome. For example, dismissal, relocation, marriage, love, or even jail. The cards also indicate what to avoid and what year will be dangerous and difficult for you. Therefore, you can find out what a person's karma and the main key points are using ordinary fortune-telling, if only it is done competently and professionally.
Karma can also be determined by the date of birth. Intuition is of paramount importance in establishing spiritual connections. Usually the heart itself tells whether it is your partner or not, falling in love, love and even dependence and affection do not arise for nothing. The same can be said when one person is married, and another is in the heart, therefore, not trusting your intuition, you should not rush to get married and get married. Even if there is no one in mind, wait - your person will definitely appear. Well, if you want to understand your karmic connections with a partner or feel the spiritual field of a person who is close to you, it is not a sin to make a numerological calculation by dates of birth.
Calculation by dates
This alignment can be done if you need to find out how important an individual person is in your personal life. To do this, it is necessary to add up all the figures of the date of birth of the partners, not counting the zeros. For example, you were born on 13.04.1991, and your partner was born on 07.19.1985. Add up all the numbers: 1 + 3 + 4 + 1 + 9 + 9 + 1 + 1 + 9 + 7 + 1 + 9 + 8 + 5 and get the number 68. From it you need to subtract the number 22 until you get the number less than 22. In this example, the number 2 turned out to be 2. Now you need to look at its meaning according to the description of karmic connections.
1 - the union can be based on great love, passion and the ability to win hearts. You will achieve a lot thanks to your virtuosity in solving any business or simply the ability to live beautifully and effectively present yourself in society. However, internal connections can be superficial, so the marriage may not last long - there is a danger of quickly getting bored with each other. It is possible that you are producing magical effect on a partner or he on you.
2 - your karmic connections go deep from the past. The union can turn out to be mysterious and romantic. However, the relationship can deteriorate due to excessive hovering in the clouds, as one of the partners, and both.
3 - relationships are more influenced by a woman than a man. It is possible that it is for him that the connection will play a karmic role, and the woman will simply bring another entertainment or a convenient option for life. A strong, lasting alliance based on mutual respect of partners is also possible.
4 - this karmic connection has to do with a man, not a woman. It is possible that in her family on the male line there is a connection with your partner. The union will be strong, although much here depends more on the man than on the woman.
5 - the highest wisdom. This relationship will be based on understanding, a very strong karmic connection on the spiritual level, which will not manifest immediately.
6 - a situation of constant choice, disagreement. Most likely, the union will not be lasting, since each of the partners is in constant search, including sensual pleasures, even at a subconscious level.
7 - a strong connection at the level of life. People will be able to go through many life trials for the sake of their happiness. Mutual victory, happiness achieved through work.
8 - relationships can become formal, based on calculation, not love. There is a connection between these people of necessity, feelings do not prevail. However, for those who are tuned in to a calm and permanent relationship, such a connection can promise great joy and a calm, measured life.
9 - a good karmic union, often to a ripe old age, strong relationships on a spiritual level, even if they do not appear immediately.
10 - people are destined to be together or spin in the eternal search for each other. The situation can last for quite a long time, it is desirable to get out of such a circle if the relationship does not initially develop. There is a danger that they will last throughout life without giving satisfaction and happiness.
11 - the karmic connection in this union is very weak. Most likely, partners in this situation are simply drawn in front of each other, play a good role, but they will not be able to find sincerity and true happiness until the end of their days.
12 - no, partners karmically can be too different to live together. Most likely, for one of them, the relationship can even become destructive. Reasonable sacrifice will help to overcome negativity, not to the detriment of oneself and another partner.
13 - a karmically empty union, although a strong change is possible through it.
14 - calm karmic relationships that have power. It is possible that it will influence a generation of children more than adults, contributing to their development.
15 - a certain danger, deception, temptation is hidden in this union. It is possible that for both or one of the partners, it will be disastrous. Communication goes through destruction.
16 - negative karma. There is a danger of destruction not of the soul, but of material well-being, poverty, or a radical change will occur in fate because of these relationships, which you do not immediately realize.
17 - a bright and lasting union. Positive karma that allows you to live peacefully and happily. Perhaps the preservation of kindness, a childish view of the world in a positive sense until old age, a good relationship with subsequent children and grandchildren, relatives.
18 - the relationship between partners is built on a deep, unconscious subconscious desire, the attraction of the shadow side of the personality, which is not fully understood. Most likely, the lovers themselves do not realize why they are drawn to each other. The union can change the life of every person and reveal the secret essence.
19 - there is a karmic attraction. The union reveals the positive aspects, is based on light energy.
20 - karmic connection along the material line. It is possible that the union will force the partners to reconsider their material values and begin to achieve goals that were once postponed.
21 - there is a karmic connection that is associated with a child or children.
22 - karmically empty union, zeroing, falling in love at the physical level, leading to disappointment. Also, relationships can leave behind a feeling of emptiness,.
Of course, this is not the only way to find out karmic relationships by the dates of birth of partners, but it is based on the numerological interpretation of the Tarot arcana, and they give the most accurate information, like the cards. Therefore, this calculation allows you to understand karmic essence union and its role in your life.
In our life, everything is ordered according to special laws, one of which is the law of karma, that is, reward for actions, thoughts and deeds committed by a person. If you delve into this topic in more detail, then you will inevitably come across such a thing as a karmic connection between a man and a woman. What are the causes of its occurrence and how to eliminate it - read about it in our material.
Karmic connection- this is a kind of energy-informational connection between the souls of two people, embodied in reality by the Laws of Karma due to specific reasons and for a specific purpose.
Links can be of two types:
- bright(positive) - these are observed in the examples of kindred spirits, to act harmoniously with each other;
- dark(negative, gray) - when people are connected because of their negative deeds committed in past incarnations.
There is also such a thing as karmic knot - it is also a kind of a very powerful dark connection that ordinary people cannot break on their own until they receive permission from the Higher Forces.
You can give a vivid example of a karmic connection between people when they want to divorce, but cannot do this for a long time (there are always some obstacles on the way that prevent people from separating). And even if they are trying with all their might to end their relationship, they are forced to continue communication, as well as to deal with joint problems (joint children, property, and so on).
This will last exactly as long as people need to solve their karmic debts until negative karma is completely worked out and permission comes from above to eliminate the karmic connection.
Varieties of karmic connections
There are such types of communication:
- A bond that goes deep into past incarnations, in which the souls of people repeatedly intersected and filled each other with negative or positive energy... It should be noted that most of the people who have a close relationship with us are our past karmic connections, both good (making us stronger and better) and negative, carrying destructive energy.
- A connection that was planned even before the physical manifestation of souls... This means that two souls agreed with each other to meet on Earth at a certain period of time in order to perform some joint activities... They prepare in advance for their incarnation, consider the tasks that they will have to jointly solve in the material world. And Karma establishes in what place, at what time and under what conditions their joint activity will take place.
- Communication option is also possible who are not relatives. This category includes spouses, friends and comrades, colleagues, business partners - in general, all people in whom we are in close contact throughout our lives. Such connections can also be both constructive and destructive.
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Signs of a karmic connection
Yet the most popular type is love attraction between the sexes. How easy is it to tell them apart from a harmonious relationship? You should take a closer look at the presence of such signs.
- Relationships have incredibly strong emotions.(jealousy, passion, fear, guilt). As a result of these intense emotional experiences, people become dependent on each other. At the same time, one of the partners, or both, tend to exaggerate and react inadequately to certain moments in life.
The main reason for this- unresolved personal conflicts. This is why people are attracted to each other in order to eliminate such misbehavior. And when the lesson is worked out, and people can completely exhaust their negative karma, then the conflict will gradually come to naught, the partners will either quietly disperse, or remain in a relationship, but they will become much more harmonious.
- Another clear sign will become a relationship that has arisen very rapidly. In this case, partners, as a rule, differ greatly in their characters, life positions, worldview, and also have different social status. They often, deep in their hearts, do not relate to each other in the best way, but as if succumbed to the strongest hypnosis and are not able to get out of the relationship on their own.
Usually in such relationships, the sexual aspect prevails - people are so strong subject to passion that they cannot tear themselves away from each other, they want to be filled with sexual energy again and again. An emotional connection is also possible. In especially rare cases, there are couples in which the beloved are closely connected at all levels. This is the most powerful connection that is incredibly difficult to break. Partners will be able to part only when they know everything they need in each other, after which the karma counter will be reset.
- Fatality and tragic end- another indication of the presence of a karmic relationship. A striking example of this is the love triangle. Relationships of this kind are based on powerful emotional or sexual attachments. Being in such a relationship, a man and a woman feel that they are not able to leave, but at the same time they cannot harmoniously be near, since they constantly face various obstacles and obstacles. In most cases, the end of such a relationship is tragic enough.
- Another indication of the karmic connection between lovers- a marriage union in which one partner is a drug addict, alcoholic, mentally ill person or has a disability. And the second partner takes such a relationship for granted and believes that he has no right to leave his beloved. Such a connection is brightly imbued with a strong sense of guilt (usually the fairer sex suffers from it), which stretches from previous incarnations.
- If a man or woman dies ahead of time(up to thirty-five years old) - this also indicates a karmic relationship. In this case, the second partner consciously chooses a punishment for himself for certain actions from the past.
- There is a variant of a harmonious connection in which both parties are related to soul mates. In such a couple, there is excellent mutual understanding, respect, acceptance of all the positive and negative qualities of their soulmate without the desire to change the beloved. The relationship between soul mates is very harmonious and filled with love and peace.
- Significant age difference (more than fifteen years)- another of the indicators of powerful karmic attraction. Such people cannot harmoniously let go, even if they have a strong desire for it. This is a variant of a very difficult relationship in which a man and a woman can both help their partner to take the true path, and, on the contrary, push him in the wrong direction, which increases the number of karmic debts in the present incarnation.
What's the perspective?
Now is the time to talk about the future forecast.
How long will the karmic relationship last? This is largely due to their variety.- whether they will be healing or destructive (we talked about this at the beginning of the article).
In the case of a healing bond, when partners fill each other with positive energy, share the necessary experience and contribute to creation (create happy family, are jointly involved in the upbringing of children, have common work and so on), you can observe cases when it lasts throughout life. Such relationships make people stronger and more harmonious, contribute to their development in all plans.
If conflicts arise in such a relationship, then they pass very quickly, rarely when they end in a serious showdown. In such couples, there are practically no cases of divorce. This is due to the fact that the two souls are closely linked for many incarnations. They belong to the category of soul mates.
If there is a negative destructive connection- such a relationship will last exactly as long as it takes for both partners to be able to fully return to each other the energy that they owe from the past incarnation and fill it completely.
A typical example of such a relationship is unrequited love, when one person begins to lose his head for love for another, and the second either does not feel anything, or feels sympathy, which is much weaker. The most sensible advice in this case is to let go, continuing to fill him with positive energy from a distance. Of course, this is very difficult, but it is the only method that will allow you to break the bonds harmoniously without breaking even more firewood.
Typically in a non-reciprocal relationship partners simply switch roles from past lives. For example, if in the previous incarnation the husband was crazy about his wife, and she treated him indifferently, then in the present life the situation will repeat itself, but in the opposite context: the man, for example, will walk and change, and the woman will love him and fight indifference towards yourself.
It should be noted that at the same time, two souls do not necessarily enter into legal relations again - it is quite possible that the exchange of energies will take place at a distance.
It becomes clear that any karmic connection for the most part will not be harmonious, requiring the solution of certain issues that have arisen in past incarnations. It may be unrealistic to resolve them on your own, but there is an option of contacting a specialist (numerologist, psychic, astrologer) who, based on the partners' personal information, will help to find the root cause of the problem and successfully cope with it.
Karma represents the influence of past lives in relation to the present life. A related term in Western tradition used to describe similar influences is fate. Nowadays, not everyone takes karma so seriously, but many are interested. To believe or not to believe in a karmic relationship, love from a past life is the business of each of you. But what if knowledge might be useful?
Karmic relationships - love from a past life
"Six months ago I divorced ... I had rather deep feelings for my husband, but after a while we parted on his initiative. When the wound healed, I tried to objectively look at our relationship and I myself realized that he was not suitable for me as a spouse - different characters, outlook on life ... But all this time I am periodically overwhelmed by a strong feeling that we should not have parted just as quickly as we did. That we did not give each other a lot. And sometimes a strong feeling comes to me that if we interrupt our connection for good, then something very irreparable will happen ... ".
This is an excerpt from a letter from a woman who consulted me that served as the inspiration for this article.
Every astrologer familiar with the eastern direction of astrology knows that many meetings with people in everyday life are far from accidental and carry a karmic character. Some data suggest that there can be many such karmic meetings in a lifetime. Coming into this world, we find ourselves surrounded by people who help us to realize our karmic tasks. This is our children, friends, relatives, bosses, work colleagues and just passers-by.
But now I would like to talk not about all karmic meetings, but about karmic relationships between men and women... They are understood as the relationship between partners who knew each other in past lives and experienced deep emotions in relation to each other.
Karmic relationships are signs
The sign of a karmic relationship is that he or she, or maybe both, carries unresolved emotions within themselves, such as jealousy, anger, guilt, fear, dependence, or something similar. Unable to find a way out of their emotions once, they are attracted to each other in the next incarnation.
Target new meeting in providing each other with the opportunity to resolve a pressing issue. It does this by re-creating the same situation for a specific period of time. After meeting again, karmic partners feel an urgent need to become closer to each other, and after a while they begin to repeat their old emotional roles.
The stage is now set to face the old situation again and perhaps handle it in a wiser way. The spiritual purpose of this meeting for both lovers is to make a different choice than they made in past lives.
Karmic relationships - an example
Let me give you an example. Imagine a woman who in the past incarnation had a very jealous husband, a usurper who loved her madly, but at the same time tormented her with his jealousy. At some point, she decided that it was unbearable to live like this and left him. Not having survived the divorce from his beloved wife, the husband after a while falls ill and dies.
The woman feels remorse. She believes she is to blame. She regrets not giving him a chance to improve. With this feeling of guilt, she goes through the rest of her life. In another life, they meet again. An inexplicable attraction arises between them. At first, the man is unusually charming, she falls into the center of his attention. He worships her. They develop a close relationship ...
From that moment on, he becomes an incredibly jealous owner. He constantly suspects her of treason. She is angry and upset that he shouldn’t blame her, she also feels an unusual obligation to forgive him and give him another chance. She thinks that he has psychological complexes - the fear of being abandoned, and expects to help him cope with this.
She justifies her behavior in this way, but in fact, she allows her to violate her personal territory. Relationships negatively affect her self-esteem. The most the right choice for a woman will break off the relationship and go her own way without feeling guilty. The "complexes" of her husband (groom, lover) are not her responsibility.
The meaning of a new karmic meeting is for a woman to learn let go without guilt and a man must learn endure emotional distress... The only right decision here is to break off the relationship. The "mistake" made by a woman in a past life was not that she left her husband, but that she felt responsible for his illness and death.
The departure of the wife in this life will once again leave the husband alone with his experiences and fear, which will give him a new opportunity to meet these emotions, and not run away from them. The karmic relationship between the two will be repeated until the lesson is completed correctly.
Karmic relationships - how to identify
I am often asked - how can a karmic relationship be identified and can it be done? A professional astrologer can determine this by analyzing the synastry of partners (compatibility horoscope). In the horoscope of compatibility, sometimes there is such a position of the planets that accurately explains the reason for the meeting of two people.
I mean the feature when most of the planets intersect under karmic aspects (when the distance on the zodiacal circle between the planets is 20, 40, 80 or 100 degrees) is an indisputable indicator of a karmic connection.
Aspects of the Ascending and Descending Nodes, Proserpine, Selene and Lilith to the higher planets, as well as the ties between Saturn and Neptune, can also tell about whether the relationship between a man and a woman is of a karmic nature, and what are the goals and objectives of this karmic meeting.
A certain age difference between partners can also serve as an indicator of karmic relationships. Age difference 5 or 10 years between a man and a woman - this is not a coincidence meeting. It is more than likely that there is a karmic connection between these partners, which requires working off mutual debts. Karma keeps them close to each other. They must go through life in one direction, but at the same time one of them must take on the role of a guide, and the other must become a follower.
15 year difference- an indicator of a very strong karmic attraction. It is difficult for such people to disperse, even if they want to do it. But these relationships are complicated - they either help each other to choose the right path in life, or, conversely, lead their partner astray, thus increasing his karmic debts in the coming life.
Some unusual situations are also indicative of karmic relationships. Such situations are not a mandatory sign of a karmic relationship, but they also need to be taken into account.
Surprise. Relationships are struck out of the blue for both partners or one of them, as well as their friends and relatives. The surprise is that these partners can be completely different in character, temperament, differ in social and material status, have a big difference in age.
Alternatively, the partners may have known each other for years, but the very decision to get married turns out to be an unexpected continuation of the relationship. For example, for many years they communicated only as friends, and suddenly one evening the situation turns into a very intimate channel and after that the couple in love decides to get married.
Rapidity. The relationship is formed after a very short period of acquaintance of the beloved (day, week, month). This is a situation where the partners seem to have an insight. Such relationships are often marked by the effect of hypnosis.
They begin in such a way that the person is not fully aware of the included changes and only after a year or more begins to perceive the situation consciously. Until then, he is driven by forces and reactions that he is unable to fully explain. The question of whether these partners will want to look at each other "waking up" often remains open.
Moving. After marriage, spouses can move to another city or even abroad. A distant move somewhere far after meeting and marriage, breaking off family ties, starting a new life somewhere far from the place of birth is another important sign of a karmic connection.
Difficult situation. The most common variant is a drunken partner or a drug addict partner. Maybe some health problems of the marriage partner - life with a person in a wheelchair, mentally ill or early (before 40 years) death of a partner. Such a relationship can certainly be called "punishment."
Apparently, this "punishment" suits the person himself, unconsciously choosing a problem partner. Most likely, because of the latent sense of guilt that came from the past, but the question "for what reason" remains open. Or perhaps the problem partner attaches himself to him by the genetic memory of a past life. Probably, in the past incarnation, the roles of the problematic and good partner were opposite, but in the current incarnation they change places and "justice is restored."
Lack of children in marriage. This is an indicator of a closed future for a generation through these people. Such karmic relationships of spouses are closed on themselves and serve to comprehend their own character traits for both partners. To some extent, this relationship can be called a short circuit. As a rule, they eventually, after years or even almost immediately, turn out to be empty and lead to parting.
In this karmic connection, everything depends on how much each partner was "correct" in their actions. If the partners "correctly" (from the point of view of Fate and Space) showed themselves in these relations, for example, they did not swear and accuse each other of infertility, but adopted a child from orphanage, then this pair may later appear and joint child.
If only one of the partners tried to behave "correctly", but perhaps did not receive support, then as a reward life will give him another partner, from whom he will have children.
Fatality. Relationships in a couple are marked by a certain inevitability, predetermination, and often in a negative sense in the style of "Tristan and Isolde". These include: situations with love triangles; situations of "impossible" love for any objective and subjective reasons; situations of love-hate, when it seems that partners have been fighting among themselves all their lives, and yet they are unhappy without each other.
They seem to be madly in love with each other, and madly hate. Or fate simply constantly brings partners together, whether they like it or not. A striking example is the heroes of Alec Baldwin and Kim Bessinger in the famous film The Habit to Marry. In the karmic relationship of such a couple, little changes or can be changed - these relationships seem to be rushing by themselves according to a predetermined plan.
These options are one of the most basic, which describe precisely the karmic relationship.
You can recognize a karmic meeting by the fact that the other person instantly seems unusually familiar to you. Quite often there is a mutual attraction, something attractive "in the air" that forces you to be together and get to know each other. If the opportunity presents itself, a strong attraction can develop into a love relationship. This is most often the case.
Karmic relationships - what are the prospects?
How long does a karmic relationship last? Depends on what kind of connection your karmic relationship belongs to - to healing or destructive... The hallmark of a healing relationship is that the man and woman they meet feel like soul mates, love and respect each other as they are, without trying to change each other.
It gives them great pleasure to be with each other, but they do not feel anxiety, jealousy or loneliness when their partner is not around. In such a relationship, you offer understanding, support, and approval to a loved one without trying to solve his or her problems brought from past lives. Relationships are filled with freedom and peace.
Of course, sometimes there are misunderstandings, but the emotions caused are short-lived. Both partners are willing to forgive. There is a cordial connection between them. Emotionally, both partners are independent. He or she does not fill the gap in his life, but on the contrary - adds something new, important, vital. In a healing relationship, partners may have known each other in one or more past lifetimes.
Two souls could know each other in a past life, in which they also encouraged and supported each other. This created an inextricable bond over the next few lifetimes. Such a couple will never part, never get divorced. They will always be together and be happy. A marriage with such a karmic partner can be a wonderful and wonderful journey!
Why karmic relationships are sent
But it also happens that the emotions you feel about a new love can be so overwhelming that you think that you have met your soul mate, your soul mate. Carefully! Things may not be what it seems. If you are tied up by unresolved emotional problems of the past, then sooner or later they will surface.
A spiritual lesson for all souls bound in this way is to let go of each other and become beings free and independent. The karmic relationship mentioned in the example above about a jealous husband and an accusing wife is almost never long-term, stable, loving. Often the main purpose of the meeting is to free each other from this love.
If suddenly you find yourself in a relationship characterized by emotions that cause a lot of suffering and tears, but which you cannot break, try to understand that nothing obliges you to stay with that person. Understand that strong emotions are more often associated with deep suffering than mutual love.
The energy of love is not so emotional - it is extremely calm and serene, joyful and inspiring! It is not oppressive, exhausting and tragic. If these traits are evident in your relationship, it's time to let go and not "practice them" again.
Some women who suffer in marriage from drunkenness or the bad temper of their husbands convince themselves that they still need to stay together, because "this is fate" and need to "go through it together." They appeal to karma as an argument to prolong the relationship, but distort its concept. Karma is individual for each person, it is impossible to pass your karma with someone!
Karma in the above relationships often requires you to be able to let go of your partner, letting go of the tormenting relationship in order to realize that you are whole on your own.
Sometimes you are so connected with the partner's complexes, the emotionally hurt part within him or her, that you feel that you are the only one who can sort out the situation and save him or her from problems. But nothing good will come of it. You will only intensify the emotions of powerlessness and sacrifice in the other person, while it would be more useful to draw a line and stand up for yourself.
Your destiny is to be a free person. This type of painful relationship can spiritually throw you back, and because of it, it can happen that you create heavy karma for future incarnations. Do you want that?
You may only be given a few months to resolve the past situation between you and the problem partner. You can serve him or her on life path any service you feel obligated to do, but you are not required to engage yourself in relationships that are detrimental to your spiritual growth.
Love relationships are not meant to drag us down. When we love, we wholeheartedly want to support each other in happiness and sorrow, but we should not bear the whole burden of each other's problems. All the best to you!
Lyudmila Muravyova, astrologer
this article was written specifically for the magazine
"WOMEN'S PASSIONS", 2007