Basic rules for seducing married girls. If you fell in love with a married girl... I want one woman but she is married
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Life is long, anything can happen in it. But it’s better not to have affairs at work. Think about what you are risking - the whole team will instantly be aware of your sighs, the information will reach the family very quickly - it’s impossible to describe how much trouble there is. Two kids. Life will turn into hell. And as a maximum, you will have to leave work (if that), or she. And your reputation will be the subject of ridicule and jokes for a long time. What for?
Well, fantasize as much as you like. You're just flirting, but you're already imagining happy family with a new wife. ) Boy!
I would start writing 70 sentences about what you will lose and how your life will change. You need to start with negative scenarios. The girl will be incredibly flattered by your attention, family budget will cut back a little on expenses for her, then she will play with you. Maybe she wants to stay with her husband. Or maybe she will get tired of you in a couple of years. Besides, you have a trailer!But if you really want it, then it’s better to find girls in a neutral environment - not at work or among friends. Here's to no connections with your environment, minimum risks and responsibility.
Author. 5 years ago I was told about the same thing, except that my son (at that moment was 4 years old) had a husband, my beloved was married, and had two children. They said a lot of things And that my child would be an orphan (fatherless), that I would be a sailor and abandoned and all that.. They even said that I would go crazy and end up in a yellow house But life goes on. My child communicates with his dad as much as he wants (and in the format he wants) and with the current man. Nobody abandoned me. I can ALWAYS count on my son's father. He's great. He does everything that needs to be done and his son relies on him for a lot of things. Including during my business trips, he fully provides for it. Pays alimony. Moreover, over the years (now his son is 9), he and his father are getting closer and closer. His father is in a new relationship now (not married, cohabiting), a little strange from my point of view, but this is his life and he is quite happy. As for my second relationship... The man is divorced, we do not live together (due to a number of circumstances beyond our control and not related to divorces, etc.), but we are all free time together. Every day. All holidays and weekends. We have a common budget and so on. I can always count on him, my mother (and you just had to see how she was against this relationship) dotes on him. And son, not everything is smooth. BUT.... Look at how many topics when people did not dare to destroy their families and went into other realities (games, computers, alcohol, and at least work). Some have tried and are trying hard to improve relationships with their spouses. Like SUDDENLY we started walking hand in hand and projecting I-messages and everything just got better and all the farts were going on. I somehow don’t believe in this. As well as the fact that I have not seen a single happy couple after affairs on the side. It all ends with anger at loved ones for not being able to. And no one has canceled the wife’s revenge (and who knows what it will be like). Many people cannot communicate with children because they perceive them as the cause of life’s troubles. Many cannot communicate with their spouses, that is, de jure the marriage is preserved, everything is honorable, but de facto such relationships exist. Is this correct? Should this be preserved? But while the egg is still in your butt, you are already dancing with the frying pan. You communicate with your passion. Trying not to advertise. Communicate closely. Did she want to? Would you like to? It will be difficult, but whether it will be BAD, as they write to you, only you will know and only in your power to make sure that the badness is minimal. I'm not calling for "destroy old world and on its fragments..”, but it’s also not worth listening to what kind of “if something” you’ll do. It’s also worth noting that the contingent (including me) of the forum are mostly aunties who have once experienced or are experiencing their husbands’ infidelity .. So transfers are common here, they are not telling you, they are telling themselves and their men: Good luck.
If you want to know how to seduce a married girl, then you probably found out from somewhere that she is married. In most cases, these questions are asked by those men who often intersect with these girls (for example, at school or at work). On the one hand, you like her. On the other hand, you are afraid that she might send you away in public and start gossiping with her friends, just like she rejected you. And besides, the whole team at work may think that you are “something wrong” for pestering a married girl.
However, it has been proven hundreds of times that married girls are not against having an affair with another man. It is important to simply choose the right key.
Since we have found out that you often meet with her (or you have the opportunity to see her regularly), then better to play more subtly. Those. attract her attention, evoke the right emotions, meet her, but not in the same way as they do with free girls, but somewhat differently.
Now you will understand what I mean.
Understand what she's missing
The emotional sphere of a person can be represented in the form of a black and white image, then you can see that the dark and light sides are at the same level. Any bias towards the light or dark side gives rise to the need for opposite emotions.
Light emotions include romance, kindness, care, love, etc. For the dark ones - jealousy, the desire to get the “forbidden fruit”, the desire to be humiliated and punished (this often applies to girls, although they themselves will try their best to deny this fact :)).
Over time, the feelings of married people begin to fade. This is a normal process.
And if at the very beginning of the relationship romance prevails, and the husband acts as a kind of “nice guy” (in most cases), then later the romance disappears, and the husband either remains a sweet, but not at all attractive guy. In this case, girl feels an urgent need for so-called “dark” emotions.
And vice versa, if he drinks often, goes out with friends, then she needs male attention, romance, etc.
Your #1 goal is to find out what emotions she needs and give them to her. .
To do this, try to make a portrait of her by answering the questions:
- what kind of life does she live
- who is her husband
- how often do they see each other
- what emotions does he give her?
Of course, you shouldn’t ask your female colleagues about this directly. Your powers of observation will work best, which will help you in right moment hear interesting facts about her.
If you ask male colleagues, you may come across statements like “You won’t succeed because...”. In this case, there is no need to argue with them - it is better to ask: “Yes?” and watch your colleague tell you fact after fact about her. Of course, you can continue to ask probing questions to get even more information. :)
Attracting attention
Before you take action, you need to make her feel attracted to you (even if only a little).
This can be achieved by creating social proof (social proof), showing that all the people in your company take your opinion into account, laugh at your jokes and seek your attention.
To do this, it is enough to communicate more actively with everyone, joke and participate in collective life.
Also try to establish micro-communications with other girls. These micro-communications should be such that every time you are near them, you notice interesting details in their behavior, environment, voice your opinion out loud, joke and ask any questions.
The natural feeling of rivalry between girls will do its job: in the eyes of each of them, after a very short time, you will become a very attractive man. And they will seek your attention.
Seduction process
In seducing married girls (especially in the initial stages) it is important to use occasions for meetings.
Direct offers to drink tea or coffee will be perceived as too obvious a hint. The thing is, even if a girl really likes you, she will... It is important to have an excuse not only to other people, but also to yourself.
For example, if you work with her, then tell her that you need her help with work. You can ask her if she can help you with writing a report or anything else. Even if you can do it yourself, you can still pretend that you need help.
During the meeting, try to give her those emotions that her husband does not give her.
And only later, when you feel that you are close to your intended goal, you can no longer use the reasons.
In some cases, some obstacles will await you: sex with another man for a married girl is not such an easy step. Even if she really needs the emotions you give her, she needs time to get used to the idea of cheating.
In addition, many married girls are interested in an easy, non-binding romance. They don't need serious relationship, and they want to be sure that if something happens, you can break up without unnecessary conflicts. Therefore, they will test the man for need. The most favorite way to do this is refuse a meeting or sex and see the reaction.
If, despite her refusal, you continue to be the same interesting, positive man who gives her the same emotions, then this will be a plus for you. If you get upset because of her refusal, then you will show weakness.
Follow these simple rules, and seducing a married woman will be very easy. But before you begin active actions, remember that they should only be started when both conditions match:
- You really like her.
- You feel that she is ready to cheat on her husband with you (those who are interested in the moral side of the issue should be reassured by the fact that her readiness to cheat would mean a lack of sincere feelings for her husband).
Otherwise, it is better to focus your efforts on available girls. Luckily there are enough of them around.
Hello, my name is Semyon, I am 35 years old, married, two beautiful daughters. Good job, paid. Everything in life seems to be going great. Only 3 months ago I was struck by lightning and I stopped seeing any meaning in my life. Really constant thoughts about leaving and not feeling anymore...
Forgive me if I write a lot, but I simply have no one else to speak to, an adult man will not run to a psychologist, friends are also not an option, a wife is definitely not, and now you will understand why.
In 2001, I met a wonderful girl, she was 18 years old, she came to my city to study at the institute, I was 23 years old and I was already living separately from my parents, renting an apartment. We started a relationship and a year later we began to live together. We dated for 7 years. We loved each other very much, we were incredibly happy and we broke up, one might say, out of stupidity... I suffered a lot, didn’t know what to do, I looked everywhere to meet her, but she always avoided me, changed her number, moved and disappeared from my life. She flew home without even taking her things and we didn’t see each other until recently. And it happened by chance, due to work. You should have seen our faces when our eyes met... My world turned upside down at that moment. Looks like he got married (to the exact opposite ex-girlfriend), gave birth to children, I thought it had calmed down, when suddenly everything lit up again. She herself recently turned 30, got married a year ago, and is happy. Went to dinner with her after work (both spouses). Her husband dotes on her, he’s clearly a good, decent guy, cheerful, and she looks at him lovingly. I was so jealous of her, so jealous! And I was angry at the same time! I could barely hold on, I didn’t know how to behave, I just wanted to take her hand and take her out of there, shout at her why she did that then, shake her by the shoulders, just find out why she did this to me, damn it, for What!!! After dinner we went our separate ways and went to work in the morning. I couldn’t sleep at all, I called her and asked if she could meet, she didn’t understand anything, but she agreed. Time 3 o'clock. I got pretty drunk at the restaurant, and at home I drank too much whiskey, I told her everything, I burst into tears, imagine, this has never happened to me. She stands, is silent and also sheds tears. She hugged me. I tell her, “Will you come back to me?” She started talking about the fact that I’m married and have children, then that she’s already married and so much time has been lost. I told her firmly that I would divorce my wife, but I would see my children, but I love her and that’s all. She started crying and shook her head. So we both stood on the street and both cried. Then we got into the car and calmed down, she said that I wouldn’t see her again, and in vain she had come in the first place. I was an idiot and started kissing her. But she stopped me, hugged me, said that she LOVED me (!!!) and left! I sat like that in the car until the morning. Then I went to work, with flowers, and thought that she had agreed to be with me again. But she's not there. That's all. She disappeared again. I just sent an SMS so that I wouldn’t look for it. That's all. All this time I can’t find a place for myself. I really love her, so many years have passed, but I still love her! What should I do, people?! My wife, to be honest, is beautiful, thanks for the children, but she is a fool! I can't be with her! I wanted to live separately, but I can’t live without my daughters. I'm thinking about suicide, I've already attempted it once.<Способ суицида - ред.мод.>, in the end I just vomited wildly and felt dizzy. There's nothing good about me! And then recently I found out her address and new phone number! But I'm afraid to call, I'm afraid that he will disappear again! What to do?! What should I do?! I'm in complete despair! Help, please...
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Semyon, age: 35 / 09.29.2014
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Semyon,
She loves her husband. Wish her happiness. What's the use of pursuing her?
Your problem is rather that you married a woman with whom you have nothing to talk about. From your letter it follows that you have no spiritual intimacy with her. It is possible that you married the wrong woman, and now everything is complicated by the presence of children .Your only choice is to continue to live in this marriage or get a divorce. No one can decide this for you, but I strongly recommend that you wait a year and see how you feel in a year, when the emotions from meeting this woman have subsided. Now, under the influence of emotions, your decisions will not be adequate, and your wife will most likely begin to irritate you greatly.
As for psychologists, this is your false pride. You make good money and a psychologist could help you. I myself am studying to become a psychologist in England and I can say that different psychologists work in different directions. You need to find your own specialist and decide with who is easier for you talk to a man or a woman. If you don’t like the specialist, go to another until you find yours. You pay them money and they are obliged to maintain confidentiality. For them, you are an ordinary client (hundreds of clients pass through them) and nothing more. Just to a stranger and it’s easier to speak out and everything said will remain between you. It’s definitely better than committing suicide. Give yourself a chance! Also remember that consciousness does not die with death and all your earthly problems and your love may appear before you in a completely different light, and your children will not understand your action at all. They will decide that you loved some aunt more than them. Agree that voluntary departure to the next world is still a betrayal towards your children. Almost all people in this world have experienced unhappy love, but don’t kill yourself because of this. At 35 you are not You may not understand that as soon as you meet a new mutual love, you will immediately forget about the old one.
sk, age: 34 / 09/29/2014
Semyon, she is happy with her husband, and you are responsible for the family. Men must be stronger than passions, you must protect love, family, people who have trusted you - wives, children. Sad.
Katya, age: 28 / 09/29/2014
Dear Semyon! Leave the girl alone. She doesn't want to be with you, and she's right. You cannot build your happiness on someone else's misfortune. And this is the pure truth, suffered by many people. Don’t think that you and your case are unique - many before you thought so, people didn’t just pull this saying out of thin air.
The fact that she said that she loves you is based on emotions. When you see a person for whom you once had strong feelings, and this person also cries and says that he still loves you... that’s what she said to console you. But this is a pity, nothing more.
There really is no turning back now, and she explained this to you as best she could. Believe me, if she loved you, then she would not have disappeared, she would not have left. When you love, no matter how strong the offense may be, you still secretly hope for reconciliation. Is it true?
The fact that after what you think was a stupid quarrel, she changed all her contacts and left - suggests that perhaps your relationship did not seem as cloudless to her as it is to you.
Someone else's soul is dark, so judge better by their actions. Judging by this action of hers and the fact that she has not given any news about herself all these years... draw your own conclusion.
And now - well, she doesn’t want to see each other anymore, you know? I even left work.
Therefore, Semyon, there is no need to look for her. And there is no need to destroy your family either. It is always easy to destroy, it is more difficult to build. For the sake of your daughters, live with your wife together. Gradually all this will subside. Young love is strong, yes. Because there is love, and also nostalgia for youth. But if you understand this, then it will be easier to cope.
Hold on! God help you.
Olga, age: 26 / 09/29/2014
Hello, Semyon! Let your passions subside... she really loves her husband and will not leave him, even despite the fact that she has warm feelings for you, because it is impossible to throw out the memories of the person you were with from life 7 years! Forgive her for her actions, and forgive yourself! You say that you love your daughters and cannot live without them, so you live, for them, for their sake, how old are they now? They need you. And with your wife...now she will call you negative emotions, you will see only shortcomings, but you fell in love with her for something, try to remember exactly why, for what qualities, remind yourself. And if you realize that it’s not working out, well...the decision to divorce or not...is up to you.
lisizzz, age: 24/09/29/2014
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Hello, dear readers! Do you know what the difference is between sympathy and love? If we like a flower, we pick it, but if we love it, then we water it every day, take care of it and cherish it in every possible way. This was not invented by me, but by one of the greats. And how much truth there is in these words.
If you are reading this article, then you will boldly admit to yourself and ask yourself many questions: “I love a married woman, what should I do?” And in this case, the advice of a psychologist will come in very handy, because further confusion may develop.
Now I will try to tell you what to do next, how to behave, what to do if you yourself are married. There will be a lot of questions, so let's get down to business quickly.
Measure seven times
First of all, you need to understand the truth of your feelings and make sure that you are ready for what comes next. The matter is quite serious, especially if the married girl you love has a child. There are too many people involved in this situation, and if in the process you realize that the feelings were not entirely sincere, then it will be extremely difficult to return to the original one.
In no way am I dissuading you from the idea that you are about to decide on. Situations are different and I know thousands of examples when a marriage collapsed and true happiness was built on its ruins. In the end, third people in love don’t just appear. For this purpose. However, first of all, you need to weigh everything and understand yourself.
Don't try to understand why you love this woman. You will never know the true answer. Love defies analysis. The only thing you need to make sure of now is the willingness to endure all the consequences together, despite the difficulties.
Of course, everything can turn out any way, life is unpredictable, perhaps your woman will choose another man in the end, even if you think that she loves you too. There are too many factors influencing the decision. At this stage, you must make a firm decision to change your own life and for this.
Children's question
If your chosen one has children, you should think about them too. Even if everything works out, she will probably want to communicate, and maybe even live with them. If you are not ready to accept a woman with children or hope that she will abandon her child for the sake of a relationship with you, it is better not to accept any attempts to get closer.
You can only be responsible for your actions. Do not create illusions and do not make decisions for other people. This can later become a serious cause for disagreement.
A woman is inseparable from her children. Maybe not now, but a little later it will become very important issue and a problem. According to the girl, you will be to blame for it. Isn't that the reason to?
Your family
I repeat that you can only be responsible for your actions. If you have a wife, then before considering the idea of being a woman, you must clearly decide that you want to leave the family. Admit that you can no longer continue to live as before and want to change everything or give up your idea.
There is a significant difference between “leaving the family” and “leaving for another woman.” In the second case, you may become very disappointed when you begin to compare and analyze your previous and current relationships. This is not worth doing at all.
If you're happy with everything and just want to try something new, it won't end well. A little later you will begin to reproach new woman the fact that for her sake you destroyed such a happy marriage, and after some time you yourself will believe in this idea.
You must understand that even if you don’t want or can’t live with a particular girl, it’s better to be alone. If you agree with this idea, then your decision makes more sense. It will bring more benefits regardless of how the situation turns out later.
Step towards
If, after all the reflection, you remain true to your decision, then it’s time to talk to married woman, which you like. This is already a question concerning two people, and only you together have the right to decide how to live further.
If you still have questions, it is better to seek personal advice from a psychologist.
I also recommend that you read the book “Life after divorce” by Elena Elfimova. Your chosen one is facing a difficult period, if everything goes well, you will need to support and understand her. Men and women often speak different languages, so the book will definitely not be useless.
That's all for me. See you again and don't forget to subscribe to the newsletter.
He's free , she is married. They meet secretly, in their relationship there is a lot of romance and even more lies. Someday everything will end, and most likely, badly. We roughly understand how she feels about this. What does it feel like for him as a lover with a married woman?
FROM THE EDITOR: By a strange coincidence, the name Marat appears in both stories sent by the authors. Otherwise, the stories of our heroes are different. And strongly.
My poor Marat-1
...I found out that she actually exists by accidentally attending performances with her participation. I remember one called “My poor Marat.” There, in Marat, I liked Vika. She played well. A beautiful, stately brunette, her eyes sparkled across six rows. Six months later, fate brought us together.
Orchestra and cognac
I played the trumpet in the institute orchestra, she came to our club to stage an amateur performance, and I took part in it: I performed a saxophone solo to a soundtrack. It was easy, but my comrades who played the dancers suffered a lot. You either do the pas de deux or you don’t, the soundtrack won’t save you.
While they were puffing away, Vika and I were chatting about everything backstage. One day she offered me cognac from a small flask:
- The real one, my sister brought it from France. Delicious.
I soon realized: it smells like close relationships. It was exciting, but also scary: where will I find money for French cognac when her supplies run out?
In the midst of rehearsals, I fell ill. He returned to the institute from the hospital after the concert. She's gone. I don’t know where to look, and I don’t know if it’s necessary. She found me herself. We met, then again and again. In general, it began.
AT THE MOMENT OF GETTING CLOSER, THERE IS A SPECIAL SADDNESS, DOOM, SOMETHING IN THE EYES OF SUCH WOMEN...
I broke up with my previous loves. And she admitted that she was married and had no intention of breaking up. She didn’t wear a ring, but I had guessed this before, I just didn’t specifically ask. There is a special sadness in the eyes of such women at the moment of rapprochement, a preliminary doom or something. And even narcissism in light of these almost tragic circumstances. At the same time, the fact of marriage does not stop them in any way; it only adds spice to the emerging romance. As for me, I didn’t care, I was just interested in life, I didn’t plan to worry about anything.
My beloved’s husband, a theater director by profession, was no longer young, bald, and drove his old Opel poorly. He staged various celebrations like weddings and was envious of his successful colleagues.
Ease and complexity
It turned out that at first wives who cheat on their husbands easily talk about their legal spouses, but after a while jealousy and guilt appear, and this becomes a taboo topic. At the beginning of our relationship, Vika didn’t even hesitate to answer her husband’s call when we were in bed. I thought it was funny.
She considered herself a much more mature person than me, although she was only four years older and real life I couldn’t think of a damn thing. For example, I went to the bank to pay bills for her - Vika was terrified of filling out receipts.
At first, wives cheating on their husbands are infinitely easy to communicate with. Vika did not demand anything and was grateful for every little thing. I gave her almost no gifts, rarely called or wrote, and was not particularly generous with compliments. We couldn’t see each other often, so every meeting was a holiday even without all this. However, from the very beginning she did not skimp on tender words, she perfectly remembered all my habits and indulged them. We can say that in a sense, Vika spoiled me: I could have been more attentive to women than is the case now.
Finally, she was a real beauty, next to her, besides her husband, there was a crowd of admirers, and our connection simply flattered my vanity.
However, the heat subsided. After a few months, I clearly saw the real outlines of my disaster, but I could no longer do anything. Whether you want to become attached to a person or not is not something you can control.
Victoria and victory
We couldn't go anywhere together. Vicky knew half the city. Sometimes I met her while walking in the center. She was usually not alone and looked past. We carefully made our way to evening cinema sessions, sometimes sat in a cafe - that’s all we went out into the world. If she met someone, I became an empty place. When people are shy and hide you, it’s terribly annoying.
We couldn't help each other, support each other when needed. I couldn’t introduce her to my friends, and she couldn’t introduce me to hers. And this is a very important part of the relationship. Valentina, Vicki’s only friend, whom she introduced me to, treated me very warily and soon openly asked me to “stop tormenting Victoria.”
Later, I really began to torment Vika in a natural way. He called at the wrong time, on purpose. I made sure that she stayed with me, causing problems with her husband. On the street I took her hand and went in to kiss her. In short, he aggravated the situation in every possible way. I wanted us to be a real couple. However, now I understand that I needed not so much Vika as a victory.
Jealousy and envy
I couldn't accept that there was someone else between us, no matter how corny it may sound. Jealousy and envy ruled me. Just think: she’s probably sleeping with him! This did not allow me to live in peace. Everything in my life somehow went wrong. I began to commit violations of labor discipline. Increased aggressiveness began to appear. From October to March, I got into fights three times and was taken to the police station. One of the skirmishes cost me a broken nose and a scar on my eyebrow.
“You’re simply uncontrollable,” Vika told me playfully, pouring brilliant green into the wound.
She said she wanted me to find another girl, but that was a lie. No matter what people tell you in such a situation, they are using you. It is very unpleasant to realize this, although it is not their fault.
Vika liked to say: you need to enjoy every moment, why think about what will happen next. Fairy tales for drug addicts. You can’t invent a world for yourself and not leave it. A person always wants to know what is ahead of him. Yes, any relationship can end badly, not just ones like ours. But other options should, at least theoretically, be envisaged. I'm not talking about plans, but about a sense of perspective. However, Vika was happy with everything—that’s what I mean by use.
Goodbye baby!
We broke up in May. In total, almost a year, of which a good third was a time of debilitating self-criticism.
“I’ve never felt so good with anyone,” said Vika, saying goodbye.
I thought it would be great if her husband could hear it. And he answered out loud with the same banality:
- Goodbye, baby. Turn to the right, I will remember you well. Another hot summer is ahead, I hope you will be happy.
That's it. Let me summarize. The global ambush of a relationship with a married woman is that the man turns out to be a loser in any case. (I’m really talking about love. If you are so enlightened that you easily remain faithful to non-binding sex and nothing more, I envy and fall silent.)
With this option for developing relationships, everything is clear: we are losing time - the most valuable thing we have. We get on each other's nerves, humiliate ourselves, break our noses. An atmosphere of constant lies, she is tormented by a guilt complex, he is tormented by thoughts about why all this is necessary.
But here is the second option: male pressure overcomes girlish fear, and the young lady decides to leave her legal husband. Will the hero be happy? No, and that’s right - there’s nothing! It's a trap. Because in her eyes (and in his, and in the eyes of others), he is now responsible for her. Took him away from his husband - now you drive. Get married! She broke her family, sacrificed stability, and completely relied on you! How will you get out?
The same thing happens when a man leaves his family for his mistress. They immediately rush to have children and start their own family. In general, to prove something to someone. Stereotypes, what to do.
However, of course, life experience is useful. Any. And there's another hot summer ahead.
Anton Fedotov
My poor Marat-2
I’ll say right away: I’m sorry that this happened. Usually people don’t think about the consequences of their actions... or they do, but dismiss themselves. I knew from the very beginning how everything would turn out.
I remember it was raining...
And when it rains, I don’t go outside. This is my principle. But then the phone rang, I picked it up, and my friend said to me:
- I’ll come to you now. And not alone. I'll come with the girls.
I replied that I would be glad, although I recently woke up and looked like a shirt that had been ironed on one side: I slept for almost eleven hours and, apparently, all the time on my right side.
Friend said:
- They don't care what you look like. They are good.
The girls turned out to be good. We had a good time, I mean we chatted. One of them was called Sasha, and the other was Marina. Then Sasha began dating my friend, and Marina became friends with me. Literally. She liked me as a man, but I didn’t like her as a woman. But it was interesting for the two of us.
One day, when we were lying on the roof of my house, I told her: “I’m waiting for Marat to visit.” - “Who is Marat?” - “Childhood friend.” “I hope he won’t bother us,” answered Marina. And she turned over onto her back.
Marat, as always, was late. He appeared when we were about to go down to the apartment. He lit a cigarette and silently handed the pack to Marina.
It looked like a scene from an old movie, but I knew my friend had a habit of showing off, which I warned Marina about in advance. She chuckled, but then he treated her to tobacco, and Marina accepted the invitation. It was instant sympathy. I was not embarrassed by this turn: I was still indifferent to her as a woman.
They got married in July...
Marat got drunk during the celebration, almost got into a fight with Marina’s father, and was also ready to throw himself from the tenth floor balcony. I have already said that he is eager for spectacular actions...
After the wedding, everything went as before, and then gradually deteriorated. Marat quarreled with his superiors and left his job. I didn’t earn enough for a normal life, I became relaxed and lost track. Women are not too ready to tolerate such an order. Marina, we must pay tribute, behaved correctly for some time, and yet they began to quarrel.
One summer I came to visit them. As I walked up the stairs, I heard them shouting at each other two floors above. Then the door opened and Marina jumped out. When she saw me, she said that she couldn’t go on like this anymore, she was going to her parents. At least for the weekend - live in an empty apartment while everyone is out of town. Marina offered to go with her, and I agreed. Then we sat in the kitchen, ate, read magazines. Then we went to bed and fell asleep. In the morning we had breakfast and slept casually. I didn’t think about anything, but Marina was determined. She admitted that she finally realized that she had made a mistake. Not now, but when I married Marat. I was not ready for such a plot twist and let her know it.
Marina understood. We spent the whole day with her, and in the evening Marat arrived and began breaking into the apartment. I was sitting in the kitchen and really wanted to fall through the floor. It was only at that moment that it chilled me to the bone. What happened began to seem like an idiotic, vulgar sketch that needed to be deleted from memory. However, I could not help but admit that their marriage had no prospects, and, in addition, Marina showed me a different side. I already said that I was indifferent to her as a woman, but sex put everything in its place.
She didn’t open the door for Marat...
We went back to bed. Each time it got better and better, the fog dissipated, I began to feel something, but I still had sex, as if trying to drown out a toothache. I kept in my mind and heart all the time that Marat... And I did it again - for two months.
Marina told Marat that she would live with her parents for a week, then a second. Marat visited me regularly and was frank. And I learned that the degree of human baseness has no limits. And that people living in lies are no different from honest ones. Their hooves do not grow, their faces do not become distorted. I gave way to pedestrians when I was driving, I didn't do bad things at work, I was polite, and so on. At the same time, I met with Marat, supported him (and sincerely!), he left me inspired, after which Marina came to me, almost sneaking along the walls, and we brutally tortured each other in bed. Well what can I say.
I woke up at night in panic...
A couple of times he roared like a beluga out of self-loathing. Two months of hell. Sixty-one days of high.
And here's another thing. If before Marina was drawn to me, and I perceived her as a friend, now the situation has changed. Marina only wanted sex from me, but I began to feel something similar to love for her. We talked about this, and I realized that a spoon is dear to dinner - Marina does not need either Marat or me. Time passed, she grew up faster than us. I felt like I was becoming a story from her past. Marina is waiting for other men who will lead her. They will not invite her to sunbathe on the roof of a block house, they will not bother her with reflections. These guys will be made from one piece of material, no seams.
NOW I KNOW: WHITE AND BLACK HAVE SHADES. AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE EITHER KIND OR COOL.
Now I know that there are other shades besides black and white. And you don’t have to be either kind or cool. Then I believed that I was kind, although in reality, to be honest, I was - for example, in relation to Marat - a natural pig. And it seemed to me that Marina would really go to the strong. I hated myself for it, and she too. And he began to love her even more. A confusing story.
Two months later she left...
“I met a man and I want to be with him,” said Marina.
As you can see, I was right. But not completely.
Marina dated this man for six months. With another one, also serious, three months. I forgot about her, tried to forget. We talked with Marat; besides, I got good girl. Life began to return to normal. And suddenly Marina appeared on Marat’s doorstep. She didn't ask for forgiveness, she just said she wanted to try again. Marat, without saying a word, let her into the house and never let her out again. They are still together. We don't communicate.
...I still sometimes freeze in horror at what I did. And every time I freeze at the unexpected ringing of the doorbell. I'm afraid it's Marat who found out everything. However, no, I’m not afraid, on the contrary, I want it to be him, so that he will punch me in the eye. Only he doesn’t come and come, and he does the right thing. This best way to take revenge - to make me spend the rest of my life in torment.
Vyacheslav Vasiliev
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