A lot of it is in their appearance. What annoys girls about the appearance of men
Success in business depends on the competence of a business person, his professionalism, hard work and many, many other factors. Some of them influence the achievement of the desired result directly and directly - knowledge of the matter, experience, but we are not talking about them now. Indirect factors also influence success, and business man appearance- precisely the factor that determines the effectiveness of business connections, success in business contacts, contributes to the creation of the necessary working atmosphere and influences a person’s image.
The appearance of a business person begins with health
In order to add charm to your appearance, you first need to realize that it starts with health. It's hard to exaggerate the importance proper nutrition, exercise and self-care. All this is especially important in youth. While you are young, you can lack sleep, eat dry food, neglect exercise, not think about the dangers of smoking - and you can get away with all this. Unfortunately, with age, the consequences will definitely make themselves felt. If you take care of yourself from an early age, you will always look younger than you really are, you will be slim and fit. It's always nice to look at a slim, fit person with correct posture: easy gait, shoulders back, head held high. And a completely different impression is made by people with poor posture - stooped, with shoulder blades protruding backwards and a protruding stomach.
Many people say that their busy schedule prevents them from signing up for a sports class or going to the swimming pool. Due to the lack of sports activity, their performance will only decline, time will become less and less, which will further increase stress... to break out of it vicious circle, there is only one thing to do - carve out a couple of hours by reducing the workload at work and go to the gym or swimming pool. Very soon, increased productivity will make up for the time spent on healthy image life. And the bonus will be attractiveness and a feeling of health in your own body.
Ability to dress ( business man style) - the same art as any other
Clothing should serve you, should help you achieve your goals. Always ask yourself, “Does this style get me closer to where I want to be?” Whether you look tastefully dressed or not depends on your goals. If you want to be a rock singer, don't dress like a monk - unless being deliberately asexual is a fashion statement. If your goal is to become the president of a conservative accounting firm, you will have to remove your eyebrow earring and hide your tattoos.
“Speaks for him before he says a word,” says the famous American journalist Ariel Ford knowledgeably. It was thanks to her that some top-rated authors became famous. According to her, what an author says when appearing on a television show will not affect the sales of his books. It all depends only on whether the audience likes it or not - this is closely related to the aesthetics of the appearance.
Appearance at an interview is extremely important, this axiom does not require special proof. Do not doubt that your appearance conveys to the employer no less (if not more) important information than your resume, diplomas, characteristics and other papers. Keep in mind that every manager, before inviting any employee to work, has already created an image in his head of the employee he needs. It's not so much about your external natural data, but about how much respect you have for yourself, which undoubtedly affects your appearance, down to the smallest detail.
Call the HR department of any company in the world and ask if they take into account person's appearance when hiring him. I bet you will be given a negative answer. But data from independent experiments suggests that managers are much more dependent on the beauty of their subordinates than they want to appear.
In 2005, research data from the Federal Reserve Bank of St. Louis was published. Experts from such a respected organization said - beautiful people earn five percent more than their less attractive colleagues. It has been established that such “injustice” occurs in all areas of human activity, but it is especially noticeable in those professions that are most dependent on communication with colleagues or clients.
Reading Jack Canfield's book The Rules achieving success“, I came across such an interesting story about an ordinary bank employee. In one New York bank there was such a guy, he worked as an ordinary manager, but unlike others, he dressed like a director. All the managers were sitting in simple, worn shirts, and he was wearing good suit. Moreover, he did not stand out in any way; he worked exactly the same as the others. A year later he became the general manager, and after another 2 years he was appointed director of the bank. And why all? He dressed and acted like a director. To learn how to behave correctly in such an environment, you need to be confident, and confidence largely depends on your appearance.
Dress like who you want to be, not who you are. Everything, including the way you dress, should have a purpose. Since you must wear clothes, make sure they ensure your superiority. Clothes not only tell people who you are, but also reflect your aspirations.
Appearance of a business man In addition to clothing, even such little things as the whiteness of a smile, hairstyle, facial hair on a man, makeup on a woman’s face, well-groomed hands, skin color, jewelry and accessories, etc. are created. Taking care of yourself is not at all difficult, it’s just that not everyone pays due attention to it.
You make a lot of things in life dependent on your appearance. This is both the efficiency of your activities and promotion, and winning the sympathy of others. First impression about you, your professional qualities, temperament, character, education and attitude towards others, most often shapes your appearance. Therefore, if you are not serious about how you look and what you wear, it is time to reconsider your views on this significant point and change your appearance.
« Only the most undiscerning people do not judge by appearance." Wilde O.
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I’ve been doing a poll here for a long time... You decided that you want to see theories about Volpin. But I thought about something and decided that I wanted to combine Volpina and Rena in one post. And I was looking at their photographs and the idea of comparing their costumes popped into my head. This is, in fact, what I am writing.
So, look.
Number one.
The most important difference is the main color. Take a closer look and you can understand what Rena Rouge has, orange darker than Volpina's. Really interested to know why? Maybe the artists just mixed up the color palette... Or does this have its own meaning?
Unfortunately, I will not answer this question. I’m still inclined to believe that the artists changed the image of color and there’s nothing special here.
Number two.
Another interesting difference is that Rena Rouge's flute is much shorter than Volpina's. This definitely makes some sense! True, hidden... And incomprehensible to me... Honestly, Volpina’s flute is more beautiful. She's long!
Number three.
There is also a difference in the ears. No, not inside the ears! They are the same size, but the structure is different. Volpina's ears are tilted back, while Rena Rouge's are straight and spread apart. Rena also has black “tassels” at the end of her ears. It’s more likely, too, just a new image.
Number four.
Tail. Or rather, the transition of the suit into a tail. Look at Volpina's belt.
And to the crossing at Rena Rouge.
Is there a difference? Yes, and it's big.
Of course, these are not all the differences. The mask is also different, and in general they are different!
With this post, I would like to show that these are two completely different characters and it really annoys me when Alya is called “Volpina”.
I ask you not to do this again, because you would be terribly wrong!
My mother always repeated to me: you are greeted by your clothes, you are escorted by your intelligence. I found the clothes of the Americans to be very different from what I was used to at home. Today, I’ll tell you about five oddities in American appearance that caught my eye upon arriving in the USA.
1. They wear running shoes
How can you unmistakably distinguish an American, say, in Europe or in our homeland? If a person walks in casual clothes, a shirt and at the same time wearing sports running sneakers, you can bet that he is an American! Yes, running sneakers comfortable, yes, you can go out in them all day and your feet won’t get tired, yes, Americans care very much about their comfort. However, I still don’t understand why people who drive cars everywhere should care so much about the comfort of their feet?
If you go to the outback of the United States, you can still see the image from the Marlboro advertisement - men and women in cowboy boots or boots. Americans even have a saying: how to distinguish a European? Most likely he or she will be in fashionable shoes, and not in sneakers or boots. All of the above, however, applies to a lesser extent to large cities. In New York you may not see people in boots, but you very much do see people in running shoes!
2. Wear a shirt and jacket under jeans
So, if you see a person in casual clothes and running shoes, you already know that he is an American. Let's now assume what he will be wearing on top? Well, most likely it will be jeans, and if he goes to work, then a shirt and jacket will be included with the jeans. Do you remember Steve Jobs? He was an original - that's why he wore a turtleneck instead of a shirt, but he had jeans and running sneakers with him.
Steve Jobs in his famous turtleneck, jeans and sneakersSteve Jobs in his famous turtleneck, jeans and sneakers
Steve Jobs in his famous turtleneck, jeans and sneakers
Which shirt and jacket go with jeans and running shoes? Certainly not one-color ones of some fashionable Italian pattern. The shirt will most likely be checkered and the jacket will be of a simple, loose fit, and a T-shirt must be visible from under the shirt. Thus, the American image will be completed. Although, it must be admitted that this applies more to people of the older generation, the further into the outback of the United States, the more young people share the tastes of their parents.
3. Use a gel with the effect “ wet hair”
It's nice to leave home in the morning with clean, well-groomed hair. A woman’s hair is for me an indicator of how much a woman takes care of herself. I am sure that beautiful, well-groomed hair attracts the attention of both men and women and wins them over. I am also sure that American women share my opinion. Only the concept of grooming and beauty for my taste among American women is a little strange.
I often met women in the morning heading to work or university with their hair heavily treated with gel with the effect of wet hair. It looked like they were coming from the beach or simply hadn’t dried their hair after a shower. The “wet” hair contrasted greatly with their casual clothes.
Apparently, this is how the owners of “wet” hair imagine themselves. Apparently, this is how the owners of “wet” hair imagine themselves.
Apparently, this is how owners of “wet” hair imagine themselves
Having lived in the US for a while and witnessed how popular the “sporty” look is among Americans, I'm guessing that “wet” hair is popular precisely because it looks “sporty” - like you're a dashing surf goddess descending on the shore to honor office with his divine presence. Although, the concepts of beauty and fashion are a little different everywhere and I’m already used to “wet” hair.
4. Wear sportswear for a walk
The first time we saw a man walking under our windows in sportswear We didn’t even think to be surprised - he was probably jogging and just stopped walking to rest a little. But when we saw him the second, third, fourth time, and then other people, we became interested. It turned out that they put on sports uniforms on purpose, without even intending to run, so that a person regularly walking in front of their neighbors’ windows in the evening would not arouse suspicion.
Walking in the evening, or at any time of the day, does not seem strange to our people, but if you are in the USA, and even more so in the private sector, then walking in this way in front of your neighbors’ houses can arouse suspicion and the matter may end in a conversation with the summoned , vigilant residents, police. There is nothing wrong with this, but do not be surprised by this turn of events if it happens to you.
5. They come to the supermarket in their pajamas.
I already wrote about this once, but I’ll repeat it. In our country, you must admit, we sometimes make fun of ourselves, noticing that the further into the outback we move, the more magnificent and brighter are the outfits that people wear in everyday life. Agree, you would not be surprised to see a respectable mother in fashionable shoes with a large platform and a huge stiletto heel, in a short skirt and with evening makeup. Americans who visited our outback asked me: why do your women sometimes dress like strippers?
Americans actively use the freedoms given to them. Moreover, this concerns not only freedom of speech or religion, but even appearance - residents of the States dress as they want, and not as dictated to them world fashion Accordingly, on the streets of the United States there is a rather diverse society, which greatly surprises some tourists and newly arrived immigrants.
1. Wear running shoes.
Americans care about comfort, and you can wear running shoes all day without worrying about your feet hurting in the evening. And Americans don’t care at all that running shoes don’t go well with everyday clothes, because the main thing is to be comfortable.
True, again, it is not clear why residents of the States are so worried about the comfort of their feet, because almost all people here travel by car, and not on foot. But Americans from the outback still love to wear cowboy boots; this, however, is no longer seen in big cities, where the majority of residents still prefer sneakers.
2. Jeans and a shirt with a jacket.
Jeans are the favorite clothing of all Americans (and far beyond the US, people also adore these blue pants), but if an American has to go to work, then the look with sneakers and jeans will be complemented by a shirt or even a jacket. Moreover, the T-shirt must be visible from under the shirt; the shirt itself will be bright, perhaps with a pattern.
Steve Jobs wore a black turtleneck instead of a shirt, but otherwise (sneakers and jeans) was completely consistent with the image of a typical American.
3. T-shirt under the shirt.
Regarding this aforementioned element, the T-shirt under a shirt is almost as popular in the States as the T-shirt under a shirt is in Russia. Only the T-shirt must be visible.
4. Gel with a “wet hair” effect.
Remember the series "Friends"? Ross, who was even nicknamed “wet head,” suffered so many jokes about this. But in real life This is how many Americans walk, and not only men, but also women.
You can often find American women in the morning rushing to work with “wet” hair. It seems that the woman has just jumped out of the shower or is going to the office straight from the beach. Americans (based on the point about sneakers) prefer a dynamic “sporty” look, and the effect of “wet” hair should confirm this, turning an ordinary American woman into a cool surfer from the ocean coast, who does not consider it necessary to wash her hair when going to the office, because soon she will return to conquer the waves again.
5. Sportswear for walking.
If an American puts on a sports uniform, this does not mean that he will immediately begin to perform physical exercise or jog in the park.
In fact, this is a definite sign that a person is out for a walk, because in the States idle promenades along the streets are not accepted. Man in sports uniform signals to others that he is just walking around and they don't have to call the police.
6. They shop in their pajamas.
A Russian woman will never go to a supermarket without makeup and a beautiful outfit. This is the unspoken law of all representatives of the fair sex from Russian-speaking countries.
But American women, especially from the provinces, not only do not put on makeup before going shopping, but in general can go out in pajamas and slippers.
7. Tattoos.
“Be who you want” - all the media, advertising banners and popular people shout to Americans. Perhaps this is why there is simply some kind of cult of tattoo culture in the States.
There are tattoo parlors at every step here; many local residents have tattoos (especially residents of the American hinterlands abuse them).
8. Large leather gloves.
The image of the cowboy from the Marlboro advertisement immediately comes to mind. But if in advertising or even on some Texas ranch, huge leather gloves look quite organic, then in everyday life they can cause bewilderment among others. But only if these people around you are foreigners.
Americans consider this quite normal; many people like this accessory, and they openly use it in their image. Moreover, in American pickup trucks, the buttons on the control panels are made of such a size that they are convenient to press while wearing such gloves.
9. Baseball caps.
Let us remember again that Americans are a sports nation, sports are popular here, many play on school and university sports teams. True, even people who are not into sports prefer to wear sportswear.
In addition, you can demonstrate your commitment to your favorite team. Baseball is considered the most popular sport, so it is not surprising that an integral attribute of many Americans is the baseball cap, which Americans wear with clothes of completely different styles.
10. Heels are a rarity.
American women choose comfort and convenience for their legs. It is clear that this cannot be achieved with heeled shoes. In addition, many American women are ardent feminists, always fighting for equality.
And it’s hard to prove that you are the same as men if you’re standing in a miniskirt and high heels. Heels are exclusively an evening option for going out, but not everyday shoes.
But what’s interesting is that African-American women simply adore heels, so immigrant women who also passionately love high-top shoes can even buy shoes in areas where black women live. If, however, foreign women are not frightened by the crime situation, which in such places is quite tense.
It's no secret that men are not as sensitive to our appearance as we ourselves are. They may not notice a new haircut or hair color, they practically do not pay attention to the combination of colors in clothes, and remembering what accessories we were wearing is generally beyond their capabilities. But there are things that even men cannot ignore.
Let's start with the details that usually repel:
Aggressive makeup
Some of us are so eager to look attractive that we don’t notice how much we go too far. Base, tone, concealer, corrector - and now natural beauty hidden under the war paint of the Kikuyu tribe leader. Most men prefer either natural makeup or no makeup at all. And it's not just about appearance. It turns out that some are afraid that during hugs and kisses, cosmetics may stain their clothes. That's how things are.
Excess perfume
A light trail of fragrance will not cause discomfort, but there is no need to shower yourself with perfume from head to toe. Firstly, it is unknown whether others will like the scent you have chosen for yourself. Secondly, even the most pleasant aroma in large quantities can cause a headache and a desire to get away as far as possible. Do you need it?
Long nails with an elaborate design
During a recent visit to a manicure studio, I happened to sit next to a rather attractive girl who spent a very long time and painstakingly choosing rhinestones. I wondered: who is she doing this for? Is it really for yourself? Because men still won’t appreciate such efforts. I asked several friends what they thought about nail designs. Half of them answered that they didn’t look closely at what was drawn there, and the other half were generally surprised that women DRAW something on their nails.
As for the length, many men are not only not attracted to the excessive length of their nails, but even frightened: what if a lady pounces during a quarrel and scratches her face?
Business suits
It is not surprising that in large (and not so large) corporations the dress code requires business suits, in which female office workers become completely unattractive and unsexy, and therefore do not distract male colleagues from work. This is especially true pantsuits, which turn women into some kind of tin soldiers. Complete anti-sex!
Excess body hair
Although there are supporters of absolute naturalness, men are mostly against excess vegetation. We are not monkeys, after all, although there is a version that we originated from them. So it’s still better to remove excess hair and not scare the gentleman. And if he turns out to be a fan of “shaggyness,” he himself will tell you about it on occasion.
But there are some things that men really like, so these points are worth paying special attention to:
heels
Of course, all men understand that flat shoes are comfortable, practical and for every day, but this does not mean that they do not see the appeal of pumps. Most men admire stilettos. But if you don’t know how to walk in heels, it’s better not to break your legs, but to familiarize yourself with other points.
Miniskirts and cleavage
Remember Bublikov from the film “Office Romance” - at all times, bare legs have excited the imagination of men. To this day, short skirts remain one of the main means of seduction. What can we say about the décolleté area! It’s corny, but men are still being fooled. However, you need to know when to stop everything. You should not use these two weapons of mass destruction at the same time - you will get tired of fighting off the amazed masses!
Long flowing hair
I once heard the following phrase from a man: “If a girl has long hair, she’s already beautiful.” Men really like long hair on girls much more than short haircuts. Especially if your hair is down.
Stockings
Here, it seems to me, there is no need to even explain anything. Stockings act on most men like a red rag on a bull. Many call this item of clothing the sexiest and are upset that women do not wear them often. Well, that's something to think about, isn't it?
Dark skin
You might be surprised, but girls with tanned skin attract men more often than fair-skinned women. It is difficult to say what this is connected with - perhaps a tanned body itself looks slimmer and more athletic. It is not for nothing that fitness bikini athletes apply makeup before competitions - it emphasizes their figure favorably. Without it they don't look as impressive. But you shouldn’t go too far and disappear in the solarium all day long, frying yourself into a grilled chicken. You are unlikely to become more beautiful, but your skin may suffer.
Of course, we all want to look attractive, and first of all for ourselves. It's easy to overdo it in the beauty industry, so finding that one is important in your quest for perfection. golden mean and do not forget that the best is the enemy of the good, and the result does not always justify the effort expended.