The guy said not to forget his ex. How to make a guy forget his ex

Hello dear readers!

Life sometimes throws up unpredictable “surprises”, and meeting new people is no exception. About 90% of the fair sex admitted that after meeting a guy and falling in love a little, they begin to imagine a future together. This is how female psychology works.

But the “stumbling block” in the candy-bouquet period may be a man’s not yet extinguished love for his former passion. Let's look at how to help a guy forget his ex and have feelings for you.

Often in practice there are situations when a guy, after breaking up with a lady whom he had been dating for several months or even years, cannot forget his love for a long time, even if he met a new “lady of his heart” along the way.

How should this very girl behave, whose husband cannot forget his ex? It would seem that he shows interest, gives gifts, and shows signs of attention, but the feeling of the presence of a third person in your relationship - your former passion - does not leave.

There are two options: pretend that everything is fine and suffer from jealousy, or think about how to help a guy quickly forget his ex-lover and receive gratitude in the form of a sparkle in his eyes and boundless love for you. Here everyone decides for herself what to do.

But there is one nuance: you need to make sure that your feelings for him are serious and prepare for a long, painstaking work so that it doesn’t turn out that after his ex, he will also have to forget you.

It will help you understand yourself, understand whether you value these relationships, and also change and become better, more tolerant and kinder.

Is it worth trying?

The first question you should ask is: Do I need it? What motivates you – selfishness (the desire to win a heart, to “play” with it) or sincere feelings? After all, if your beloved cannot forget his ex-lover and is very worried about their separation, this indicates a strong attachment.

Are you ready to live in fear that if (or when?) your ex-lover returns to your now boyfriend, he might return to her? This can have a bad effect not only on relationships, but also on your trust in the male half of humanity.

Despite the fact that men seem strong, their behavior in some moments is even more vulnerable than that of women. Therefore, with forgetting your ex-girlfriend, hitches and difficulties may arise. It’s good when an ex-girlfriend has found her love and lives on the other side of the city, that the likelihood of a meeting is impossible.

It is much worse if the ex-girlfriend is ready to declare herself: random meetings on the street, calls, messages on social networks. If you really want to be together with a person who still cares about the other, gather your strength and start taking action.

So, how can you help a guy forget his ex - advice from professionals.

1. Become friends

No matter how trivial it may sound, you need to become good friends. This makes it easier to build relationships, and your ex-passion will be forgotten much faster. You must understand that the heart young man while he is busy, there is no need to impose your feelings and your company, especially if he wants to be alone. If you want to get as close to him as possible, you can do it as a friend: with understanding and compassion.

See also » “If you already have a loved one, and you want your relationship to always be strong and lasting, you should become such a companion that your loved one can be proud of you and tell his friends and colleagues what a lucky man he is.

2. Don’t “pressure” him

The process of rehabilitation after a relationship for men sometimes takes longer and is more difficult than for girls. You shouldn't force your love. Surely, the guy is confused and does not believe in the sincerity of his feelings. Your passionate confessions will sound like ridicule or an unnecessary responsibility. Who will benefit from this?

3. Heart-to-heart conversation

Get ready for the fact that at first he can only share with you memories of his former passion. No matter how unpleasant it may be, listen and help calm down. Gradually begin to move topics in a different direction. Find out about your lover's hobbies, make him remember the moments when he was happy without her.

Talk about motorcycles, cars or music. If possible, visit places where he will definitely like it: car shows, concerts musical groups, sporting events(matches). Over time, the guy will understand that he is happy, and it is you who make him so, so it is with you that he will associate his new emotions.

4. Don't be sorry

Men can't stand pity. Even if a man is sad, you should not feel sorry for him: boil it down to the fact that now he has gained rich life experience, and that he will no longer step on the same rake.

On the contrary, try to emphasize all the advantages of the breakup (this means that she was not the one, the only one, which means there will be someone even better). The conversation should boil down to the fact that this girl must feel bad, because she lost better man in the world.

5. No talking about HER

Under no circumstances try to look more advantageous compared to your ex-girlfriend. Don't point out her shortcomings and don't show off your strengths. His heart still belongs to HER, so your attempts to become a better person may fail, and you will cause nothing but anger and pity.

Talk about neutral topics or about the youngest person. Show him that an ex-girlfriend doesn't matter when he himself is a wonderful person and a wonderful person.

If a girl wants to come back...

If your ex-girlfriend has already found her beloved and only one, and the guy has forgotten her and is happy with you, you can congratulate you: you have completed your mission and received a reward.

But in practice, there are situations when, it would seem, a former lover has been successfully forgotten, but one fine moment she comes or calls, and with the words “I was wrong,” offers to renew the relationship. Naturally, the guy may give in, and this is a normal reaction. But what about a new girl?

• First, no hysterics, scandals, and especially no reproaches. Don’t remember how you already “pulled” your lover out of depression and how you turned him into a normal person.

• Try to explain to your boyfriend that this girl has already acted badly once and can repeat her act. The truth will be on your side, and there's a good chance he'll listen.

If you understand how you can quickly and easily help a guy forget his former “lady,” then now you have every chance of being loved and happy.

Hello it's again Lesha Dar.

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So, You can't rely on such a man, anyway, sooner or later he will let you down, since he is a weakling!

So that you understand me, I will give several situations from life!

Situation No. 1

The guy was abandoned by the girl whom he loves terribly, and then the guy has no choice but to move away from her and find another one, but only to his ex-girlfriend started to get jealous of him and returned to him.

And so the guy finds a girl and starts a relationship with her! And tries in every possible way show your ex-girlfriend via contact, SMS, email, whatever he has new life, Very beautiful girl etc.

On a walk with my girlfriend he constantly talks about his ex, because he cannot forget her. And then one fine day, his ex-girlfriend breaks up with the guy and starts calling and writing to him. And that’s it, this guy will run to her like a little darling. Since he is weak, he has no willpower, and he didn’t really love his current girlfriend!

As a result, the girl remains unhappy and lonely!

So, back to the question ""

Situation No. 2

The guy was abandoned by the girl he loved very much! And after a while the guy meets another girl. After another couple of months, the girl realizes that she is pregnant. And now this unfortunate couple begins to get married!

But the boy feels absolutely nothing for his wife! Time passes and on the horizon ex-girlfriend shows up, and constantly begins to contact him.

In the end, such a weak guy starts cheating on his wife! And it all ends in divorce!

So, I answer the question “ If a man can't forget his ex?»

If you notice that your boyfriend is very often remembers his ex-girlfriend, then it’s better to break up with him right away and not start a relationship.

Since this guy is weak and at the first good opportunity will run away from you, as soon as his ex-girlfriend beckons him with her hand!

Conclusion: The more you develop in yourself feminine qualities, the faster you will find yourself strong man, and weaklings will avoid you!

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First of all, try to understand: do you need this? Your boyfriend remembers his ex-girlfriend and is worried about their separation. This means that the girl was very dear to him, and it will not be easy for you to tear her out of his heart and memory. Think about whether you are able to bear his complaints about how bad he is without her, his comparisons of you with that girl. You will need a lot of patience, willpower, wisdom and a willingness to sacrifice.

However, there is no guarantee that your efforts will achieve your goal.

If you are not afraid of such difficulties, try to fight for your happiness. But immediately prepare yourself for the fact that the process will be long and difficult.

To be a good girlfriend for your boyfriend, don't repeat the mistakes of his previous girlfriend. To do this, try to collect as much information as possible about your young man’s former passion. What was her character, habits, hobbies, how she preferred to spend her leisure time, what music to listen to, etc. Knowing this, it will be easier for you to look more advantageous in the eyes of a guy. Suppose he loves bard songs, and his ex-girlfriend was delighted with hard rock and almost forcibly dragged him with her to concerts of her favorite bands. Urgently become a fan of the creativity of “bonfire and guitar” lovers and invite the young man to go to a concert of bard performers. Or, for example, she wore too revealing outfits, and your boyfriend didn’t like it? Even if you love miniskirts and sheer blouses with low necklines, temporarily eliminate them from your wardrobe. Was your ex-passion stubborn, self-confident and preferred to have the last word in any situation? And you be soft, compliant, of course, within reasonable limits. And so on.

Be caring and friendly. Behave in such a way that the guy feels pleasant and comfortable in your company.

Then he will probably come to the conclusion that you are better than your ex!

A guy can't forget a girl? Put the question squarely!

Even if after for a long time he will still be tormented by remembering his former lover (and, accordingly, torment you with memories of her), talk frankly with him. Make it clear that you are tired of sharing him with another girl, even virtually, that you want to be the only one for him. If you are dear to a guy, he will find the strength and courage to make a choice in your favor. If not, the sooner you break up, the better it will be for you.

Your chosen one is smart, handsome, courageous, successful in life, honest and the best for you. However, even the happiest joint union can be overshadowed by his former passion. She can “declare” herself in different ways - starting from chance encounters on the street, until the periodic appearance of memories of her. Regardless of all this, you yourself can help your boyfriend forget her. Let's find out how to make a guy forget his ex.

For this you will need the Internet.

1. Remember about his ex and collect all the information you need. If she still means a lot to him, you won’t be able to ignore her. Find out how she lives, what her personal life is like at the moment, what kind of relationship she had with your boyfriend. There is no need to spy on a girl for these purposes. Just look at her page on a social network and talk to friends. But of course, the most important information for you will be the one your boyfriend gives. This is the only way you will find out how he feels about his ex today. Use the information only once, remember that you need to draw conclusions based on it and you should never be interested in her life again.
2. If you know that your boyfriend and his ex had a stormy, dynamic relationship and a painful breakup, be patient in this case. Do not rush things in any case if you really really want to be close to this person. If he is still worried, this only testifies to the sincerity of his feelings. Gradually, you will begin to feel that your boyfriend remembers less and less about his former passion. Raise the alarm only when you feel that his memories have become an obsession and you are only providing temporary solace.
3. Eliminate everything from your life that will remind him of his ex-girlfriend. This could be a certain song, music, gifts, some places where they loved to be together. Remove these associations gradually and systematically.
4. Do not put categorical bans on any contact with his ex-girlfriend. By such actions you will show that you want to limit the freedom of your young man. Welcome his admission that he saw her. But still show him that such meetings are unpleasant for you. If they intersect willy-nilly at work or in the company of mutual friends, it will be much better if you are present at this, rather than if this happens in secret.
5. Never even try to compare yourself to his ex. Be yourself! Show your boyfriend your self-sufficiency and fill your life with interesting, bright events, constantly make new mutual friends.

Follow the above tips calmly and systematically, and very soon your boyfriend will not experience absolutely any emotions when remembering his ex-girlfriend. The main thing is to do everything calmly, don’t rush and don’t make the guy hysterical! This way you will make the guy forget his ex.