What does it mean to want a woman. How to understand that a girl wants you

Counting on a pleasant continuation of the evening, do not rush to jump out of your pants if you are not sure that your lady is ready to spend the night with you. Otherwise, you can get into a very awkward situation.

Girls are complex natures, but most of all they can puzzle. Remember how often you were caught off guard when she made the first move herself or, on the contrary, completely stopped your courtship for no apparent reason.

Believe me, representatives of the beautiful half of humanity do not do this on purpose. It’s just that the tendency to seduce is inherent in them by nature itself. They emit pheromones, attracting men on a biological level. And what we take for female cunning turns out to be a completely natural process.

Why won't a girl sleep with you?

There are many answers to this question: you may be unsympathetic to her, or she herself has little interest in sex, perhaps this is contrary to her principles and ideals. We want to introduce you to the 7 main reasons why you are likely to get rejected.

1. She has critical days. Most girls do not have sex during this period. But there are those who don't mind. Most often this applies to those girls who have serious relationship, or they just enjoy making love at this time.

1. She doesn't like you.. Yes, the date could have gone great, but you can never be sure if she liked it until you realize that the second is no longer in sight.

1. She's waiting for the right guy. They may be you, but not now. Some people need more time to decide if they are ready to allow a man to their body. And sometimes, it’s enough for them to just fall in love.

1. She is against marriage. You should not treat this reason with a smile. Many girls adhere to this principle and take care of themselves for their husband. If you really care about her, then you should respect her decision and wait, perhaps in the future you will be together.

1. She's not in the mood. Don't think this is just another ploy to turn you down. Remember what happens to your erection when you are not in a good mood. There is nothing surprising in the fact that girls can experience the same thing.

1. She forgot to epilate. You will be very surprised to learn how often women refuse because of this. well maintained appearance has become so important these days that even making love is akin to a beauty pageant.

1. She's wearing the wrong underwear. A woman is not always There can be several explanations for this - today was the day of the big wash, or she did it on purpose to stop any attempts to seduce her.

How do you know if she agrees?

If you notice during a date some of the signs listed below, then most likely you are provided not only with a pleasant evening, but also with a passionate night.

1. She touches you in intimate places. Stop! Get the obscene picture that was just presented out of your head. Men also have other organs, touching which speaks of the intimate mood of your companion. She may touch your ears, neck, thighs, torso, or even your feet (in the latter case, with her feet).

1. She constantly licks her lips. This behavior can also be explained by the fact that she does it intentionally, seducing you, or such a movement occurs reflexively, as a reaction to thoughts about you. In any case, this is a good sign that you, in all likelihood, are.

1. In conversation, she often mentions sex. A woman will never voluntarily talk to a man about sex if she does not want it here and now. And if this topic came up during the conversation, then you can expect that the words will turn into deeds.

1. She specially picked up a stunning outfit. Girls always dress according to their own taste. Some prefer a provocative style in casual clothes, so a short skirt does not indicate a desire to sleep with you. But if a woman who prefers to dress more conservatively suddenly puts on a red dress with a deep neckline, then obviously she wants you to take it off her.

1. She invited you to come to her. Often this indicates that she is ready to spend the night with you. In most cases, women leave a request for tea to a man, and only then decide to refuse or agree. But a direct invitation says that she wants and is ready for closer contact. But, do not forget that the matter can still be limited to a cup of coffee or a glass of wine.

1. She passionately returned your kiss. This behavior suggests that the woman is in the right mood, and she is ready to give herself to you, even before reaching the bedroom. Do her a favor, and how real gentleman carry it there in your arms.

1. She's too excited. Her voice became more sensual, her skin warmed up, and her pupils dilated - congratulations, you have achieved your goal! These are clear signs that a woman not only wants, but is also ready to spend an unforgettable night with you.

Now you know how to determine if a woman is ready to have sex with you or not. Knowing this, you can be much more confident in asking her to spend the night together. Note that the more obvious the signals, the greater your chances of success.

And in most cases, in the end, all these conversations end with the conclusion that in our time it has become difficult to find a real man, and that all men are RAGS, etc., etc. To top it off, women begin to discuss what character traits in men annoy them the most.
In fact, women are so pedantic that some individuals have a special list of character traits that they hate in men. Surprised? In the past, we didn't even know about it. You also have to get used to the idea that most men will die without knowing about it. We hope that after we talk about this with you, you will behave differently with women; and it will help you behave properly with different types women.
Forward! Let's talk about FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE.
For women, friendship and romance are two completely different things. For them, it's not the same. Friendships can turn into romantic relationships, but this happens EXTREMELY RARE. ROMANTIC relationships are very different from FRIENDLY relationships.
While most men don't mind sleeping with many of the women they know if they agree, most women, in turn, wouldn't sleep with men they consider their friends.
Why so? How do women divide us into "only friends" and those with whom they could be "more than just friends"? And why is it so difficult to advance to a higher level with a woman after you have been friends for a long time. The answer to this question is of great interest to us.
We believe the answer comes down to understanding HOW women "know" when they want to get close to a man, or more importantly, it's important for us to understand HOW they "know" that he DOES NOT WANT to get close to you.
Everything, as always, is based on the feelings of a woman. Rather, on a combination of EMOTIONAL and PHYSICAL feelings. And it defies logic. She could use logic to "rationalize" her decision: or she could listen to logical reasoning to decide "her" guy or "not her" (i.e., type of guy). But not in our case. Here the logic is not important at all.
Put another way: When a woman feels something on an emotional or physical level, she uses her feelings to make "decisions" and take action towards a particular guy.
If she feels that the guy annoys her, then most likely her "logical" conclusion will be something like this: "I don't want this guy." But if her feelings for you are more "hot", then her "logical" conclusion will tell you that you are interesting and attractive, and that you should opt for it. As you can see, in all cases, her actions are based on her feelings and thoughts. Its logic is approximately the following: "FEEL => THINK => ACT". First - FEELING, then - THOUGHT, then - ACTION.
Now, with that in mind, please answer our two questions. First: How do most guys act around the women they like? And second: What are they doing to win this woman and be with her?
Take a few minutes to think about this. Take a pen and paper and make a list. Take this task seriously. Set aside reading for a while. When you're done, resume reading.
Now let's look at your list. I bet that almost every item on your list will be a general, external manifestation of your interest in a woman. In other words, your list will contain something like: "Take her to a cafe," "Congratulate her on the holidays," "Buy her flowers," "Call her more often."
What do all these activities have in common? They all demonstrate that you are INTERESTED in a woman. But they DO NOT evoke those emotional and physical feelings that tell a woman: THIS IS THE GUY I WANT TO BE WITH.
I think your life experience proves that a man, as a rule, tries to use all the wrong things to show a woman that he is interested in her. He HOPES that when a woman sees all these displays of care, she will be interested in him. Almost none of the things a man does can make a woman feel anything even faintly like ATTRACTION. Of course you know it.
All these things should be done at a later stage, when IT ALREADY BELONS YOU, and now you need to CONQUER IT, so other methods are used here.
And at this stage, we often make TWO FATAL MISTAKES at once.
The first mistake, which we have already talked about, is a rather old and most simple way to go the wrong way. Telling or directly showing that you are in love with a woman will have no effect on how she treats you. More precisely, no. This will make her attitude towards you even more cold and indifferent.
At some point, you will be sure that such behavior makes sense. "If I show her how I feel about her, she will reciprocate." Far from it. It rolls only with youngsters. It is clear that you will not achieve your goal. This will only make the woman turn away from you and reduce all your attempts to zero. Do you think that if you do nice things to a woman, it cannot harm your relationship in any way? Maybe even how.
Look: if you have been dating a woman for six months and already know her well, and then her birthday is coming up, then, of course, you need to buy her a gift, showing her how you feel about her and how you love her. YOU ARE ALREADY IN A FULLY ESTABLISHED RELATIONSHIP. But to buy expensive things, to give a woman with whom you have known for a week at most: you know, this is somehow strange.
Do you know where it comes from? This is due to the second mistake most men make. It lies in the fact that many men behave as if the woman already belongs to them, and they are terribly afraid of losing her. Do you have any idea how ridiculous and how ignorant that looks in the eyes of a woman? A woman sees a man in front of her, who, instead of striking her with his personality, his behavior, is simply trying to buy her attention. Not even like that. He freely gives her many blessings, timidly hoping that she will give him her body. Why should she do it? After all, they did not agree with the man about this. Men enter into such an agreement with a prostitute when they hire her, but nothing like this is negotiated with women who are invited on dates. As a result, a man does not get what he wants, and becomes even more nervous and does even more stupid things.
Women are kind of experts in these matters, and they understand that when you don't get what you want from her, you start making hasty decisions and making mistakes. You are trying, as it were, to "buy", "appease" her. But women love to be approached differently.
And now another very important thought that we would advise you to write down on a piece of paper and stick to the monitor: AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN IS WATCHING A MAN TRYING TO WIN HER FOR A LONG TIME, AND SHE KNOWS WHEN HE DOES NOT GET HIS. BUT HER MOST IRRITATES WHEN HE DOES NOT GET HIS OWN, TRY AND TRY AGAIN AND AGAIN.
Keep in mind that women watch us for a long time, shake their heads and think to themselves: "He cannot get his own, he does not know how to get his own, and he will not get it, because he is weak!" The fact is that if you cannot get yours, then the method that you use does not work and will not work. You need to completely change the strategy, otherwise all your attempts will be doomed to failure.
But let's get back to where we started. So what annoys women the most about men? There are a few specific things that REALLY annoy women about us men. A woman may love you very much, but if you make even a few of these mistakes (which, as you will later notice, are sides of the same coin), it can completely destroy your relationship. Read:

1. You give up your positions in exchange for her attention and approval.
If you asked us to name just one mistake, we would name this one first. We messed around a lot before we were finally convinced that this trait is very disliked by women and inevitably leads to the phrase "Let's remain friends." Of course, from her side.
In other words, a woman does not want you to lose your status in her eyes and your masculinity. Many men follow the same script: when they conquer a woman, they try to show her how courageous and strong they are. But, as soon as something goes wrong, they decide that The best way to save the situation - to give her virtually everything in exchange for her attention and affection. But women are NOT ATTRACTED by weak men. You should be for her the embodiment of courage and support until the very end. Women hate it when a man shows them that he is ready to give up his power in exchange for their attention. THEY HATE IT!
We could write an entire book on just this one question. Take a few minutes and think, and perhaps write down, how not to make this mistake when dealing with women. And do it WITHOUT DELAYING.

2. You don’t need to be tenacious, insecure with her, show that you need something.
When one person "clings" to another in psychologically, the second has a feeling of rejection to the first, he is IRRITATED. These are classic laws of psychology - we are always attracted to those who do not pay too much attention to us. Heard, probably, the expression "clung like a bath leaf." You don't have to be this very bath sheet.
Here are some notable examples:
- The guy is talking to a girl he just met, she tells him: "That's it, bye, I have to go," and he insistently asks: "Well, let's talk some more, call me when you get back," etc. Girls hate this behavior. Although they themselves often sin with them.
- Or, say, young people walk together in a department store or in a museum, and wherever the girl goes, the guy follows her everywhere, not leaving her for a minute, as if he is afraid of losing her. This starts to annoy the girl, because she also wants to be alone, and then a ghost guy follows her on the heels.
- Or, even worse, a guy is so insecure that he constantly asks a girl if she likes him, is he good, is he funny, is he interesting for her. "Do you find me interesting?", "I'm your boyfriend like?", "Are you and I going to succeed?", "What are my chances?" he asks. This is very annoying for women. They usually evade such questions, trying to move the conversation to another topic. If she wants, she will express her attitude towards you in words or deeds.

3. In a "You-She" pair, you should be a leader, and not try to transfer the right to leadership and decision-making to her.
Women by nature are not formal leaders, especially in relationships with men. In these respects, women prefer to give, so to speak, the palm, to us, men. They believe that a man should be in charge and decide, if not all, then most of the issues, and they are happy to leave the role of "gray cardinals" to themselves.
Women are very annoyed by those men who, like slugs, constantly pour questions, follow her, drag, one might say. Those who cannot make a decision on their own ask what to do, where to go, and so on. In fact, a man ASKS a woman, and the latter is very annoying.
He says: "I was thinking: how would you feel about the fact that I took you to dinner in a restaurant: how do you look at it?" Everything he says literally means "I'm trying to figure out WHAT SHE WANTS ME TO DO, what SHE wants me to do". Funny, is not it? You won't win a woman's heart in any way.
Phrases should sound like this: "I WANT us to go there", "WE WILL GO there". You are the dominant link in your relationship, she is the recessive one. And for her, the situation is extremely pleasant when she had no choice, and you independently organized all her comfort. It is a mistake to think that she will be annoyed by this - no, on the contrary, she will be annoyed if you try to act, guided by her decisions.

4. Use of uncertain, approval-seeking language, expressions, tone, etc.
Women see such guys from a kilometer away and avoid from the first minutes of communication. We cannot even imagine how many men behave in this way in a society of women. Probably 80 percent, or even all 90. "Yes, he is very nice," beauties say about such guys, but nothing more.
And another useful exercise from U.S. Spend a few days wandering around the meeting places of lovers and watch them. Take a walk in the parks, cafes, clubs, it doesn't matter. Watch the behavior of the guys. See how they lean towards women. See how they raise their eyebrows when women start to exaggerate, how they fake smiles when listening to women's nonsense. With all their appearance, with all their conversation, they make it clear: "I don't know how to treat you, how to react to your stories, so I will do everything to deserve your indulgence." In other words, they simply spread out under women like rags. "Here, wipe your feet on me, I'll be patient!" "Tell me, whatever you want, I'll swallow it all!" You will see it EVERYWHERE. You will have little doubt that guys are being stupid. You will be so overwhelmed by the abundance of these mini-acts that you will be tempted to write to us about your observations.
If you see with your own eyes and realize the wrong behavior of most men and follow our instructions, then women will treat you differently. A woman sees right through you, much like you see the size of her breasts under her clothes. We think about 90% of FAILERS fail because they don't understand these things. The tone, language, gestures of such men immediately tell the girl: "HE IS A LOSER."
DO NOT MAKE THIS MISTAKE, MAKE A WOMAN UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU CAN DO AND WHAT YOU CANNOT DO, DO NOT STEP ON THE THROAT OF YOUR DESIRES AND DO NOT CLOSE NEAR HER FEET LIKE A RAG.

5. It is necessary to understand that you are a MAN, and she is a WOMAN.
We're going to philosophize a little. It's probably not a discovery for you that many men do not understand women. But it's still half the trouble. The fact is that many men do not understand men. And most guys don't know what natural is male traits and male character. Any guy who does not see a clear line between femininity and masculinity will not arouse any interest in women.
Women have their own character, and men have their own. Women are naturally modest. The process of their conquest by men - from their point of view - is a game. And, in their opinion, the game is not easy, so you need to train more often. They understand that in order to achieve heights, you need to fight. Women like to wait, they like to enjoy the pursuit. They are in no hurry to go anywhere. Their rivalry with each other is determined by the quality of their men.
Men are competitive. Men are formally the dominant sex. Men love to play rough games, conquer things, territory and control them. Their rivalry with each other is determined by the number of women, the scale of achievements, physical strength and the size of some organs. BUT! The behavior of most men changes dramatically for the worse when they are in the company of the woman they love. It is as if they are being replaced, they behave completely differently from how they would behave in a normal situation.
And what is the result? Boundaries are blurred, roles are blurred. Women become like men, men become women: When you are surrounded by the attention of the woman you love, don't act like a GIRL. At all times, among any nations, the image of a sissy was neither sexy nor respected. And women HATE such men!

6. If a woman is not interested in you, DO NOT try to fill these gaps with something else.
Most guys have something like this logic: "I don't really think beautiful woman would like to be near me, just because she enjoys my presence. Therefore, I will do some additional things that she will be content with, and then she will be fine with me. "Implying:" I'm not good on my own, but my actions will make up for it. "All this is nonsense. The girl understands that if a guy does not seek to attract her with his personality, then she will go crazy, being near him for a long time.In other words, no amount of material gifts, congratulations, dinners, and other "signs of attention" will give COMPENSATION for the lack of INTEREST IN YOUR INNER "SELF".
Think about it: we, the authors of this article, have several women we know who often call us and invite us only because they are interested in being with us. These women are happy just from the thought that they are next to us, in the same room with us, in the same company with us. Yes, these women CALL US OFTEN.
Material gifts, flowers, and other courtesies for women have either zero or negligible value compared to the value of being in your company for her. It's something she remembers a million times longer than any of your gifts. It is important that you attract her on an internal level, and then she will feel good only because you are there, and not because you are doing something for her. An attractive woman wants a guy who turns her on. Comfort, relaxation, security is her dream, and your material means are only one hundredth of what is needed to make her dream a reality. She wants some mystery to come from you... she wants to laugh, to be happy... she needs sexual tension.
If you constantly (without any reason) give her congratulations, delicious food, expensive gifts, then ask yourself the tough question: "Why am I doing this?" Because I think that in itself I am not interesting to a woman and I cannot give her anything that excites her, I can only buy, maybe then I will be able to keep her close to me. Remember: NO COMPENSATION WILL REPLACE HER YOURSELF, IF HER IS REALLY GOOD WITH YOU. If you are boring, monotonous, predictable and banal, then women will not need anything from you, except for your gifts. Don't annoy them!

7. Misunderstanding what ATTRACTIVE means.
This is an important issue. You probably already read about it in the article "Thinking for the Future". Perhaps now that you read this again, but in other words, you will better understand what we are about to tell you.
If you "get your way" with women, it increases your significance not only in your eyes, but also in hers, for them it is extremely interesting and attractive. Women IMMEDIATELY BE ATTRACTED when they are around confident guys. They very quickly recognize that they are talking to a guy who understands the psychology of a woman: Who likes to create sexual tension. Women know when a guy speaks a SECRET sexual body language. If the guy does not do this, then the woman stops all communication with him at this level, at the level of sexual flirting. If it does, then the relationship is developing rapidly.
ATTRACTION is not a choice. Attraction is an emotional and physical reaction: and you can NOT "convince" a woman to feel her logic, mind. Attraction is born as a result of a woman meeting a man who understands how to make her internal representations work for him: and who understands what to do in each specific situation in order to progress to the next level. THE PROBLEM you face in creating an ATTRACTIVE look for women is that the things you have to DO in order to succeed are NOT OBVIOUS. You need to reach them intuitively in the course of long practical experience. It can be said that all these mini-acts that provoke female attraction are the exact opposite of what makes sense. You should do things that create tension, things that should hurt her feelings a little, for example, stop doing something that she loves for a while, make her miss you for a while. That is, use the "Closer-Farther" technique, which you could get acquainted with in the article "The Hologram Technique". This is a kind of test for a woman.
If you do not understand the mechanisms of female attraction, then the woman will be the first to know about it. She IS ANNOYED when a man tries to try on or even equate his attraction to hers. It infuriates her when he is in a hurry, when he ignores flirting and play in every possible way.

Now that we have listed the mistakes for you, you need to keep in mind those imaginary images built in your mind during the reading of this article, and start practical communication with women. At first, you may not get much from what we have discussed here. But the main thing is that you keep all these things in your head. And then, gradually, your behavior will begin to change. And trust us, women will be the first to notice.

You will learn about all the factors by reading this article to the end, and I also recommend watching the video at the end. Thanks to this article, you will improve your knowledge today and be able to put it into practice on the street, at recess, or wherever it is more convenient for you.

Signs that a girl wants you

close contact

You can determine if you see that the girl is reluctantly approaching, wants to be close. Or slowly enters your zone, a meter or a half from your face. And of course, she expects a counter reaction, say that you smile or hug her. A girl needs to be introduced to the fact that sometimes quite modest guys come across. The guy needs to have an input that if he already hugged her, don’t let her go. Until she feels sympathy.

Shoulder exposure

I don’t know if you paid attention to how a girl casually exposes her shoulder. So this is what happens when the dress slips off the shoulder and she allegedly does not notice it, and I ask you to notice - the shoulder is exposed just when you are watching. A girl needs to have input, doing these tricks with her friend is very dangerous, guys, just don’t think that she got hot, in fact she wants to get closer, so don’t waste your time.

showing palms

If a girl looks at you with her chin on her fingers, and her palm is slightly turned towards you, let me introduce you - she is ready for a lot. The girl needs to have an input - be careful with turning the palms, otherwise you may be misunderstood, Well, the guy needs to have an input if you think for a long time - she can turn it over
palms.

Neck exposure

She seems to stick her neck out, all so defenseless. In fact, in this way she makes you understand that you are clearly not indifferent to her. Kopeck piece needs to have input that not every man will be able to read this signal from your side. Well, in place of the guy, the girl in this case expects a compliment from you, you can praise her hair, dress or something else from her appearance.

armpit show

She shows her relaxation or alleged fatigue by lying down or leaning back, exposing her armpits. The girl needs to have input, it's not bad if everything is in order with your appeal. Well, the guy needs to have an input, she won’t show this to anyone!

Silly girl

Surely you have often noticed that a girl in your presence behaves like a silly girl. And this is not easy, with you she starts to giggle, do stupid things, react to everything like a little girl. The girl at this moment needs to have an input that he might think that you are really not quite adequate, so the girls do not go too far. Well, the guy needs to have an input that it can come out of her unconsciously, or maybe on purpose. In any case, if you see such behavior of a girl, then you know how to regard it.

Stroking

If she strokes her shoulders, hips, adjusts her straps - this is a very clear sign that the girl likes you. Girls need to remember that, due to their youth and inexperience, stroking can be turned into scratching. Men like it when a woman strokes herself. The guy must understand, she is waiting for you to come up to her and speak. The main thing is not to be afraid to seem unoriginal, because the girl does this so that you talk to her.

decoration games

If she stares at you while playing with a chain or any other jewelry, or she can just fiddle with something in her hands, she wants you to come closer to her and at least start an uncoerced communication. A guy should know that this naturally happens not with a simple, but because
she really liked you, getting in touch will be quite simple, since she already expects this from you.

leg demonstration

If a girl sits in a cross-legged position and this position is directed in your direction, this is a clear signal in favor of the fact that you are at least not indifferent to her. The effect is only enhanced if she plays with her shoe. If in her behavior you also noticed other signals from the above, then this is a 100% guarantee that she wants to communicate with you, but she may be a little embarrassed to start communication first.

But how can you determine the degree of sufficiency of sex? You will probably be surprised to know that modern sexologists are beginning to conclude that we should make love every day, and sometimes more than once a day. Of course, this is not always possible. It is quite understandable that if the husband is on a business trip, and the wife is at home, then they will experience certain difficulties in following this advice. Sometimes one of the partners may catch the flu, or have a stomach ache, or be really tired. But every day when you are together, both should think about how best to express their sexual affection, and if the opportunity presents itself, do it.

Maybe I'm a nymphomaniac?

The most common cause of anxiety and concern for women is that they are often not fully aware of the normality of their sexual needs. Women are brought up with the feeling that if they want not only regular, but also frequent sexual intimacy, then this is immoral and abnormal. They may be shocked by their own sexual fantasies.

What happens when a woman is significantly more interested in sex than a man? She often feels guilty and ashamed and prefers not to tell her partner about his sexual failure.

Lera, 27 years old: “I am worried that my friend does not satisfy me. Usually a woman is given advice on how to behave towards an insatiable man. From my point of view, my friend is a sexy net. It is in the order of things for him not to engage in love for weeks, when I think about it every day. Actually, I need three or four times a week, or I'll go crazy. Please don't accuse me of nymphomania. I'm not like that. Although sometimes I feel ashamed of that I constantly think about sex"

Lera is definitely right. She is not a nymphomaniac. Men call a "nymphomaniac" a woman who has a stronger sexual appetite than they do. Actually, the term "nymphomaniac" is used to describe a woman who shows an increased interest in men. Pathology is considered to be cases when a woman does not experience sexual satisfaction, regardless of the frequency, duration and intensity of sexual intercourse. Just because a woman remains unsatisfied with her sex life and just because she thinks that her lover doesn't bond with her often enough, she doesn't become a nymphomaniac. She is just the same as 67 percent of all women with whom sexologists communicate.

Sex as an emergency

You have probably listened to similar complaints from women. The friend who burned with the desire to get into his panties every time they met turned into a husband with no interest in sex. He plunged headlong into boring, routine work. And at home - TV, computer, sofa and plentiful food; sex became an extraordinary event in their lives.

Larisa, 30 years old: “I imagined that when we get married, we will make love almost constantly. I mean, the sexual side of marriage for me is that you can have all sorts of different ways of sex everywhere, whenever you want When my husband came home from the office in the evening, I met him naked, except for a bright scarf on his head, which he liked, and a few bracelets. walked, ignoring me, into the bathroom. I'm more than sure that there he gave free rein to his hands. And this happens regularly"

Here it is - the irony of life. With such a large number married men, violently hankering for sexual intercourse, men who get sexual satisfaction only with the help of a number of a pornographic magazine and their hand, there are so many married women suffering from dissatisfaction.

active grooming, Honeymoon, full of caresses the first months family life... Then the frequency of sexual intercourse decreases, up to their almost complete cessation. This causes tension in the family, a feeling of disappointment, frustration, and very often an irresistible desire for sexual satisfaction develops ... without a partner or partner. The trouble is that this desire is fulfilled by each one alone, furtively, instead of finding satisfaction in each other. Despite the fact that self-stimulation is in no way unnatural, it can become a cause that corrodes the erotic desire and leaves less and less hope that the joint sex life brings partners together again.

There is nothing unnatural in the very fact of onanism. This is perhaps the only human act that does not cause any damage to health. But in this case, when the husband began to regularly satisfy himself, it is quite natural that his attraction to Larisa blunted. The woman felt this decline in her husband's sexual need and responded by defiantly offering herself. But the man is not ready and does not want to conquer a woman again and again for intimate rapprochement. He refuses to make any effort. A man finds it easier to give up all attempts to satisfy a woman, refuses the usual frequent sex, and their relationship slides down an inclined plane. And then evening lovemaking becomes the exception rather than the rule.

Mismatch

It often happens that partners are perfect for each other, their sexual appetite is similar, but the internal hours of activity do not match. She likes to make love in the morning, he prefers in the evening. Only a few hours of sleep is enough for him, he wakes up with a strong erection and wants to make love continuously. She wants her partner to quietly seduce her when she settles on the couch after dinner (unfortunately at the moment when he wants to close his eyes and take a nap). I know a couple who solved the problem of temporary sexual mismatch in their own way. They simply "signed" the agreement. They came to the decision never to refuse each other, even if one of them participates in sexual intercourse with little enthusiasm.

People's sexual needs are extremely different, and quite often a woman, who is very sexually active herself, enters into a relationship with a man for whom sexual intercourse once a month is the ultimate dream. It happens, of course, and vice versa. There is nothing wrong with some women wanting sex all the time; in the same way as women who experience desire quite rarely. The key to sexual success with your partner lies in understanding your own desires, and in achieving these desires, you should take steps that give sexual satisfaction to both, and in the most exciting and fulfilling way. There are a large number of ways available in which one partner who does not feel the need for frequent intercourse can satisfy the other who does, with minimal sexual involvement on his or her part.

Increasingly, there are couples who decide to get married or live together because they thought they loved each other, but their relationship to each other rests on anything but love. They converged because they were instantly blinded by each other; or because they were trying to get rid of a former lover; or wanted to run away from home; or from feelings of loneliness; or to assert itself; or in search of a safe haven. After a few months, most of them begin to feel dissatisfied, often without understanding why. But everything is much simpler: they never understood that loving another person is not only about having fun. In particular, only a few of them understand that mutually satisfying, long-term sexual relationships require some compromise, imagination, care, and some effort.

Naked truth

So, the fact that a woman needs frequent intercourse, that she wants to make love every day, there is nothing shameful or abnormal. You also need to remember that with seemingly very violent sexual fantasies, you can quite satisfy your needs through ordinary sexual intercourse. It is impossible to consider every sexual act as worthy of being awarded the highest award. There is also no scale grading the achievements to which you would aspire.

By determining which of the two of you is the sexual leader, you and your partner can adjust your relationship so delightfully and pleasantly that both of you will be sexually satisfied. If each of you can open up your sexual needs without fear of shocking your partner or being misunderstood, then you are on the right path to a fantastic intimate life. It's wonderful for the ego to be able to say to your lover: "I want this or that" - and be calm for not hearing in response: "How anxious and insatiable you are." Boundless candor is good way get closer, get closer and get to know each other better. And remember that only a person who really cares about you should fully open up physically and mentally.

Passionate, beautiful and active sexy girls can languish with the desire to spend the night with you. However, how to recognize such lustful desires of ladies?

There are several proven signs by which you can judge that a woman wants you. They can be hidden and inconspicuous to others, however, they can be caught by a man to whom piquant signals are intended.

Prolonged eye contact

A woman's eyes can tell a lot, including her sexual desire. This is an unmistakable signal. Such a look is filled with sexual desire, and you will certainly notice it even in the crowd. For some women, it can be intent and playful, for others it can be languid. In any case, a woman's eyes will always give you a signal. In such a non-verbal way, you can do without unnecessary words on her part. That is why dating on the street during the abundance of electronic technology does not belong to the category of old school.

Cheerful laugh, radiant smile

A glance is usually followed by a smile or a laugh. A modest giggle with lips covered with a palm is also considered a signal. According to women, long and intent gazes often become noticeable to others. In order not to feel awkward, the look gives way to a smile and laughter.

Praise and compliments

Women also tend to give men compliments. Most often this happens spontaneously and completely sincerely. Compliments about your appearance, success, sharing and approval of your interests are a sure sign that she will not mind a more private conversation and an intimate setting.

She is relaxed and in a good mood with you

This is a very important nuance that allows you to determine the approach of the moment of proximity. She should feel comfortable and relaxed with you. She can laugh openly and cheerfully, not be embarrassed to joke and say stupid things. In this case, you are a couple of steps to bed. But if the dialogue turned out to be dry, and for all your efforts to support it, you hear “Probably” or “Yes, well?” Leave this disastrous event. You probably didn't arouse her interest.

Down with the distance

She starts closing the distance with you. Sit next to you, tries to stay as close to you as possible, inadvertently touches. Do not think that this is a lack of modesty and bad taste. This is a clear sexual beacon.

During a conversation, you often talk about you, while she is interested in whether you have a girlfriend (wife)

Such information for a woman plays important role. One will ask about it directly, the other - beautifully and veiled, and the third will be engaged in an independent investigation. She will definitely pay attention to whether you have a ring on your ring finger and whether there are female attributes in the car. Even if you are not free now, it is better to tell her about it in advance, so as not to deceive her and not find yourself in a stupid situation.

She tries to touch you

If touching your body has already become commonplace, then it's almost in the bag. Of course, she will never act like a man, and will not pinch you openly on the ass. There are similar female methods. She may accidentally touch your knee and hold her hand on it, or gently touch your hands. This is a proven signal of her sexual desire. It's just that girls don't touch men.

Asks you for help

She may turn to you with a request to help eliminate a computer virus, figure out the settings of the tablet, etc. Do not hesitate, this is an excuse to retire and spend time with you.

Presents and pleasant surprises

You may unexpectedly receive small gifts from her in the form of souvenirs or trinkets. Under the guise of such actions, as a rule, there is an interest in you. However, you can find out that he is “not for self-interest, but for sex” by the manifestation of other signs.

Brings up intimate topics of conversation

Talking about sex may mean that he constantly cares for her, or she already introduces you as a sexual partner. In any case, such conversations are already a sure sign of her sexual desire.

The thesis of all the described signals is as follows: if a woman shows increased activity in communicating with you, do not hesitate - she wants you. And most importantly, it is much easier to identify such ladies among others than to take on the conquest of another FIFA. Of course, if you yourself are used to taking on everyone you want with a fight, then this is not an argument for you. However, sooner or later the race for fifas can get boring, and then you will certainly use our advice.