Relationship / 28.06.2019

The law of fortune is that all meetings are not accidental. Meeting people is not accidental

LAW OF FORTUNE
"All meetings are not accidental."
Regardless of social status, age, nationality,
character, etc. all people dream of happiness. Why then, with such
global meditation on happiness, is it not in our lives? The point is that
there is a global failure in knowledge, in the laws of fate, in science
relationships.

All people are divided into two categories - “by chance” and “not by chance”.

The first believe that everything in life is accidental: happiness, misfortune, meetings,
love, money, success or failure. By chance the moon shines at night,
by chance the sun rises in the morning, by chance someone had a child with
Down syndrome, by chance there was an explosion of the Universe and by chance all the planets are like that
hung in the air, spinning and not falling. The result is so random
life - disappointment and despair, because they do not know the laws
Universe and how they work. Such people are always accompanied by fear, and
the accompanying feeling is anger. Actually in the word itself
“by chance” - the meaning of “From the Ray of God” is implied, so it’s just coincidences
doesn't happen. The second category of people is “not by chance” divided into two:

Sentimentalists and fanatics. They simply say that “everything is the will of God,” but do not go further, do not ask the question: “Why is the Will of God such?” As a result, fear is also at the core of their consciousness.
Seekers of knowledge. They are looking for teachers who would explain to them the laws of life. There are three sources of confirmation of the operation of the Laws: “this is what my spiritual teacher says,” “this is what the sages say,” and this is confirmed by the “Holy Scriptures.”
Law of Fortune No. 1 – “This world has everything you need.”

And it is in the Holy Scriptures that the Laws of Fortune are written. Just people
they don’t want to accept them as the basis of life, they look for their own ways of happiness, and in the end
encounter suffering.

For example, the scriptures say that this world is endowed with everything
necessary. Why are people unhappy and it seems to them that they have little, but
more neighbor? The answer is simple: people claim something that is not theirs. This is also
confirmed by the Holy Scriptures (Sri Isopanishad): “Everyone should
use only what he needs and is allocated to him, as his
share. And not to encroach on anything else, well understanding who has everything
belongs."

When understanding of these laws comes, Fortune comes itself. By the way,
she has an oceanic character: she comes and goes depending on
from our goals and actions. And it is impossible to hold her by force.

Law of Fortune No. 2 – “Nothing in this world belongs to us.”

The life of each of us is a school where everyone goes through their lessons. Us
untied from what we are strongly attached to. For example, if there is no money
- this suggests that we are greedy for them. If you are attached to fame, it is in
will eventually leave. If they are attached to children, they begin to show their
character, disobey. Problems in the family means they put the family above
God. The husband wants to leave, but the wife holds on with all her strength, spends
energy, nerves and what else could you come up with to save your family? On
it's really simple. How to check whether your pigeon is or not? Let him go.
If it arrives, it’s yours. If not, then it was never yours.

We need to understand that nothing in this world belongs to us. And if you
Lord, give me something or someone with whom I go through life - I
thank you for this. If you take it, it's yours, I don't have anything
belongs, thanks for the time. Of all the situations that we
sent we need to draw the right conclusions and then we move on in our
development. If the conclusions are incorrect, then we are returned to the same “class”
until the lesson is learned.

Law of Fortune No. 3 – “For everything I thank you...”.

The main strategy of a loser: “I am worthy of pleasure,” and as a result
there are many complaints against everyone. But this world has no purpose for you
enjoy. And if we cling to them, then suffering follows.
Sometimes people raise their hands to the sky in indignation: “Lord, if you exist,
then why do you allow me to suffer so much?! This is unfair! You
Why did you fall asleep there?

But God does not sleep, but takes the most active part in your life, he
This way it wakes you up. If the same scenario always repeats -
just wake up. And when the understanding comes that all misfortunes are not
an accident, but a pattern, and you need to take the situation as a lesson,
who teaches something, then the worldview will change. And understanding will come,
that everything that happens in our lives is the greatest formula
Good luck. And the Lord takes the most active part in our lives.

Even right now, at this minute, ask yourself the question: “Why am I doing this?
am I listening or reading? For some reason, the Lord decided to personally talk to
me. And what should I hear for myself? The most unlucky people -
waiting for happiness. If you are disappointed in life, then you are simply
lived in anticipation of happiness. For example, everyone dreams of family happiness. But
Few people know that family happiness comes from a past life, like luggage.
Imagine people at the airport. Some checked their luggage, some didn't. Tom,
Those who checked in their luggage will be given it out on arrival on a conveyor. Who didn't pass -
nothing will be given to him. It's simple. But people, not knowing the laws
universe, figuratively speaking, make a claim to the transporter, which
not guilty of anything. If the baggage of happiness has not arrived in your life, then it
it just wasn't there. This must be understood and accepted as an axiom.

Therefore, instead of being indignant, indignant and complaining about
life, find a reason to rejoice and thank you for what you have. IN
any stream, no matter whether it is wide or narrow, deep or
small, there is a goldmine of joy.

The main thing that prevents us from changing our lives is the lack of gratitude.

If the whole day was not joyful, this does not mean that there was no
reasons. This means that you simply do not know how to be grateful for anything.
Go volunteer at a hospice and you will appreciate what you have.
We just take it for granted that our hearts are beating regularly,
the stomach works and digests food. But we don’t appreciate it until the thunder
will strike, for example, in the form of a disease.

Law of Fortune No. 4 – “You need to look at your life from the perspective of – will God like it?”

The consciousness of an unhappy person brings only misfortune. Consciousness
a happy and whole person – brings happiness. If in your life
a lot of worries - this indicates that you simply do not perceive
the world as it is. Just imagine if the world was like this
which one we want. At the same time, everyone has their own idea of happiness, their own
Relative Truth. It would just be War of the Worlds. Thank God there is
Absolute Truth, which puts everything in its place.

Our whole life is turns and turns away from God. When we
we turn away - fear comes, and then anger. When we turn -
happiness and harmony come. Therefore, the last Law of Fortune for today:
“You have to look at your life from the perspective of – will God like this?”

Karma(translated from Sanskrit as action) is a set of actions, both bad and good. Also, this is also the influence of past lives in connection with present life. Since karma has the ability to pass from life to life. A related term in the Western tradition used to describe similar influences is fate.

Now not everyone takes karma so seriously, but many people are interested. To believe or not to believe in all these “astrological things” related to karma, past and future lives is up to each of you. But what if knowledge can be useful?

Surely many of you, when breaking up a relationship, had the feeling that you should not have parted as quickly as you did, that you had not given a lot to each other, and if the connection was broken for good, something irreparable would happen. Many of you have had this. A painful feeling of guilt after breaking up with a person, no matter who he or she is. The pain of parting with each of them. Each person experiences this differently. The purpose of writing this article is to help people better understand each other and themselves and better understand their relationships.

Every astrologer, especially astrologers familiar with the Eastern or Indian directions of astrology, knows that many meetings with people in everyday life are far from random and carry a karmic character. Some data suggests that such karmic encounters there can be a lot in a lifetime. Coming into this world, we find ourselves surrounded by people who help us realize our karmic tasks. These are our children, friends, relatives, bosses, work colleagues and just passers-by.

Some astrologers believe that any meeting in life is karmic. Each one was given to you for a reason. Each leaves its mark on your destiny. One adds only a small imperceptible touch, you don’t remember about it and don’t notice the trace left by it, but it is there... Another meeting becomes your whole destiny, an integral part of your personality and life itself. Throw it away and there will be nothing left. Fate will be different, and you will be a completely different person.

An article by astrologer El Tat says that according to the Law of the Higher karmic connections, all meetings in life are conditionally divided into nine categories according to the degree of influence on a person’s fate and the degree of proximity of karmic connections:

1. children (They are the closest and most important people in life for our karma, for their sake we can sacrifice everything, and this will be justified. However, there is always a question: did children need such a sacrifice?);
2. favorites;
3. spouses;
4. parents, brothers and sisters;
5. relatives;
6. friends;
7. colleagues;
8. acquaintances;
9. random passers-by.

A sign of a karmic relationship is that he or she, or maybe both, or maybe just friends, carry unresolved emotions within themselves, such as jealousy, anger, guilt, fear, addiction or something similar. Having once failed to find a way out for their emotions, they are attracted to each other in the next incarnation.

A close karmic connection also means that we met more than once in our past incarnations, were in close relationships and, perhaps, were somehow guilty before the person or he before us. Perhaps we have caused great misfortunes for him in the past and now we are paying for our cruel mistakes by being forced to serve this man, fulfill his whims, listen to complaints. There can be many reasons, and not all of them are necessarily bad. If we are placed by fate in such circumstances, then there is a reason for this. As a rule, karmic relationships manifest themselves in life as an inadequate emotional reaction, i.e. exaggerated.

Karmic connections are always clearly visible in comparative horoscopes (synastry). The most important criterion is that past life really cleared, karma closed or karmic life worked out are changes in real life. As a rule, conflicts disappear. Relationships become calmer and often more friendly.

So let’s look at the weakest karmic connections:

Random passers-by, When communicating, the most important thing is to be able to listen to yourself. Do not allow someone else's will, someone else's energy to suppress your own impulses, develop your intuition, and if it is silent, then it is better to live according to general rule: Having only contacts with random passers-by that correspond to a given karmic category will be of more use. When we perceive the category of a random passer-by in a fleeting meeting as a higher karmic connection, this is a case of confusing God’s gift with scrambled eggs. Unfortunately, this is most often typical of young or psychologically immature individuals. When random person elevated to the rank of closest friend, loved one, the Law of Karmic Connections is violated. And this always ends with a huge loss of strength, a large deposit of negativity in the body’s energy, and often leaves a serious imprint on a person’s entire fate. And this happened to you, there is no need to despair. Take this as a serious life lesson, as an experience that clarified a lot in your life. Treat people who have treated you unfairly as your teachers. For some reason you needed this experience. Straighten your soul, forgive your offenders and forgive yourself, let go of unpleasant thoughts, say thank you to fate for the lesson.

There is an opinion that on the train, over a glass of tea, you can tell your fellow traveler everything that torments you in life and that you cannot tell your own mother. You will feel better, you will be cleansed, and your life will turn around.
By exchanging energy with a person and telling all our ins and outs, we let the energy of a stranger into the recesses of our soul. We can’t imagine what he can do there, so you can trust only competent specialists, psychotherapists, psychologists and astrologers, etc.

Familiar . These are people with whom we often or not very often meet in life, sometimes we interact very pleasantly, sometimes not very pleasantly. We cannot put them in the category of friends because we do not feel very close to them. Overall, we don't know them well enough to know who they are to us, other than just acquaintances. These are friends, neighbors, a regular hairdresser, a bathhouse attendant, our children’s school teachers and the parents of our children’s school friends.

Acquaintances are an indicator of the versatility or, on the contrary, the narrow focus of our personality; an indicator of what karmic tasks we are called to solve in this life.

If among a person’s acquaintances people of a narrow circle predominate, for example, scientists in a certain field of knowledge or teachers, doctors, military men, etc., it means that his karmic task is specific and is connected with one of the areas of human activity. For example, you are a doctor, and almost all of your friends are people related to medicine in one way or another. Therefore, healing people is your karmic task, and most likely, you are doing a good job of it - you are working off your karma well.

But strange things happen. The person is involved with technology by profession, and all his friends are musicians. Or the person is a musician, and everyone he knows is a chef. This happens when a passion or hobby takes people much more than their profession.

It happens that life is clearly divided into two parts: my work and my favorite pastime, and the first is unpleasant, and the second is very interesting and pleasant. This indicates an incorrect choice life path, which means about the great unrealized creative potential of a person. It would be good to change your life in terms of your main professional activity. And bring her as close as possible to her favorite activity. Without a doubt, your life will take off in all aspects of your life: your health will improve, your mood will improve, your relationships with loved ones will become more favorable. You will feel full of strength and creative ideas. But this is the case when a person’s life tasks have a specific, narrow karmic focus: art, science, teaching, healing, agriculture, technology, etc.
There are people with other, broader and more abstract karmic tasks. The circle of acquaintances of these people is not only very wide, but also very diverse. They are fascinated by the very process of communication, the organization of human affairs and relationships. They are interested in organizing various things and solving other people's problems. They feel comfortable in any society, be it the scientific community or those in power, or even the homeless, etc., they receive all conceivable benefits of life thanks to “connections”, for example, they can get the same “dust-free” job, which pays enough to comfortable existence.

Meanwhile, such people have a huge karmic task. They always feel it as a huge potential of their unrealized capabilities. And even having all the imaginable joys in life, they constantly feel a vague feeling of dissatisfaction because something important has not been done... And indeed, the task of such people is to serve society in the broadest sense of this concept.

It’s good when they have some kind of idea and the ability to implement it. Then they begin to head enterprises, shops, become sponsors, head government programs, etc., implementing ideas for improving life and society. At the same time, they have a lot of money, but don’t envy them - they have a talent for entrepreneurship. Besides, more money means more hassle, and if you knew what a hassle it is, you would give it up voluntarily. In addition to entrepreneurship, these people are excellent in the field of public organizations, in various committees on ecology, education, etc., as well as in the role of judges, investigators, in management and administrative work. This is their destiny and their karma - service to society.
But let us remember that this category is quite far from us according to the Law of Karmic Connections.

Colleagues. A colleague is a person with whom only official and business relations are connected. Due to the fact that we often don’t have the concept of a colleague in our heads, a lot of troubles happen. People connected with us on business are karmically closer than just acquaintances. But in no case should they be confused with friends and relatives. Otherwise, business relationships, both friendly and family, may suffer greatly. Not to mention the fact that the case itself may crumble into dust.

Interaction with colleagues can only take place through an equal exchange. Personal relationships associated with sympathy, with material support, with “understanding of the difficult situation” are extremely undesirable. If an employee asks for additional concessions for himself, asks someone to work instead of him because he has problems, borrows money from everyone “before payday,” gives it away, then borrows it again, then he just needs to change something radically in his life. This state of affairs is not normal.

Do not confuse the concept of co-worker and relative, friend, etc. for example, a store director was asked to hire someone’s relative. for example, a son who graduated from college, etc. But he doesn’t like work and went there only because his parents told him that if you don’t work, you won’t have money for a new computer, going to a restaurant, etc. As a result, such an employee can become a source of huge troubles, because of which a respectable person such as our store director ends up on the list of unreliable ones, and it’s good if that’s the case, and his career doesn’t end there. And the store director himself is to blame for this, don’t interfere with all your life in one pile. “Friendship is friendship, but money is separate,” says the Russian proverb. It is advisable that all friendships or family relationships be outside of work.

Friends . Friends can already be classified as close and dear people. In the three previous categories, relationships were built on the basis of mutually beneficial exchanges. Karmic relationships between friends imply selfless support, help without regard to what you will receive in return. If, when doing a favor for a friend, you think about what he will have to do in return, then you are mistaken - he is not your friend. Maybe you are friends, maybe you are business partners, maybe you are just good acquaintances who call themselves friends, but for yourself you must understand what category your relationship actually falls into. Otherwise, a misunderstanding will inevitably occur, and you, not understanding each other, will part, each taking his own truth with him.
If a person is my friend, then it’s not just like that, it’s for some reason... It’s not by chance. Maybe I love this person and accept him for who he is. Maybe this person once provided me with an invaluable service, etc. Why does fate bring us together? Why do we want to help this particular person at all costs when he is essentially a nobody to us? Why do we choose one of all our friends at school and go through life hand in hand with him? Why, when we meet one person among thousands of people, do we suddenly feel the kinship of our souls?
If this is your friend, different cosmic laws come into force. You give him your shirt off your back, and not because you know he will do the same, but because due to the kinship of souls it is simply impossible to do otherwise. Otherwise, you violate the cosmic law of Correspondence, which means your negative karma will increase. You have not yet learned this lesson - there will be new conditions in which you Higher powers will again show how the principle of Correspondence works.

There is an ancient truth: it is better to be deceived by friends than not to trust them all your life. If your friends deceived you, well, that means you made a mistake and mistook the wrong people for your friends. Only you are to blame. Learn to distinguish between karmic categories!

Relatives . Each of us carries double karma. One is our own track record of good and not-so-good deeds. The other is the karma of the race into which we came.

The genus we come into interacts with us in different ways. To some he is given as a guardian. The genus protects from misfortunes, helps on the path of life, guides and gives strength in difficult times. So, we somehow deserved such support! Such roots must be preserved, passed on by inheritance, multiplying traditions.

For others, the birth is given as a test. In overcoming generic problems, and sometimes the curses that lie on him, the soul strengthens, hardens, gains strength and thereby cleanses the roots, because the person himself is a part of the family. By overcoming the negativity in himself, he thereby cleanses the race as a whole.

For example, a family may be famous for its cruelty; someone seems to have been a criminal. Great-great-grandfather shot at a demonstration in 1905. My great-grandfather was an NKVD officer who beat people, extracting confessions from them, and so on. As a result, the 15-year-old son does not have any of the muscles that are an attribute of people of this kind. And he is all thin and sickly, but he loves cruel things computer games etc. As a result, this is a dead-end branch of the family on which he will wither. Correcting karma and passing on a pure genetic line is possible only in one case, if the teenager turns his will and mind to God.

An equal energy exchange is rarely possible with relatives. Either we use their energy, or we give them ours. We often process each other’s negatives. Sometimes you have to close yourself. And all this is normal for this category of relationships due to the specificity of generic energy processes.

And yet, be that as it may, even if the most distant relative turns to you with a request - do not refuse, do everything in your power. This is your ancestral structure, your children and grandchildren will bear it, it depends on you how pure, favorable and strong roots they will get.

However, this option is also possible: the aunt, having no children of her own, believes that her nephew is obliged to take care of her. She asks and demands to provide her with services that he is simply unable to perform, because he works and because he has his own family. Auntie is offended, cries, reproaches. What to do? A single woman is simply a “vampire.” You need to close yourself off from her.

Her nephew, of course, will do for her what is in his power, but she needs to rely more on her own strength, since the man has his own immediate, karmically closer problems that no one will solve for him. Moreover, he must not allow vampires to flourish in his family, infecting the younger generation with their abomination. Young people must see that “vampires” must be put in their place, and not follow their lead. Otherwise, immature souls will also want to live the life of a “vampire,” because it is so convenient and sweet to force someone else to solve your problems with your whining.

Parents, brothers and sisters .This is how our world works that one of the children can be a full bearer of the father’s karma, another – the mother’s karma, and the third remains clean from these debts.

The girl was married off at the age of 15. The husband was often not at home, loved noisy companies and died in early age from diseases of the digestive system. The woman, as fate would have it, lived her life alone and secluded, raising three children.

One of them loved to drink and died on an alcoholic binge, inheriting his father’s karma. Another child lived an active life, was the director of a large plant, achieved a lot in life, but, having inherited his mother’s karma, he felt constant loneliness, a lack of mutual understanding in the family and among employees, this weighed heavily on his heart. The only joy in life was meeting with his mother, with whom she maintained a close spiritual connection.

The third child, having left the family and set out on an independent path, became a complete stranger. When the children gathered at their mother’s, it seemed that he was not at all affected by family conversations, or family photographs and heirlooms. He had nothing to do with the karma of the clan, although he maintained good relations with his family.

Much more complex interweaving of karmic family lines between brothers and sisters is also possible. Two daughters can carry the mother's karma, and the father passes on a pure genetic line to his grandson. Brother and sister inherit their father's problems, and the mother passes on her creative talents to her grandson. There are as many options here as there are families in the world.

Favorable relationships between brothers and sisters, selfless and benevolent, are a great gift of fate and invaluable support given by heaven. But if the relationship turns out badly and even very badly, let us not forget that these are our brothers and sisters, given to us from above. And no matter what happens, we must humbly accept what is given to us. Let us provide reasonable support to our loved ones - this is our karma, what we owe them somewhere and now we are giving back.

If an alcoholic brother asks for money to drink away, our duty is not to give him everything we have, but to do everything to save him. However, not against his will. Everything that is done against the will of a person is done for evil.

If there is a quarrel between sisters and brothers, we will forgive the offenders, we deserve these insults, perhaps we are more to blame for our mutual misunderstanding of each other. Let's give in and go for reconciliation - this is working off the karma of the family. By working off karma, we will clear the way for our children and grandchildren.

No matter how our relationship with our parents develops, we will forgive them and ask forgiveness for not understanding them. Whatever it is, these people were given to us by God - therefore, this is exactly what we deserved and we must humbly accept what is given.

A certain age difference between partners can also serve as an indicator of karmic relationships. The age difference of 5 or 10 years between a man and a woman is not a coincidental meeting. It is more than likely that there is a karmic connection between these partners that requires working off mutual debts. Karma keeps them close to each other. They must go through life in one direction, but at the same time one of them must take on the role of a guide, and the other must become a follower. The age difference of 15 years is an indicator of a very strong karmic attraction. It is difficult for such people to break up, even if they want to do so. But these relationships are complex - they either help each other choose the right path in life, or, conversely, lead their partner astray from the true path, thus increasing his karmic debts in the life ahead.
Some unusual situations also serve as indicators of karmic relationships. Such situations are not a mandatory sign of karmic relationships, but they also need to be taken into account.

Surprise. Relationships begin unexpectedly for both partners or one of them, as well as their friends and relatives. The surprise is that these partners can be completely different in character, temperament, differ in social and financial status, and have a large age difference. In another scenario, partners may have known each other for years, but the decision to get married itself turns out to be an unexpected continuation of the relationship. For example, for many years they communicated only as friends, and suddenly one evening the situation turns into a very intimate direction and after that the couple in love decides to get married.

Rapidity. Relationships are formed after very short term dating lovers (day, week, month). This is a situation where partners seem to have an epiphany. Such relationships are often marked by the effect of hypnosis. They begin in such a way that a person is not fully aware of the changes that have occurred and only after a year or more begins to perceive the situation consciously. Before this, he is driven by forces and reactions that he is unable to fully explain. The question of whether these partners will want to look at each other “waking up” often remains open.

Moving. After marriage, spouses can move to another city or even abroad. A long move to somewhere far away after meeting and marriage, the severance of family ties, the beginning of a new life somewhere far from the place of birth is another important sign of a karmic connection.

It's a difficult situation. The most common option is a drunkard partner or a drug addict partner. Maybe there are some health problems with the marriage partner - living with a person in wheelchair, mentally ill or early (before 40 years) death of a partner. Such relationships can certainly be called “punishment.” Apparently, this “punishment” is arranged by the person himself, unconsciously choosing a problematic partner. Most likely, due to a hidden feeling of guilt that came from the past, but the question “for what reason” remains open. Or probably the problematic partner is attached to him himself according to the genetic memory of a past life. Probably, in the previous incarnation the roles of the problematic and good partner were opposite, but in the current incarnation they change places and “justice is restored.”

No children in marriage. This is an indicator of a closed future for the generation through these people. Such karmic relationships between spouses are closed in on themselves and serve to understand their own character traits for both partners. To some extent, this relationship can be called a short circuit. As a rule, they end up, years later or even almost immediately, empty and lead to separation. In this karmic connection, everything depends on how “correct” each partner was in his actions. If the partners showed themselves “correctly” (from the point of view of Fate and Cosmos) in this relationship, for example, they did not swear and blame each other for infertility, but adopted a child from orphanage, then this pair may later have joint child. If only one of the partners tried to behave “correctly”, but perhaps did not receive support, then as a reward life will give him another partner, from whom he will have children.

Fatality. Relationships in a couple are marked by a certain inevitability, predetermination, and often in a negative sense in the style of “Tristan and Isolde.” These include: situations with love triangles; situations of “impossible” love for some objective and subjective reasons; situations of love-hate, when it seems that partners have been fighting each other all their lives, and yet they are unhappy without each other. It’s as if they both madly love each other and hate each other madly. Or fate simply constantly brings partners together, whether they want it or not. A striking example is the characters of Alec Baldwin and Kim Bassinger in the famous film “The Marrying Habit.” In the karmic relationships of such a couple, little changes or can be changed - these relationships seem to flow on their own according to a predetermined plan.

These options are some of the most basic, which describe karmic relationships.

You can recognize a karmic encounter by the fact that the other person instantly seems unusually familiar to you. Quite often there is mutual attraction, something attractive “in the air” that forces you to be together and get to know each other. Given the opportunity, a strong attraction can develop into a loving relationship. This is what happens most often.

How long do karmic relationships last?
It depends on what type of connection your karmic relationship is - healing or destructive. The hallmark of a healing relationship is that the man and woman who meet feel kindred spirits, love and respect each other for who they are, without trying to change each other. They enjoy being with each other greatly, but do not feel anxious, jealous, or lonely when their partner is not around. In such a relationship, you offer understanding, support and approval to your loved one without trying to solve his or her problems brought from past lives. Relationships are filled with freedom and peace. Of course, there are times when there are misunderstandings, but the resulting emotions are short-lived. Both partners are ready to forgive. There is a heartfelt connection between them. Emotionally, both partners are independent. He or she does not fill a gap in his or her life, but on the contrary, adds something new, important, vital. In a healing relationship, partners may have known each other from one or even several previous lifetimes. Two souls may have known each other in a past life, in which they also encouraged and supported each other. This created an unbreakable bond over the next several lives. Such a couple will never separate, will never divorce. They will always be together and happy. Marriage with such a karmic partner can be a wonderful and amazing journey!

But it also happens that the emotions you experience about a new love can be so overwhelming that you think that you have met your soul mate. Carefully! Things may not be as they seem. If you are bound by unresolved emotional problems from the past, they will sooner or later come to the surface. The spiritual lesson to all souls bound in this way is to let go of each other and become free and independent beings. For example, between a jealous husband and a guilty wife, karmic relationships are almost never long-lasting, stable, or loving. Often the main purpose of the meeting is to free each other from this love.

If you suddenly find yourself in a relationship characterized by emotions that cause a lot of suffering and tears, but which you are unable to break, try to understand that nothing obliges you to stay with that person. Understand that strong emotions often have to do with deep suffering rather than mutual love. The energy of love is not so emotional - it is extremely calm and serene, joyful and inspiring! It is not depressing, exhausting and tragic. If your relationship exhibits these traits, it’s time to let go rather than “work it out” again.

Some women, suffering in marriage from drunkenness or the bad character of their husbands, convince themselves that they still need to stay together, because “this is fate” and they need to “go through it together.” They appeal to karma as an argument for prolonging the relationship, but they distort the concept of it. Karma is individual for each person, it is impossible to go through your karma together with someone! Karma in the relationships mentioned above often requires that you be able to let go of your partner, leaving the tormenting relationship in order to understand that you are whole in yourself.

Sometimes you are so connected to your partner's complexes, the emotionally hurt part within him or her, that you feel like you are the only one who can resolve the situation and save him or her from problems. But nothing good will come of it. You will only reinforce the emotions of powerlessness and victimhood in the other person, when it would be more helpful to draw the line and stand up for yourself. Your purpose is to be a free person. This type of painful relationship can set you back spiritually and may cause you to create heavy karma for subsequent incarnations. Is this what you want?

You may only have a few months to resolve the past situation between you and your problematic partner. You can do whatever service you feel obligated to do in his or her life's journey, but you are not obligated to involve yourself in relationships that are detrimental to your spiritual growth. Love relationships are not meant to drag us down. When we love, we want from the bottom of our hearts to support each other in both happiness and sorrow, but we should not bear the entire burden of each other’s problems. All the best to you!

A “chain of accidents” can lead to a serious change in life. To a change of job, a wedding, the birth of a child, the death of a person. All this is accidental only at first glance.

How to understand whether an event is predetermined or just an accident? You need to try to follow a new path and see how everything turns out. If more and more obstacles appear along the way, most likely this is not your path.

Are there random encounters in life?

Everyone has long known that meetings of certain people are not accidental, by definition. Having met this or that person, we gain some experience from communication/relationships with him. This happens in my life too. Somehow it turns out that at the most “necessary” moment, the person who helps me figure something out is “sent” to me. And these are not necessarily “analysis” of my problems. Communication is two-way.

Should I have an intimate relationship with my ex?

“Remember: there are no exes. All the women (in the symmetrical version: men) with whom we were connected by something more than one random night as a misunderstanding remain with us for life.

Strictly speaking, the past in the human sense does not exist at all. We perfectly remember the decisive moments from which ten or more years separate us, but we forget an insignificant conversation that took place an hour ago.

Yes, we broke up.

Karmic connection or conscious choice

Translated from Sanskrit, “karma” is activity, actions, deeds, and its law says: “what you sow, so will you reap.” It is believed that everything we did in the past and are doing now has its consequences and results in the future. Everything good and bad that we have done will definitely return to us, perhaps not soon, perhaps not even in this life, but it will definitely return, sometimes with even greater force.

And people, and our thoughts, actions, they are all interconnected.

Can casual dating turn into a serious relationship and change your life?

Hello readers of my blog, the sun is shining outside the window, the mood is wonderful, it feels like summer has already arrived. Today let's discuss the question: can casual acquaintances develop into... serious relationship and change your life. After all, it often happens that a completely random and unexpected meeting, which a person did not even plan, can bring a lot of benefits.

To be honest, in general, I believe that nothing is random in our lives, and any event and our choice of one or another action always carries with it corresponding consequences.

Man and woman

Sometimes there are meetings that instantly change your life. You become no longer you, and wings grow behind your back. You look at it completely differently the world around us and the people in it. You begin to perceive yourself completely differently.

You no longer care what your family and friends say; you don’t care that your children may judge you; you don't care that you have a husband. In the unforgettable whirlwind of this wonderful relationship, you have become so young and so confident that many simply do not recognize you.

Our meetings are not accidental

People meet for mutual learning, including to develop new qualities, skills, properties, and character traits. It's easier to replenish your " weak points"at the expense of other people, but when they disappear from your life, the qualities you lack will also go with them. You will have no choice: either look for a suitable addition again and again, or develop in yourself what was missing, for example, taking the experience of your partner as a model.

The quality of interaction (communication) with others is one of the criteria by which one can judge the level of human development.

There are no chance meetings - the story of Ekaterina Snezhko

It was a long time ago, approximately 3 years ago, I broke up with a man with whom I had lived for 7 years (yes, SEVEN YEARS.)). There was a moment in life, a dead end, and I, not seeing any further goal, went to the fortune teller (by the way, it was the month of June), she laid out her deck, talked a lot, predicted, so to speak. I can assure you that almost EVERYTHING came true, except for the little things. So she said, “You will start a relationship with your FRIEND, but it won’t be anything serious.

Don't there be random encounters? Are there random encounters?

I am often asked about fate and purpose. And the most frequently asked question: “Are there random encounters?” And if they are not random, does this mean that we are not the owners of our destiny? I could be wrong and I think there are no random encounters.

People meet, and any meeting leads to a solution to the most pressing issue at a given moment in life. The Universe, higher powers, God - call it whatever is closest to you - is giving you a lesson.

When considering whether there are random encounters, remember the most important ones.

People meet, and any meeting leads to a solution to the most pressing issue at a given moment in life. The Universe, higher powers, God - call it whatever is closest to you - is giving you a lesson.

Your task is to understand him and accept the result of the meeting.
When considering whether there are random encounters, remember the most important ones. The most turning ones. Those that greatly influenced you and after which you became a completely different person. Including meetings after which you still “hiccup” at the mere memory of this person.

These are the lessons of life, the universe, God. Designed to make you different. No better, no worse, others. In order for you to move to a new level of this world. So that you see, hear, feel, understand the world around you differently. To see another side of this universe. And they included it in their worldview, worldview.

Are there random encounters?

What kind of person would you be if they hadn't happened? Where would you be today? Who else would you not meet if one meeting passed you by?

Some meetings leave a barely noticeable mark on the soul. By crossing out others, you will become a completely different person.

Have you heard of the butterfly effect? Accidentally killing a butterfly in the past can lead to global changes in the future. So it is with meetings - cross out one, insignificant one, and something important will not happen in the future that will determine the future direction.

The fact that there are no chance meetings does not mean that nothing depends on you. I had a chance to watch the film “Cloud Atlas”, which turned out to be very interesting. There were words that resonated with me: “At every point of intersection, every encounter offers a potential new direction.” And your decision will be to accept or not accept this direction.

The most important thing is to keep track of what is happening in your own life and compare it with the people you meet along the path of life. Each of them is a mirror, one of the sides of your personality.

Are there random encounters? Mirror.

There are no chance meetings

Every time you think about whether there are random meetings, try to understand why this person met you on the way, what he can give you, and you can give him. What can you learn from this person?! This way you can look deeper into yourself and know your inner qualities.

I believe that a person meets on his way those people with such character qualities that right now require elaboration = change, in his inner world. The wealth of resources and perseverance of our world is very clearly demonstrated here. And a person will meet “such” people until he develops these qualities in himself.

Agree, the sayings “all women are fools” and “all men are goats” look completely different in this context.

There are no chance meetings - they are needed to change.
The level you are at now is largely your doing.

Learn not to ask the Universe, but to ask = ask questions - and it will begin to give a solution. From the connection of the actual person and the person encountered, an answer-solution to the situation (circumstances) is born to achieve the desired result.

Are there random encounters? – I’m sure not. Stop and think if this meeting awakened feelings in your soul. What in yourself do you gain access to through the person you meet?! And this access must be obtained directly, not through a person, this is exactly what needs to be corrected in order to move to the next level.

The person you meet is your bridge to yourself. You can use these bridges all your life, or you can pave the way to yourself directly. And thank the person you met for appearing in your life and pointing you in the direction. Trust your feelings, your intuition, your impulses more. There are a great many resources out there for reconnecting with yourself.

Start taking responsibility for yourself and your life. There are no chance meetings. It is important to admit that this is your life and you live it. There is no need to blame others, try to understand why this happens. We live every moment exactly this way and not otherwise. And this is the most best choice of all that were at the time the decision was made.

Where you are today and what you end up with at the end of your life's journey depends only on you. Who knows who I would be today if not for all the meetings in my life?!

Any meeting in life is karmic. Karma (translated from Sanskrit as action) is a set of actions, both bad and good. Also, this is also the influence of past lives in connection with present life.

Since karma has the ability to pass from life to life. A related term in the Western tradition used to describe similar influences is fate. Now not everyone takes karma so seriously, but many people are interested. To believe or not to believe in all these “astrological things” related to karma, past and future lives is up to each of you. But what if knowledge can be useful?

The purpose of writing this article is to help people better understand each other and themselves and better understand their relationships.

Many encounters with people in everyday life are far from accidental and carry a karmic nature. Some data suggest that there can be many such karmic encounters throughout a lifetime. Coming into this world, we find ourselves surrounded by people who help us realize our karmic tasks. These are our children, friends, relatives, bosses, work colleagues and just passers-by.

Any meeting in life is karmic. Each one was given to you for a reason. Each leaves its mark on your destiny. One adds only a small imperceptible touch, you don’t remember about it and don’t notice the trace left by it, but it is there. Another meeting becomes your whole destiny, an integral part of your personality and life itself.

Throw it away and there will be nothing left. Fate will be different, and you will be a completely different person.

According to the Law of Higher Karmic Connections, all encounters in life are conventionally divided into nine categories according to the degree of influence on a person’s destiny and the degree of proximity of karmic connections:
1. children (They are the closest and most important people in life for our karma, for their sake we can sacrifice everything, and this will be justified. However, there is always a question: did children need such a sacrifice?);
2. favorites;
3. spouses;
4. parents, brothers and sisters;
5. relatives;
6. friends;
7. colleagues;
8. acquaintances;
9. random passers-by.

A close karmic connection also means;

That we have met more than once in our past incarnations,
- were in close relationships and,
-maybe we were guilty of something in front of the person or he was in front of us.
-Perhaps we have caused great misfortunes for him in the past and now we are paying for our cruel mistakes by being forced to serve this man, fulfill his whims, listen to complaints.
-There can be many reasons, and not all of them are necessarily bad.

If we are placed by fate in such circumstances, then there is a reason for this.

As a rule, karmic relationships manifest themselves in life as an inadequate emotional reaction, that is, exaggerated.

The most important criterion that the past life has really been cleared, karma has been closed or karmic life has been worked out are changes in real life.
-As a rule, conflicts disappear.
-Relationships become calmer and often more friendly.

So let’s look at the weakest karmic connections:

Random passers-by

When communicating, the most important thing is to be able to listen to yourself. Do not allow someone else's will, someone else's energy to suppress your own impulses, develop your intuition, and if it is silent, then it is better to live by the general rule: only have contacts with random passers-by that correspond to a given karmic category - there will be more sense.
When we perceive the category of a random passer-by in a fleeting meeting as a higher karmic connection, this is a case of confusing God’s gift with scrambled eggs. Unfortunately, this is most often typical of young or psychologically immature individuals.
When a random person is elevated to the rank of closest friend, loved one, a violation of the Law of Karmic Connections occurs. And this always ends with a huge loss of strength, a large deposit of negativity in the body’s energy, and often leaves a serious imprint on a person’s entire fate.

And this happened to you... there is no need to despair. Take this as a serious life lesson, as an experience that clarified a lot in your life. Treat people who have treated you unfairly as your teachers. For some reason you needed this experience.
Straighten your soul, forgive your offenders and forgive yourself, let go of unpleasant thoughts, say thank you to fate for the lesson.

Your destiny is what happens according to your will and your, sometimes secret, desire. You shouldn’t make decisions that only random passers-by, fellow travelers and other people whom you see for the first time and presumably the last, are inducing you to make. There is an opinion that on the train, over a glass of tea, you can tell your fellow traveler everything that torments you in life and that you cannot tell your own mother. You will feel better, you will be cleansed, and your life will turn around.
By exchanging energy with a person and telling all our ins and outs, we let the energy of a stranger into the recesses of our soul. We can’t imagine what he can do there, so we can only trust competent specialists, psychotherapists, psychologists and astrologers, etc.

Familiar

These are people with whom we often or not very often meet in life, sometimes we interact very pleasantly, sometimes not very pleasantly. We cannot put them in the category of friends because we do not feel very close to them. Overall, we don't know them well enough to know who they are to us, other than just acquaintances. These are friends, neighbors, a regular hairdresser, a bathhouse attendant, our children’s school teachers and the parents of our children’s school friends.

Acquaintances are an indicator of the versatility or, on the contrary, the narrow focus of our personality; an indicator of what karmic tasks we are called to solve in this life.
If among a person’s acquaintances people of a narrow circle predominate, for example, scientists in a certain field of knowledge or teachers, doctors, military men, etc., it means that his karmic task is specific and is connected with one of the areas of human activity. For example, you are a doctor, and almost all of your friends are people related to medicine in one way or another. Therefore, healing people is your karmic task, and most likely, you are doing a good job of it - you are working off your karma well.

Without a doubt, your life will take off in all aspects of your life: your health will improve, your mood will improve, your relationships with loved ones will become more favorable. You will feel full of strength and creative ideas. But this is the case when a person’s life tasks have a specific, narrow karmic focus: art, science, teaching, healing, agriculture, technology, etc.

There are people with other, broader and more abstract karmic tasks. The circle of acquaintances of these people is not only very wide, but also very diverse. They are fascinated by the very process of communication, the organization of human affairs and relationships. They are interested in organizing various things and solving other people's problems. They feel comfortable in any society, be it the scientific community or those in power, or even the homeless, etc., they receive all conceivable benefits of life thanks to “connections”, for example, they can get the same “dust-free” job that pays so much enough for a comfortable existence.

Besides, more money means more hassle, and if you knew what a hassle it is, you would give it up voluntarily. In addition to entrepreneurship, these people are excellent in the field of public organizations, in various committees on ecology, education, etc., as well as in the role of judges, investigators, in management and administrative work. This is their destiny and their karma - service to society.
But let us remember that this category is quite far from us according to the Law of Karmic Connections.

Colleagues

A colleague is a person with whom only official and business relations are connected. Due to the fact that we often don’t have the concept of a colleague in our heads, a lot of troubles happen. People connected with us on business are karmically closer than just acquaintances. But in no case should they be confused with friends and relatives. Otherwise, business relationships, both friendly and family, may suffer greatly. Not to mention the fact that the case itself may crumble into dust.

Do not confuse the concept of co-worker and relative, friend, etc. for example, the director of a store was asked to hire someone’s relative. for example, a son who graduated from college, etc. But he doesn’t like work and went there only because his parents told him that if you don’t work, you won’t have money for a new computer, going to a restaurant, etc.

As a result, such an employee can become a source of huge trouble, because of which a respectable person such as our store director ends up on the list of unreliable ones, and it’s good if that’s the case, and his career doesn’t end there. And the store director himself is to blame for this, don’t mix your whole life into one pile. “Friendship is friendship, but money is separate,” says the Russian proverb. It is advisable that all friendships or family relationships be outside of work.

Friends

Friends can already be classified as close and dear people. In the three previous categories, relationships were built on the basis of mutually beneficial exchanges. Karmic relationships between friends imply selfless support, help without regard to what you get in return. If, when doing a friend a favor, you think about what he will have to do in return, then you are mistaken - he is not your friend. Maybe you are friends, maybe you are business partners, maybe you are just good acquaintances who call themselves friends, but for yourself you must understand what category your relationship actually falls into. Otherwise, a misunderstanding will inevitably occur, and you, not understanding each other, will part, each taking his own truth with him.

If a person is my friend, then it’s not just like that, it’s for some reason... It’s not by chance. Maybe I love this person and accept him for who he is. Maybe this person once provided me with an invaluable service, etc. Why does fate bring us together? Why do we want to help this particular person at all costs when he is essentially a nobody to us?

Why do we choose one of all our friends at school and go through life hand in hand with him? Why, when we meet one person among thousands of people, do we suddenly feel the kinship of our souls?
If this is your friend, different cosmic laws come into force. You give him your shirt off your back, and not because you know he will do the same, but because due to the kinship of souls it is simply impossible to do otherwise. Otherwise, you violate the cosmic law of Correspondence, which means your negative karma will increase. You have not yet learned this lesson - there will be new conditions in which the Higher Powers will again show you how the principle of Correspondence operates.

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