What pisses off all guys about girls. What annoys guys about girls
We recently published an article about “10 types of women that men avoid.” We listened to the male point of view, now we decided to talk about the female one. We propose to discuss some qualities of men that irritate lovely ladies the most. The list, of course, can be continued, so write reviews and comments.
Greed. If the girls are ready for family life with savings, it is unlikely to abandon the candy-bouquet period. Because girls want attention, and most often this means flowers, chocolates and movies. The most banal thing in the world, but it’s not about the flowers and film screenings themselves, but about symbolic courtship. In previous articles we talked about budget-friendly ways to organize dates, but if you don’t have money, don’t skimp on your imagination. Girls don't like greedy men.
Sloppiness. Agree that many people are guilty of this: a mess in the car, untidy appearance etc. But girls are not very attracted to this, and they draw the appropriate conclusions. Moreover, there are a certain number of girls who, when they see an inappropriately dressed guy, think about whether it’s worth communicating with this man if he can’t even wash his shirt. Of course, not everyone is so scrupulous, but it is better to make a favorable first impression, and appearance plays an important role.
Bad habits. And this doesn’t have to be smoking or alcohol, it can be such a strange quality as “checking in” on every alley, in every cafe. This is terribly annoying, as if the man is moving away from the girl, because at this moment the feeling of presence disappears young man near. And it doesn’t matter what social network you are on. The girl really needs attention, and even more so at first. And at the time of your next “check-in” he doesn’t receive it at all.
Falling in love with yourself. What could be worse? Narcissism is inherent in girls, and even then, this is not their most beautiful quality, but for men, narcissism is a serious minus in the eyes of a girl.
Absolute lack of independence. Many men had mothers, sisters, grandmothers who constantly did everything for them: they washed their socks, cooked borscht, and heated all the dishes. And, in principle, there was no need to do anything special, everyday, just study and read books. But the adult comes, independent life, this is where the problems begin. After all, even when you are married, you should not perceive your wife as a housekeeper, and even more so if you and your girlfriend have only recently started living together. Such a “consumer” approach is unlikely to please the girl, and she will try to change the situation or start looking for another partner.
Femininity of a man. Nowadays, very often you can hear the following phrase from girls and women: “In our relationship, we seemed to change roles, and I suddenly became a man.” Men, don’t forget that you should be courageous, and your girls should be vulnerable, romantic and emotional. You might think that women themselves brought this to this point, they are feminists, “themselves with a mustache.”
Now think about why this happened? Every woman, if she sees worthy man, will allow the man to be in charge. Dominance is not “in the blood” of women; they have to dominate solely out of necessity, and most of them will gladly get rid of this necessity.
Women are very annoying double standards. Double standards not only irritate, but also really offend girls. Therefore, if you think that women have no place on the road, in politics, in boxing or martial arts, then it is better to keep these thoughts to yourself and among your friends. Don't offend girls. Even if a girl is really inferior to you in strength, dexterity or maneuverability behind the wheel, this is not a reason to talk about unequal rights.
The difference is in the little things. Men often forget about various important dates, do not notice a new ring, hairstyle, etc., and so on, and so on. Although they make some changes in a girl’s appearance specifically for them, and not for someone else. Be a little more attentive to your loved ones, and mothers are also included in this circle of people.
All-consuming jealousy. Yes, a little jealousy leads to the development of relationships, but not always. But pathological jealousy only destroys your love and romantic feelings. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. Excessive busyness. If you are an extremely busy person, still try to find time for your loved one. As already mentioned in the article, girls love attention.
Trying to buy a girl. Don’t try to “buy” a girl’s love with gifts, she will still notice, no matter how hard you try to hide it. And then you will lose it and are unlikely to be able to get it back.
Grudge. During conflicts, do not remember any mistakes of girls that happened a long time ago. These are things of the past, so it’s simply not worth lumping everything into one pile. The girl will begin to “twist” herself, to think that you have not forgiven her, although this may not be the case, and you said this out of anger and without thinking.
Devaluation of women's problems. Girls get offended when men perceive their problems as “empty space.” Girls are emotional people, so a bad outfit or a stained favorite dress gets them upset. And if you like a girl and want to be together, then just meet her halfway or at least pretend that you are really sorry too.
Love and take care of vulnerable, gentle ladies. Don't let them cry over trifles, and to do this, don't make the mistakes listed above.
Every guy is looking for his ideal. Beautiful, relaxed, smart, funny. But only the most ideal girl in the mood can ruin everything in the world with one word, and especially experienced specimens don’t need words for this.
It's all about a certain type of behavior that annoys absolutely all guys. Here, for example, are 10 characteristic female habits that men simply run away from.
Talking about appearance
Nobody likes to be involved in a conversation about appearance. When choosing a girl, the guy already shows: everything is in order, you are exactly the one I was looking for. At least for the next month. There is nothing more tiresome than plaintive requests to evaluate her new diet, express an opinion on the combination of wardrobe items and similar nonsense.
Blackmail in bed
To avenge an insult by refusing him in bed? For some reason, most girls consider this a completely adequate action. In fact, the action is rather stupid and short-sighted. No man in the world would be pleased to admit his addiction. It’s easier to leave, because there are still a lot of fish in the ocean.
Shopping
Perhaps the most obvious item on the list. Who would like to waste half a day shopping? Constant shopping trips literally drive you crazy: where is the rational grain in this kingdom of hopeless boredom, where is the effectiveness of actions? But boredom is the first killer of any relationship.
Questions
Women were born with a question mark on their forehead. Men ask to get a clear answer. Women use questions as a trap where the victim will sooner or later fall. She doesn't need information: she needs you to admit your mistake and repent. This is why all arguments with women are doomed to failure in advance - you are trying to achieve a rational result using logic, she is trying to become a leader through demagoguery and casuistry.
Endless monologue
Guys don't like girls who are overly focused on their desires. Any conversation imperceptibly transforms into a monologue, where the interlocutor is needed only for the surroundings, and the main object always remains unfulfilled desires, dreams, memories of missed opportunities and the regrets of the girl herself.
Low self-esteem
I have bad hair. What happened to the skin? Oh, if only I could lose weight! Honey, don't you think I look just awful? Yes, dear. Now it seems.
Endless fees
Of course, all men gradually come to terms with the fact that their girlfriend takes forever to get ready. Try on several dresses, pick up cosmetics, change your mind. Repeat. Take a break, return to dresses again. Why not plan your time in advance to avoid being late?
Complaint book
Men don't like it when people try to turn them into girlfriends. It’s interesting to discuss provocative topics, it’s interesting to have fun together, it’s interesting to support your partner - but serving as a complaining book for all sorts of trifles is not interesting at all. And it gets boring quickly.
Good memory
Women definitely have better memory. Or they simply devote more resources to the eternal recording of all men’s mistakes. During a period of controversy, a woman pulls out an annoying nuisance from a year ago, like a joker from a deck. Now imagine the annoyance of a person who is suddenly confronted with the mistakes of the past. Why tolerate this?
Criticism
Nobody enjoys criticism. After all, being in a relationship is about feeling better than being alone. Criticism, especially about trifles, does not fit the definition of “pleasure” at all.
A million articles are devoted to the fact that girls (ideal princesses) irritate them the most about them (narcissistic workaholics without h/u). What female shortcomings infuriate men the most and what behavior can piss men off? These are answers from a variety of forums that can surprise many girls and will help some women come down to earth:
“It annoys me when a girl pretends to be a bitch. She considers herself fucking glamorous, but she takes pictures of herself in the mirror on a cheap soap dish and rides on the tram with pouty lips. Some kind of vile posing, a smart, self-sufficient girl behaves noble, and he won’t wear cheap leopard print rags.”
“When you can’t shut them up and they blow your mind. Can’t you just be silent for half an hour? Do I really have to tell you about my friends and their friends’ friends? Isn’t it possible to solve the simplest problems yourself, like buying a bag or designing nails, without consulting me? Please don’t call me a hundred times a day “just like that” and be offended that I don’t answer stupid rhetorical SMS."
“Commercialism. It’s not difficult for me to pay for a girl in a cafe, especially if it’s a date and I invited her. But when a semi-familiar girl drags you out to “drink coffee” and starts telling you something about the treat, it’s terribly infuriating. Another category is those who, in response to a simple favor, say “you’ve got chocolate.”
“There is nothing worse than a girl smoking. Not even because she smells like the Prima factory, but because it looks ugly. Such a beauty is standing at a bus stop or, even worse, walking down the street with a cigarette. She thinks that this makes her such an independent fatal beauty, but in fact it’s disgusting to look at her.”
“Sometimes girls value themselves above their cost. Those who don’t have an adequate assessment of themselves are infuriating. She wants a salary of a million dollars, but at the same time she doesn’t know how to do anything and doesn’t want to learn. Or she dreams of a prince, but doesn’t understand that she cares about a princess with her manners, intelligence and fat ass, it’s a long way off. And they’re also offended by the whole world.”
“It’s annoying that girls think that the whole world should be laid at their feet just because they have beautiful tits and butts. This is not a reason to demand from guys that they indulge all their whims. And I also can’t stand stupid and illiterate people! "
"Long, very long nails are annoying. Especially plastic ones... well, extended ones."
“I don’t like that now almost all girls swear. You look at a girl - she’s such a sweetheart, but when she opens her mouth, she’s a terrible redneck.”
“I can’t stand late people. If she’s late for the first date, goodbye.”
“It infuriates me when she sits like this all with a sour expression, you ask what happened. She wipes her sniffles, sighs and says in a dying voice: “Nothing.” Well, girls, we are not psychics to guess what happened there and why You’re not happy. At least say why you’re offended and suffering, otherwise your tears are of no use.”
“My girlfriend constantly complains about how fat she is, that she has a pimple on her nose, and her hair is thin. I’m starting to feel like a complete loser that I’m dating such a scary woman as she considers herself. I understand, of course, that she needs compliments so that I reassured me. But she really has a pimple and really folds on her stomach, and I didn’t notice it before!”
"Lack of taste in clothes and makeup. Of course, we brazenly look at those dressed like prostitutes, but this is far from admiration. It’s just that since a girl allowed herself to dress like that, it means she’s not right in the head or she’s looking for a male -fertilizer. And we are always ready for the latter, as it is not to help the weaker sex. Just don’t count on a long-term relationship.”
"They cheat, they don't give you money, they bully you:("
“It’s infuriating when they say: “You’re a man, you have to, you decide!” But I don’t want to decide anything, I want beer and salted fish!) Well, it infuriates the girls who complain that they are not the right men today, as if women today are “those”, because of such chickens they are not at all capable of heroic deeds."
“Given that irritation is a physical or chemical effect on the sensitive cells of the sensory organs or other organs nervous system, what irritates me about girls is boobs!”
“It’s annoying to see girls who like to make fun of other girls, as if they’ve never seen themselves in the mirror.”
"I'M HAPPY WITH EVERYTHING ABOUT GIRLS!!! But it still won't help me."
I hope this material will become a reason for many girls to think about their behavior. What else do you need? dear men irritating in women?
A million articles are devoted to what annoys us (ideal princesses) the most about them (narcissistic workaholics without h/u). Biscuit decided to fill the gap and write about what female shortcomings infuriate men the most.
After monitoring several dozen forums, we wrote this material so that some women would come down to earth. Let's leave out boring reasons for irritation such as lies, betrayal and betrayal - it is obvious that no one will like this. But what kind of our behavior, which we sometimes elevate almost to a virtue, can drive men crazy? Answers that may surprise many girls:
It annoys me when a girl acts like a bitch. She considers herself so fucking glamorous, but she takes pictures of herself in the mirror on a cheap soap dish and rides on the tram with pouting lips. Some kind of vile posturing, a smart, self-sufficient girl who behaves nobly, and won’t wear cheap leopard print rags.
When you can’t shut them up and they blow your mind. Can't we just be silent for half an hour? Is it really necessary for me to tell about my friends and their friends’ friends? Isn’t it possible to solve the simplest problems yourself, like buying a bag or designing nails, without consulting me? Please, don’t call me a hundred times a day “just like that” and be offended that I don’t answer stupid rhetorical SMS.
Commercialism. It’s not difficult for me to pay for a girl in a cafe, especially if it’s a date and I invited her. But when a semi-familiar girl drags you out to “drink coffee” and starts telling you something about a treat, it’s terribly infuriating. Another category is those who, in response to a simple favor, say “you’ve got some chocolate.”
There's nothing worse than a girl smoking. Not even because it smells like the Prima factory, but because it looks ugly. Such a beauty is standing at a bus stop or, even worse, walking down the street with a cigarette. She thinks that this makes her such an independent fatal beauty, but in fact it’s disgusting to look at her.
Sometimes girls value themselves above their cost. Those who do not have an adequate assessment of themselves are infuriating. She wants a million dollar salary, but she doesn’t know how to do anything and doesn’t want to learn. Or she dreams of a prince, but does not understand that she is far from a princess with her manners, intelligence and fat ass. And they are also offended by the whole world.
It’s annoying that girls think that the whole world should be laid at their feet just because they have beautiful boobs and butts. This is not a reason to demand from guys that they indulge all their whims. I also can’t stand stupid and illiterate people!
Long, very long nails are annoying. Especially plastic ones... well, extensions.
I don’t like that now almost all girls swear. You look at the girl - she’s such a sweetheart, but when she opens her mouth - she’s a terrible beast.
I can't stand late people. If she is late for the first date, goodbye.
It infuriates me when she sits there all with a sour expression, you ask what happened. She wipes her sniffles, sighs and says in a dying voice: “Nothing.” Well, girls, we are not psychics to guess what happened there and what you are not happy with. At least say why you are offended and suffering, otherwise your tears will be of no use.
My girlfriend constantly complains about how fat she is, that she has a pimple on her nose, and that her hair is thin. I'm starting to feel like a complete loser for dating such a monster as she thinks she is. I understand, of course, that she needs compliments so that I can calm her down. But she really has a pimple and really folds on her stomach, and I hadn’t noticed it before!
Lack of taste in clothes and makeup. Of course, we brazenly look at those dressed like prostitutes, but this is far from admiration. It’s just that since a girl allowed herself to dress like that, it means that everything is not right in her head or she is looking for a fertilizing male. And we are always ready for the latter, as it is not to help the weaker sex. Just don't count on a long-term relationship.
They cheat you, they don’t give you money, they bully you :(
It’s annoying when they say: “You’re a man, you have to, you decide!” But I don’t want to decide anything, I want beer and salted fish!) Well, it’s annoying girls who complain that they are the wrong men these days. It’s as if women today are “those”, because of such chickens they are not at all capable of heroic deeds.
Considering that irritation is a physical or chemical effect on the sensitive cells of the sensory organs or other organs of the nervous system, boobs irritate me in girls!
Girls who like to make fun of other girls are annoying, as if they have never seen themselves in the mirror.
I'M HAPPY WITH EVERYTHING ABOUT GIRLS!!! But it still won't help me.
We hope this material will become a reason for many girls to think about their behavior. What else, dear men, irritates you in women?
Let's leave out boring reasons for irritation such as lies, betrayal and betrayal - it is obvious that any guy will not like this. Here are some points that may surprise many girls:
When they talk incessantly and get on your nerves. Can't we just be silent for half an hour? Is it really necessary to talk about your friends and their friends’ friends? Isn’t it possible to solve the simplest problems yourself, like buying a bag or designing nails, without consulting your man? Please, don’t call a hundred times a day “just like that” and be offended that there is no answer to stupid rhetorical SMS.
Commercialism. It's not difficult to pay for a girl in a cafe, especially if it's a date. But when a lady you semi-familiar drags you out for “coffee” and starts blurting out something about the treat, it’s terribly infuriating. Another category is those who, in response to a simple favor, say “you’ve got chocolate.”
There's nothing worse than a girl smoking. Not even because it smells like the Prima factory, but because it looks ugly. Such a beauty is standing at a bus stop or, even worse, walking down the street with a cigarette. She thinks that this makes her such an independent fatal beauty, but in fact it is unpleasant to look at her.
Sometimes girls value themselves above their cost. Those who do not have an adequate assessment of themselves are infuriating. She wants a million dollar salary, but she doesn’t know how to do anything and doesn’t want to learn.
Long, very long nails are annoying. Especially plastic or extensions.
Guys don’t like that now almost all girls swear. You look at the girl - she’s such a sweetheart, but when she opens her mouth - she’s a terrible beast.
There's no point in being late. If she is late for the first date, then such a date may be the last.
The girl sits with a sour expression, ask what happened. He will answer, sighing heavily, in a dying voice: “Nothing.” It’s not easy to guess what happened and why she’s unhappy. You need to say why you are offended and suffering, otherwise your tears will be of no use.
Many girls constantly complain about how fat they are, how they have pimples on their nose, and how thin their hair is. It's not pleasant to meet such a bogeyman as she considers herself.
Lack of taste in clothes and makeup. Of course, men look at those dressed like prostitutes, but this is far from admiration. If a girl allowed herself to dress like this, it means that everything is not right in her head or she is looking for a fertilizing male. And this is a signal for men. There won't be a long-term relationship.