Writing a farewell letter to your loved one
In this bustling world, one day two halves meet - He and She. Each couple has its own scenario for the development of relationships: a love story begins, unfolds and, sadly, comes to an end.
There are many reasons for separation: misunderstandings, accumulated grievances, betrayal, and simply a feeling that the relationship has reached a dead end.
Almost all stories have a beautiful beginning, but not everyone is able to put a beautiful end to it. It’s difficult to gather your thoughts and say calmly: “I’m sorry, we need to break up.” The voice may tremble treacherously, and tears will flow from the eyes.
If separation is inevitable, try writing a goodbye letter to your boyfriend or beloved man.
Girls, of course, are delicate creatures, but often they are the ones who take the courage and say the last “Goodbye”. It's much easier to talk about a breakup in writing.
You can write the message in your own words or use the templates that we have prepared for you.
Farewell letter to boyfriend
For example, this:
“Hello, bunny. You will probably be surprised that I am writing you a letter. We are used to talking to you. True, lately all our conversations end in quarrels. I thought for a long time, understood myself, analyzed our relationship and realized: this cannot continue.
I have already forgiven you. And goodbye!
whom you love
“Dear, good, beloved! I pulled myself together and decided to write to you in a letter everything that I could not express in words when we met. Our love has turned into some kind of one-sided ugly entity. I see that my efforts to improve relationships are leading nowhere.
You rarely call and perceive our meetings as a heavy duty. I’m not made of stone, and I feel it all.It hurts, it’s hard, I won’t pretend to be strong. I will cry, miss and worry about you.
But, so be it, I’m letting you go free. Fly towards your happiness. Unfortunately, I couldn't make you happy. May everything work out for you with another girl. Maybe you already have someone, but you’re afraid to say it. Fly, my dear, fly!
I'm letting you go. Forever. Goodbye!"
who offended
“Hey baby. I am writing you a farewell message in prose. There is not enough mental strength for poetry and rhymes. My strength left along with the tears, which I stopped with great difficulty in order to put an end to our story.
We began to quarrel often and say hurtful words to each other. We became strangers and incomprehensible to each other. The hands have ceased to be affectionate, there are no former strong hugs and... there is nothing at all.
Let's admit to each other that our love has turned into nothing, we destroyed it with our efforts. My resentment is too great to continue the relationship.
We are parting. Forgive and farewell!”
which changed
"My dear! How difficult it is for me to gather my thoughts and tell you everything. Even in a letter, when you don’t see my tear-stained face. I know that you betrayed me. No, not like that. You betrayed our love, our beautiful days and nights. Your action showed that I mean absolutely nothing to you.
Apparently I've become your habit. You call out of habit, you come out of habit, and you even apologize out of habit. You manage to do this somehow insensitively and insincerely. Why do we need extra problems? We both need to change something in our lives. You've already started.
Have a nice journey, dear! I forgive you and let you go. Forever."
Former
“Hello, hello! I don’t even know how to contact you now. Your heart beats and shouts to you “beloved”, “dear”, “only”, and your mind sobers up and says “former” about you. Yes, you were a wonderful, wonderful moment in my life. Now it seems that everything was a dream. Morning came and our love dissolved.
After our separation, days and nights ceased to exist for me. I lived as if in some impenetrable fog. But the heavenly forces have had mercy, the fog is slowly dissolving, I see the outlines of the horizon. This means that I live and breathe deeply again.
You may no longer be in my reality, but no one will tear you out of my heart. Memories of our meetings will always warm and encourage me. Sorry for everything. Remember us. There was love. Goodbye!"
To my beloved husband
“My dear, dear man. Life has decreed that you and I have turned from two halves into two loneliness. I think about you every minute, my heart lives only with you. How did it happen that we are breaking up?
Do you remember our first meeting - our burning eyes, excitement and unquenchable desire to be together. Do you remember our days and nights? Do you remember how we missed each other?
Is love really doomed to death, like all living things in this world? If I love, how can you not love? This is somehow wrong, unfair. The feelings must be mutual.
Maybe you have been overwhelmed by so many problems that you have stopped hearing the voice of your heart? I will pray to heaven that your heart will be freed from captivity, that love will be resurrected in your soul. I wish you goodness, light, warmth and, of course, love!
I'm sorry. And goodbye!
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For a married man
“Good, not my man. How difficult it is to write a letter to someone you still love! I had no right to fall in love with you, but I could not resist the surging feelings. It's surprising that you couldn't resist either.
I don’t know what to call our relationship, but it was beautiful, like a dream. As sad as it is, the time has come for both of us to wake up, look into each other's eyes for the last time, embrace each other for the last time and part.
You are married, return to your family, gather your strength and solve all the problems that have befallen you like a man. At first it will probably be difficult, you will rush back, but this is a path to nowhere. The wonderful dream dissolved in the rays of the clear sun, it was time to face reality.
Be happy with the one who is your legal wife. After all, you loved her once. I wish you reunion, understanding, warmth and light. I no longer want to be the cause of your quarrels and pain.
Forgive me and let me go"
who threw
"My love! I'm sorry, I can't call you anything else, because I love you and will always love you. It hurts me, I'm offended to the point of tears. Burning tears are what keep me warm in these last days and weeks. And before, your hands and lips warmed me.
My heart rejoiced and did not believe in my happiness. It beat like a free bird, ready to burst out of the chest. And now it beats dully and doomedly, as if forever imprisoned.
Why did you leave? He didn’t explain anything, didn’t say goodbye, didn’t hug. He just disappeared from my life and that’s it. I can’t believe that life goes on and you’re not there and won’t be there anymore. I believe in a miracle that you will come to your senses and want to return. Know, my dear, that I will always open my arms to meet you. I will be faithful to you until the end of my days.
Remember this. And be happy!
Whom you don't love
"Dear friend! I am glad that I met you on the path of life. You are a wonderful, sincere, interesting person. You know how to love and look after beautifully. I'm sorry I can't reciprocate your feelings. My heart does not respond to the call of your heart. You can probably guess this yourself.
I can no longer date you and continue this deception. Thank you for the love and warmth that you generously give, but believe me, I am not the one who will reciprocate your feelings. Let's part as friends before our relationship reaches a dead end. Keep this farewell letter and remember that I was honest with you.
Forgive me a hundred thousand times and let me go once. Goodbye!"
Letter to SMS
Modern girls can end a relationship by sending their ex-boyfriend a goodbye text message.
Here are some examples:
“Hare, it’s all over between us. Goodbye!"
“This can’t go on any longer, the love has passed, the tomatoes have wilted!”
“I'm sorry, it's over, we're not together anymore. Goodbye"
Remember that sending the “last” SMS is dangerous. There is a high probability of receiving a lot of perplexed or even offensive text messages in response. A beautiful one-way farewell letter on paper will indicate the seriousness of your intentions.
The choice is, of course, yours. Perhaps you, like Tatyana Larina, will want to rhyme your last message.
Touching poems
Everything in this world is not forever,
There is an edge to everything in the world.
I'll put my arm around your shoulders
And I’ll whisper: “Forgive me, goodbye.”
No need for further explanation
No need for tears or insults.
Let there be no love between us,
Let's part as friends.
It is difficult to decide and send a goodbye letter to a guy, even if it has already been written. In any case, it is better to throw out your pain and resentment on paper than in the face of your loved one.
Who knows, maybe this message will take your relationship to a new level, help resolve accumulated misunderstandings and mend faltering relationships. Be happy!