If you love, you suffer, if you don’t love, you suffer! This is how life will go in search of the golden mean

Every girl lacks attention, and guys are often busy with work. They always have a lot of things to do that require immediate solutions, they are always in a hurry somewhere and don’t have time to do something. This leaves the girls with minimal time, which gives rise to legitimate grievances and questions. How to get out of this situation?

Men are goal oriented

Psychologists believe that all this developed in ancient society. Trying to survive in harsh conditions, our ancestors had high hopes for men. They were always brought up in such a way that they only need to go forward. Over time, this has become so entrenched in our minds that even now the main goal of any man is the pursuit of wealth, money and success.

Men strive to have the best and are guided in their lives by the following motto - higher, stronger, better. They constantly strive to increase their income, buy a cool car, or acquire a country plot. And of course men want to see the most beautiful woman, and even if they have found their soulmate, they continue their real or mental search further and further. It is the constant desire to achieve a goal that leads to misunderstandings in relationships. A man is always driven by one goal or another, and he strives to achieve it, strives to prove to the whole world that he is a real man.

Sometimes men act like crazy and obsessive people, like they're running a marathon. And the girls are forced to keep up with their beloved. They help overcome all obstacles, simultaneously solving all household chores, preparing food and keeping the house clean and comfortable. And in response to the legitimate question of when all this running will end, girls usually hear from their loved ones that they need to wait a little longer. Men constantly promise to pay more attention to them in a month, six months, a year... But this happy time is unlikely to ever come. And if it does, then maybe the man will enter new life already with another woman, because he has become more successful and interesting.

In most cases, women cannot stand a situation where their chosen one is always busy with something and does not pay special attention to them. Over time, serious problems brew in the relationship. Often women find themselves another man who devotes less attention your work. For men, this is always a complete surprise, since they are so engrossed in work that they do not even notice what is happening around them. They sometimes give flowers, make a couple of standard compliments, but no more, and at the same time consider themselves ideal from the point of view married life. And women don’t want to live with zombies who are only obsessed with work, and realizing that the relationship has reached a dead end, they pack up and leave.

If you look into the current situation in detail, you will find out the following. Over a long period of time, the woman saw her beloved for an hour or two in the evening and fifteen minutes in the morning, and constantly went to bed alone. She made many attempts to communicate with her loved one, but every time something got in the way and there was no time for it. In the man's eyes there was work, work and only work. And now the patience is over, and the woman is tired of hoping for a miracle.

Men who are passionate about work, stop! You are walking on the edge of an abyss and sooner or later you will have to make a choice. Who would you prefer: family or career? And is it possible to find a middle ground?

How to explain yourself

What to do in such a situation? First of all, you need to identify the problem and pose the question head-on. If you love your chosen one and you value your relationship with him, you should tell the man about your problem in as detailed and accessible a manner as possible. Express your thoughts clearly and clearly; men usually do not understand women’s hints at all. Don't sulk, hold back, or slam the door loudly. A man does not know how to read your thoughts, he cannot guess your desires, so he needs specific and detailed explanations of what does not suit you.

Choose a moment when your chosen one is predisposed to conversation, create a relaxed atmosphere. Try to make it clear that you do not put his career, money and bright prospects at the forefront of everything. Tell me that you are striving for normality family life and want to spend as much time together as possible. Don't avoid compliments. Don’t be afraid to overpraise your man, this will show how important your relationship is to you. But let him see himself, always running somewhere, always preoccupied with something, always living for tomorrow and not paying special attention to you, and believing that everything is as it should be. Golden mean can be found. It is quite possible to devote less time to your work and affairs, and try more to simply live, spend as much free time as possible with your beloved. As they say, you can’t change everything, you can’t earn all the money. And after all, an effective worker is not one who is passionate about work and is constantly busy with work, but one who does everything efficiently, even if he doesn’t stay at work and doesn’t do it on his own. free time. You worked effectively - you had a good rest with someone who is really dear to you. Maybe this is the happiest life.

Antonina Lebedeva, psychologist, psychotherapist

The Slavs, due to geographical and climatic reasons, dedicated quite a lot of works to the cold season - winter. The agricultural way of life allowed creativity only on long winter evenings, and since there were quite a lot of these cold evenings, it is not surprising that a large number of materials are devoted to snow, blizzards, blizzards and other delights of winter. Folk artists paid a lot of attention to various aspects of winter - both good and bad.

We tried to collect some materials about winter on the pages of our website. Here are collected various literary forms dedicated to snow, blizzards and blizzards - riddles with answers, poems, signs, proverbs and sayings.

Riddles about snow

A white swarm curled and curled,
He fell to the ground and became a mountain.
(Snow)

At first he was a black cloud,
He lay down in white fluff on the forest.
Covered the whole earth with a blanket,
And in the spring it completely disappeared.
(Snow)

Feathers are falling from the sky,
They spin and twirl the round dance.
All the paths have turned white,
Holiday is coming - New Year.
White fluff circles as usual,
Every person knows
What usually happens on New Year's Eve
Falls to the ground...
(Snow)

He is fluffy, silver,
But don't touch him with your hand:
It will become a little bit clean,
How can you catch it in the palm of your hand?
(Snow)

He's busy all the time
He can't go in vain.
He goes and paints it white,
Everything he sees along the way.
(Snow)

Rain and slush
Dirt and wind
Autumn, you are responsible for everything!
The poor man is freezing
The first white one fell out...
(Snow)

Like the feathers of the Firebird,
Everything sparkles and sparkles,
I littered the whole meadow,
Winter white...
(Snowball)

White as chalk, but not sugar,
There are no legs, but he walks.
(Snow)

Fluffy carpet -
Not fabric with your hands,
Not sewn with silks,
In the sun and moon
Shines like silver.
(Snow)

A white swarm curled and curled,
He fell to the ground and became a mountain.
(Snow)

It flies in a white flock and sparkles in flight.
But it melts like a cool star in the palm of your hand and in your mouth.
In the sun it is ruddy, but under the moon it is blue.
He gets into our collars and pockets.
He is either white, or shaggy, or fluffy, like a bear.
Scatter him with a shovel, what's his name, answer!
(Snow)

From the bag of heaven
Suddenly flour began to fall!
Everything around falls asleep -
Forest, fields, houses and meadow...
And as soon as you take it,
Yes, you will gain that torment...
You look, and she’s gone!
Only a wet trail remained.
What kind of strange flour is this?!
We won't see any pie!
(Snow)

I'm like a grain of sand,
I cover the earth;
I'm from the water
But I fly from the air;
I lie like fluff in the fields
And I shine like a diamond
In the sun's rays.
(Snow)

The tablecloth is white -
Yes, I dressed the whole field.
(Snow)

Warms in winter
Smoldering in the spring.
Dies in the spring
Comes to life in autumn.
(Snow)

There was a white blanket on the ground,
Summer has come - it's all gone.
(Snow)

The well-fed swan swam,
threw and threw down
to the fields and lakes,
white fluff and feathers.
(Snow)

There's a mountain in the yard,
And at home with water.
(Snow)

The blanket is white,
The earth was warm.
The wind blew
The blanket was bent.
The sun is hot
It started flowing.
(Snow)

I'll look out the window,
The cloth lies there.
Even though it lies there all winter,
But in the spring he will run away.
(Snow)

The sleigh is moving along the road,
A stitch curls like a thread.
A trace remains from the runners,
Covered up the trail...
(Snowball)

He doesn't even have colors.
but everything is painted white.
(Snow)

fall from the sky in winter
And they circle above the ground
Light fluffs,
White...
(Snowflakes)

In winter - a star,
In spring - water.
(Snowflake)

What kind of carved stars
On a coat and on a scarf?
All through, cut-out,
As soon as you take it, water is in your hand.
(Snowflakes)

A white flock of midges
It winds and spins in the morning.
Doesn't squeak or bite -
White covers the ground.
(Snowflakes)

Stars are falling from the sky,
Straight to the fields.
And he will hide under them
Black earth.
Many, many stars
Thin as glass;
White, cold,
And the earth is warm.
(Snowflakes)

Riddles about blizzards and blizzards

This is who, howling, flies without wings,
Without a broom, he covers his tracks,
Makes snowdrifts from snow dough,
Does it move them from place to place?
(Blizzard)

Lukerya scattered
Silver feathers,
Spun it, swept it away,
The street is white.
(Blizzard)

I'm walking in the field
I fly free
I'm spinning, I'm muttering,
I don't want to know anyone.
I run along the road,
And I sweep up the snowdrifts.
(Blizzard)

The girl Belyan passed by -
the whole clearing turned white.
(Blizzard)

Proverbs, sayings, signs about snow and blizzards

Where there is winter without snow, there is summer without bread.
And the snow on the umbrella will be light if you think that it is your snow.

Where there is snow, there is a trace: there was no snow, there was no trace.
If the snow is deep, it will be a good year.
And in winter I would eat a fungus, but the snow is very deep.
This is not the first time it has snowed on our heads.
If you manage to get down to business, the snow will catch fire, but if you fail, then the oil won’t catch fire.
More snow in the fields means more bread in the bins.
It’s not the snow that’s blowing, but the snow that’s coming from above.
If you keep the snow on the fields in winter, you will have bread in the fall.
A lot of snow - a lot of bread, a lot of water - a lot of grass.
If the snow blows up, the bread will come, the water will spill, and there will be hay.
Let the snow be cold and protect you from the cold.
No matter how you wash, you won’t be whiter than snow.
White snow on black ground, and that suits you well.
Blizzards and blizzards arrived in February.
The enemies' overcoats are not suited to our snowstorm.
Father January - frosts, February - snowstorms.

Poems about snow, blizzards and blizzards

Winter morning

A. S. Pushkin

Frost and sun; wonderful day!
You are still dozing, dear friend, -
It's time, beauty, wake up:
Open your closed eyes
Towards northern Aurora,
Be the star of the north!
In the evening, do you remember, the blizzard was angry,
There was darkness in the cloudy sky;
The moon is like a pale spot
Through the dark clouds it turned yellow,
And you sat sad -
And now... look out the window:
Under blue skies
Magnificent carpets,
Glistening in the sun, the snow lies;
The transparent forest alone turns black,
And the spruce turns green through the frost,
And the river glitters under the ice.
The whole room has an amber shine
Illuminated. Cheerful crackling
The flooded stove crackles.
It's nice to think by the bed.
But you know: shouldn’t I tell you to get into the sleigh?
Ban the brown filly?
Sliding through the morning snow,
Dear friend, let's indulge in running
impatient horse
And we'll visit the empty fields,
The forests, recently so dense,
And the shore, dear to me.

Snow in the face, blizzard and blizzard
Snow in the face, blizzard and blizzard
The wind touches me
Where are you, my friend?
Warming your hands by the fire?

You're warm and I'm cold
My thoughts are all in the snow
Tell me, do you need me?
If you say no, I will understand everything.

Snow in the face, how unpleasant
When you know in advance
That all life is fruitless
That the soul just won't die.

And the blizzard will catch her
Will be carried above the ground
And spinning in a white robe
The gentlemen will ask.

For me and for suffering,
What I endured was not in vain.
I saw pain and compassion
And looked into the eyes lovingly.

And now over the white field
I'm flying faster, faster...
And I don't feel pain
I lived my life with her.

Snow in my face, I frown.
I'm drowning in the snow.
I'll drown in the snowy sea
I can't swim out. I can't.

The blizzard has achieved its goal.
Lured, led...
My life has stopped
In some ways it’s my fault.

I surrendered without a drop of blood,
Didn't take the sword out of its sheath
I didn't feel any pain
I haven't experienced it.

The blizzard has achieved its goal -
There is a ring on my hand.
Don't be sad, my friend,
Don't be sad that there's snow in your face.

The snow crunches underfoot
Ice, winter, blizzard and blizzard
The month is sliding across the sky.
Everything is motionless, lonely.

My spirit is completely cold here,
But when I saw the light in the window,
Dear and very necessary to me
I forget about winter.

There are relatives there. And my nephew
He waves his hand at the window...
Everything around became beautiful,
After all, spring is blooming here.

Wonderful picture
How dear you are to me:
White plain,
Full moon
The light of the high heavens,
And shining snow
And distant sleighs
Lonely running.

Porosha

S. Yesenin

I'm going. Quiet. Ringing sounds are heard.
Under the hoof in the snow,
Only gray crows
They made noise in the meadow.

Bewitched by the invisible
The forest slumbers under the fairy tale of sleep,
Like a white scarf
The pine tree has tied up.

Bent over like an old lady
Leaned on a stick
And above the very top of your head
A woodpecker is hitting a branch.

The horse is galloping, there is a lot of space,
The snow is falling and the shawl is laying down.
Endless road
Runs away like a ribbon into the distance.

He's busy all the time
He can't go in vain.
He goes and paints it white,
Everything he sees along the way.

2012 - January 22
2013 - January 20
2014 - January 19
2015 - January 18
2016 - January 17

Snow town on the main square of Blagoveshchensk

Snow is like a person...
A passerby smiles
All around nature is sleeping...
Snow looks a little like us:
They press on it - it creaks...
If you touch it, it seems cold
And sometimes prickly,
But with its dense cover
He always warms the seedlings.
It's inevitable that you'll get angry
All paths will be swept away,
And it will get better - so tenderly
It will fall on your palm...
Oksana Varnikova

History of the holiday

The initiator and founder of the holiday is the International Ski Federation (FIS)

According to the organizers, World Snow Day should serve to popularize winter sports and an active, healthy lifestyle.
Goes by the motto - “Enjoy, get acquainted and experience!”

Marvelous pattern, icy touch!
Snow, it's just snow!
Time slowed down in this flicker
An hour, but it feels like a century.
Light, unearthly flight, with pirouettes
The look will enchant anyone,
Centuries have passed since it was sung by poets,
But still, it captivates.
The ground is covered with snow until spring,
Hiding your secrets.
Still, winter gives a lot of good things,
And let her days be cold.
Paramonenko Yulia

World Snow Day in Russia

This holiday was born in 2012 at the initiative of the International Ski Federation (FIS). It is held under the motto “Enjoy, get acquainted and experience!” That is, on January 17, 2016, the holiday will be celebrated for the fifth time. Here are the statistics released by the FIS for the previous year.

On January 19, 2014, the holiday was held for the third time. 549 thousand people took part in it around the world. In total, on this day, according to FIS, 610 events took place in 35 countries. And in the entire history of Snow Day, 1240 large and small events took place.

On this day, children and their parents received free or inexpensive ski lessons, were provided with ski passes and equipment, which was also provided by the organizers. On this day they had the opportunity to enjoy concerts, masters' races, and received prizes and gifts. Events took place in cities, on mountain slopes, wherever there is snow.

The holiday is new, unusual,
But it was conceived perfectly!
The snow is ordinary and simple,
Helps you and me
Keeps spirits up
And health increases!
You can compete
And go skiing!

It must be said that Snow Day is catching on in Russia. The holiday was celebrated at the Sochi resort "Rosa Khutor" and in Krasnoyarsk, in the Samara region and Altai... The Russian Ski Sports Association and the Russian Ministry of Sports are setting more ambitious plans. And it's not about big numbers, it's about healthy image life, physical culture and sport in our country has become natural and a priority for life for the younger generations. By by and large, we're talking about about the health of the nation. Our country has great goals and only a healthy nation can achieve them. That is why Snow Day should be included in the Russian calendar along with the Russian Ski Track and other all-Russian and regional sporting events.

Signs about snow and blizzards

Where there is winter without snow, there is summer without bread.

More snow in the fields means more bread in the bins.
A lot of snow - a lot of bread, a lot of water - a lot of grass.
If the snow is deep, it will be a good year.
It’s not the snow that’s blowing, but the snow that’s coming from above.
Let the snow be cold and protect you from the cold.
Father January - frosts, February - snowstorms.

Snow spinning, flying, flying.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MetfB0OMcvA

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