Five date rule
One, two, three, four, five!
Maybe count slower?
You can quickly and again!
Five, four, three, two, one!
I guess I'll start the story!
The rule of five dates is mentioned very often in comedy films about love! But what do we know about him? And what have you heard about it? How relevant is this now?
5 dates:
First - turn your head!
And I would call it “Examination”, akin to what doctors do!
The first meeting should take place in a relaxed atmosphere, because it is just a meeting, non-binding. It doesn’t matter where: park, cafe, car, store, university. In just a couple of hours you will be able to understand whether a second appointment is needed or whether these are just imaginary symptoms.
Attention, politeness, courtship, your goal with this is: to kindle interest, surprise, intrigue, but at the same time understand for yourself, who is this next to you!? Everything will count! But remember that it is not always worth rejecting some option already at the first meeting, because sometimes they take place under strange circumstances, which will not allow you to give an objective assessment, or the person to open up to you fully. You know, the doctor supposedly makes a diagnosis and sends you for precise tests, and everything will be confirmed at a follow-up appointment!
Second - digest!
You know, eating alone is bad for your kidneys. It's time to meet in a cozy place, order some goodies and talk about nothing!
Such a meeting will give you a lot of reasons to make a final diagnosis. Many people manage to test it on the second date: a sort of check for a money scam, a line of behavior in an unusual situation! Don’t get too carried away, you remember the goal that you are pursuing!
The date is over, you involuntarily analyze the information received, it’s not enough, you need to know more! And involuntarily comes the understanding that you are drawn to this person! As your attending physician, who referred you to a specialist studying your crush, I inform you that your body has begun to produce phenylethylamine. It's not scary, it just means it's time to go on a third date!
Third is an adventure!
What will it be? I can only imagine! Your imagination showed an excellent result! You just had to arrange a date similar in concept to the second one, but add a touch of intrigue/drive/shock to it! What were you awarded for? Light touches, gentle hugs, you are already closer! But don’t flatter yourself, stop! You're like a surgeon, you just draw the lines before the operation! All the most important things are yet to come! Therefore, don’t act like a wild person, why have you never seen a living person!
Fourth - Romance!
The main thing is to remember that throughout all previous dates, elements of romance must be present! But it is in the fourth that romance should spill over the edge of the flask filled with your emotions!
And so he “prescribed a spa procedure” for you! Everything is for you, attention is only on you, all your wishes come true, people around are smiling, and the level of pheromones released in the air is off the charts! Don't you have a desire to generously reward his efforts! Look at the clock! Kissing time!
I understand you, it’s hard to stop, but it’s still worth it! Let's not reveal all our cards!
Fifth is the best.
Some time must pass before this important date! A week, two?! That's not the point! You already know a bunch of different funny stories about each other, you have seen your significant other in various situations. Now the time has come to get to know each other much better! Well, we are not children anymore, everyone understands what we are talking about! But! Let her want it herself, just herself!
There are various variations of this rule.
On the first date, a man thoroughly studies the appearance of his passion, looks to see if she has silicone lips, how crooked and thin her tights are, and, so to speak, asks the price. On the first date, it is not customary to spend money at all.
At the moment of the first date, a man decides whether sex with this particular girl is worth further material investments; if she passes this stage, then...
Second date: “Money scam test”
Inviting a girl to an expensive restaurant does not mean at all that the man is ready to spend money on her; this is done with one main goal - to monitor the girl’s spending trends. Ideally, the passion should reach for the bill at the end of the evening.
Today, joint payment of bills is becoming the norm for men, but the rules of etiquette seem to be fading into the background. The rule “The inviting party pays the bill” is somehow inappropriate here.
Third date: “Lice check”
This rule for conducting this date seemed completely crazy to me, but you can judge for yourself.
You need to invite the girl with you on a shopping trip, preferably expensive ones, or even better - boutiques. The goal is to find a “special” tie to go with a “special” shirt. In this case, you definitely need to go through the perfume department and watch the reaction.
I don’t know what the person who compiled this program was thinking, but I can’t imagine a woman indifferently walking past a sign “cosmetics, new products, sale”: in my opinion, this is completely abnormal.
Of course, on this so-called date (although for me there is not an iota of romance in going for a tie), you need to evaluate how much the girl cares about the appearance of her companion, how much she understands fashion and how economical she is, again.
Fourth date: “Intellectual-emotional test”
For this purpose, you need to watch some intellectual and emotional movie, such as “A Beautiful Mind”, “Knocking on Heaven’s Door”, “Veronica Decides to Die” and other movies, frankly speaking, they are not for everyone. With the help of such pictures, a man evaluates the IQ of his companion: does she like the movie, how did she understand its essence, did she fall asleep while watching it.
The method is, of course, controversial, but the male brain is a mystery.
Fifth date: "Swimming pool"
It is supposed to invite a girl to a place where it is easy to appreciate her body, but in such a way as not to give a hint of sex. Men are sincerely confident that after sex a girl acquires a kind of neurotic attachment to her partner, that she has a desire to constantly call, write, and the list goes on.
This means that before you sleep with her, you need to make sure that you won’t lose anything.