What do you need to do to get a girl to give? How to make a girl chase you? Tips for guys
Most men believe that it is the man who should chase women. However, those guys who are successful with women do not share this point of view.
That's why they're always at parties with the coolest girls. What would your life be like if instead of chasing girls, they chased you? Here are 10 tips to help you find out.
10. Use the “backward approach”
The "reverse approach" is when you say and do the opposite of what you say and do to pick up a girl. However, this approach assumes that the woman already knows and trusts you.
Your goal is NOT to try to be nice and nice to earn her approval. How to do this?
One way is to use sarcastic comments that are the opposite of what the girl wants to hear.
Or your answer to her question should be the opposite of what she expected to hear, and this should be done in a tone that clearly implies that you are simply laughing at her. If you do this, a reverse-polar connection will be formed, implying that it is she who will haunt you.
9. Read between the lines
If you are talking to a girl on the phone and she says that she is seeing someone else, then you need to understand that she is saying this more for herself than for you.
Perhaps she just accidentally agreed to go on a date with another guy, but she still feels sympathy for you, and she needs to tell you this in order to convince herself that she is not single.
If you find yourself in this situation, then tell her something like: “Yes? Congratulations. Or do you think that I was trying to run after you? She won't know how to answer you and will begin to understand that you are an independent guy who doesn't need any woman, and this is exactly the type of man that girls LIKE.
Don't be surprised if she calls you back within a week and says she'd like to go out with you because she doesn't want to see the guy she dated last week again.
8. Go beyond “sexual relationships”
When I first started studying the question “How to be successful with women,” the idea of “sleeping a girl” seemed much more interesting to me than now, because I believed that if I could learn how to seduce a girl, then I would be successful with any woman.
Well what can I say now. A lot of guys who are great at seducing women can't find the right woman to spend their life with.
And when they do find one, they cannot keep it. I think it is much more interesting and useful to understand how and why a woman is attracted to a man, and why she stays with him. With this knowledge, you can find “your” woman and keep her close.
There is nothing wrong with seduction, but it is only a piece of the puzzle that alone will not make you happy and successful in life.
7. Stop courting and start winning her attention.
There are two main ways a man meets a woman: courtship and attraction. If you base your relationship on ATTRACTION, then the approach is significantly different from courtship.
If you are courting a woman, her first reaction will be to “run away,” and this turns you on even more, and you continue to run after her. And if a girl likes you, then her natural reaction is to want to pursue you. This subtle, barely perceptible difference makes up all the diversity of the world.
6. Dominate
Courtship is based on your ACTIONS, OFFERS and what you GIVE, which mainly means gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc.
Attraction involves the way you communicate, your personality traits, and your masculinity. Courtship involves a “become a friend” strategy, you need to be very nice to get her to like you.
Attraction doesn't mean all that, because a woman doesn't have to like you to be attracted to you.
Courtship is a challenge, and attraction is a challenge. Courtship means being a suitor, submissive and weak; attraction is leadership, power and dominance.
Stop courting, start getting her attention, and you won't BELIEVE how it will turn your relationship with a woman around.
5. Be strong
Women change their opinion about a man if they see that he behaves confidently. Therefore, you need to show the girl that you are one of those rare guys.
And if she told you that another guy is interested in her, or that she is busy tonight, then you need to understand that she is just testing you.
Simply answer, “Come on, I know that’s not true,” and she’ll understand. And more importantly, she will understand that she is dealing with a real man.
4. Stay the course
Most men immediately focus themselves on courting a woman and seeking her affection. She leads, you follow.
In fact, she doesn't even lead. The man is simply trying to convince her of this with the help of appropriate questions and body movements.
This is a terrible mistake that will lead nowhere. Instead, stay the course, even if it isn't "leading." Let her change her behavior, body language, mood according to your behavior.
Never let her get ahead. Show her that you are the type of man who is used to being the captain of his ship, and this will undoubtedly attract her.
3. Never stop halfway and don’t explain your actions.
If you do something that seems to upset a woman, don't try to apologize or do anything to make her feel better.
There is no need to feel or act guilty or show her that you feel bad about what you did. Just act like nothing happened.
Move on to the next topic or story. If she starts complaining, just say it was just a joke and move on with your story.
If you try to stop and start apologizing for what you said, you may consider it over for you. If you say something and she doesn't like it, then that's HER problem.
Women often complain just to see how you will behave in such a situation. And if you don't give in to this, her respect and attraction for you will increase significantly.
2. Show that you are a normal man
There are a lot of different idiots, perverts and psychologically unstable guys in our world, so it is very important to demonstrate with all your behavior that you are not one of such subjects.
Tell the girl that you are busy and hang up without even asking her to come on a date. Make fun of the stupid behavior of other guys who act like wimps. If she calls you but doesn't leave a message on your answering machine, tell her she's stalking you and normal people leave messages.
Doing this will show her that you are not one of those creeps who is desperate to get into her panties. And she will understand that you are better than those other guys she usually dates.
1. Use her own games on her
We all know that women love to “play games.” And when you turn the situation around and start playing her own game with her, it shifts the emphasis in your favor.
One of my favorite games is “You are a poorly behaved child and I don’t like it.” I don't think this is a censorship of explanation.
Others use the “Let’s see who will be more interested” and “I’m hard to win and you’ll come running to me” method. Use these methods and you will soon find that she realizes that she cannot resist you as an individual.
To be successful with girls
1. Stop chasing girls.
It seems like a paradox, but in fact it is logical. There is one thing in which girls are similar to guys - they do not like what is easily accessible. So, if one guy runs after a girl, gives her gifts, gives her compliments, and the second guy behaves with restraint, keeps his distance, shows himself to be a gentleman, attentive, the girl will almost 100% choose the second one. The first one already runs after her, you can always keep up with him. And the second one is mysterious, a little inaccessible, but so interesting... Truly, the forbidden fruit is sweet. Now it becomes clear why bitches have so many suitors, while pretty modest girls are not very popular. Although a smart man wouldn't choose such a bitch for serious relationship, but this fact still makes you think.
As you can see, I propose to use his own weapon against the enemy, let’s call it “bitchiness.”
Therefore, the image of a successful man among girls is something like this: attentive, kind, strong (not primarily physically), self-confident (sometimes self-confident), demeanor, not one of those who is ready to be with the first person he meets, but picky. Sometimes men of this kind even reach the point of rudeness and impudence, but these are not real professionals and not our choice.
Don't run after girls, let them run after you. Don’t give gifts, love when they give them to you (you’ll always have time to give them yourself), don’t say “I love you,” let her say it first. You may have to “play a role” in the beginning, but behave with the girl as if you have had hundreds of them, and you are sure that there will be more. Just don't brag about it. It’s better to pretend that this makes you uncomfortable.
Life is such an interesting thing. Here you are sitting at home and, suppose, reading this article. This interests you. Most likely you are a guy (but there are also girls - some just saw this article by chance, others were specifically looking for it), you are young, your hormones are raging, friendship with female representatives is of paramount importance to you now. Not just because you expect sex (although your subconscious does), you just want to be friends with girls.
There is one problem, although this is not a problem at all, you are embarrassed to meet people. Every time you see a girl, you hesitate to approach her, and this hesitation is even more intensified if the girl is beautiful and chic. You sit and think: “Well, give me some sign that you are interested in me and I will come to you.” But no, she doesn't even look in your direction. And again you go home, sit down at the computer, etc.......
It is at such moments that guys have funny desires: “If only the girls would run after you.” Yes, the desire is good, but Mother Nature has decreed that a man should be a leader in everything and, first of all, when meeting the opposite sex.
And although the trends in the development of society in recent years are such that the female sex is beginning to gain leadership positions in many spheres of society, nevertheless, by its nature, a woman cannot always be strong without the support of a strong woman. male hands. Yes, very often lately, women initiate dating. But, as a rule, girls will be the first to approach a guy and will run after him only in 2 cases:
- The guy is simply handsome and sweet.
- The girl herself is far from first place in the ranking of the most beautiful, sweetest and slender.
What to do if you are not handsome, but you want beautiful girls to run after you.
- Firstly, you need to buy a lip roller machine, since your desire and ambitions go against the laws of nature.
- Always be attractive. Even if you are not handsome, you can become attractive. The female gender is primarily attracted to appearance a guy and physical attractiveness is not always in the first place here (just as the size of a man’s penis is not as important as the duration of sexual intercourse). Buy it for yourself good clothes, do it beautiful hairstyle. This is enough to get noticed.
- Be able to meet a girl. Sometimes, for a jerk, guys can take a gram of alcoholic drink on their chest. This is a good thing, because alcohol makes many of them bolder. The main thing here is not to cross the fine line between the amount of alcohol that makes you more determined and the amount that turns you into a dirty, inadequate pig. Remember!!! If you're a drunk, no girl will talk to you.
- The hardest thing about dating is approaching a girl and talking to her. I want to say that you don't have to talk to her at all. It is enough to simply meet her gaze and greet her with a nod, or walk up and say hello (you can even ask her what her name is, say your name and leave). This is the first step towards the fact that the girl will begin to be interested in you and try to establish contact with you.
All of the above applies to how to meet a girl. Let's talk about how to make them run after you.
- Pull yourself together. If a girl says she has a boyfriend and hints to you that you have little chance, don't show her that you're disappointed. As a rule, this is a special protective reaction of a girl from excessive male attention. After all, she is beautiful, which means guys flock to her like bees to honey (or flies to g.....). Tell her that you didn't expect anything, but just wanted to chat.
- Be firm. There is no need to try in every possible way to please the girl and care for her excessively. She will understand that you are different from all the other guys who were ready to kiss her feet. Do you think women like guys like this? Ask them yourself.
- Be an equal with her. There is no need to try to please the girl in everything; it is better to find some common qualities or interests in yourself and her and focus on them. This is important not so much for you as for her. Having found a person interesting to her, she will try to communicate with him as much as possible.
- Prove that you are not a maniac. It is very important for a girl that you are a normal, adequate person, and not a maniac who wants to get into her panties. Don’t even show that you want to sleep with her, you are just an acquaintance to her.
- She is not as important to you as she thinks. If after meeting her, the girl calls you (you accidentally gave her the phone number), you can pretend that you didn’t recognize her. If she invites you to go out in the evening, tell her that you are busy today and schedule another day. The longer she waits, the more she will want to see you again. The main thing here is not to overdo it with the timing; if you postpone the date for too long, there will be someone who will meet her earlier.
- Stay on the chosen line. Always stick to your chosen course of action. If you serious man, don’t turn halfway into a creeping rag. This may disappoint her. As a rule, in such situations they say that the first impression was false.
In general, guys, I would like to say that this article is not an instruction for action, everything depends on many conditions. For example, there is a type of girl who considers a guy to be a cold, selfish asshole if he doesn't court a girl. The most important thing here is to stay in the middle between a worthless wimp and a rude idiot. As they say, be human and people will be drawn to you (including girls). Good luck everyone!
Most men believe that it is the man who should chase women. However, those guys who are successful with women do not share this point of view.
That's why they're always at parties with the coolest girls. What would your life be like if instead of chasing girls, they chased you? Here are 10 tips to help you find out.
1. Use the "reverse approach"
The “reverse approach” is when you say and do everything the opposite of what you say and do to pick up a girl. However, this approach assumes that the woman already knows and trusts you.
Your goal is NOT to try to be nice and nice to earn her approval. How to do this?
One way is to use sarcastic comments that are the opposite of what the girl wants to hear.
Or your answer to her question should be the opposite of what she expected to hear, and this should be done in a tone that clearly implies that you are simply laughing at her. If you do this, a reverse polarity connection will be formed, implying that it is she who will haunt you.
2. Read between the lines
If you are talking to a girl on the phone and she says that she is seeing someone else, then you need to understand that she is saying this more for herself than for you.
Perhaps she just accidentally agreed to go on a date with another guy, but she still feels sympathy for you, and she needs to tell you this in order to convince herself that she is not single.
If you find yourself in this situation, then tell her something like: “Yes? Congratulations. Or do you think that I was trying to run after you?” She won’t know how to answer you, and will begin to understand that you are an independent guy who doesn’t need any woman, and this is exactly the type of man that girls LIKE.
Don't be surprised if she calls you back within a week and says she'd like to go out with you because she doesn't want to see the guy she dated last week again.
3. Don't limit yourself to "sexual relationships"
When I first started studying the question “How to be successful with women,” the idea of “sleeping with a girl” seemed much more interesting to me than now, because I believed that if I could learn how to seduce a girl, then I would be successful with any woman.
Well what can I say now. A lot of guys who are great at seducing women can't find the right woman to spend their life with.
And when they do find one, they cannot keep it. I think it is much more interesting and useful to understand how and why a woman is attracted to a man, and why she stays with him. With this knowledge, you can find “your” woman and keep her close.
There is nothing wrong with seduction, but it is only a piece of the puzzle that alone will not make you happy and successful in life.
4. Stop courting and start winning her attention.
There are two main ways a man meets a woman: courtship and attraction. If you base your relationship on ATTRACTION, then the approach is significantly different from courtship.
If you are courting a woman, her first reaction will be to “run away,” and this turns you on even more, and you continue to run after her.
And if a girl likes you, then her natural reaction is to want to pursue you. This subtle, barely perceptible difference makes up all the diversity of the world.
5. Dominate
Courtship is based on your ACTIONS, OFFERS and what you GIVE, which mainly means gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc.
Attraction involves the way you communicate, your personality traits, and your masculinity. Courtship involves a "become a friend" strategy, you need to be very nice to get her to like you.
Attraction doesn't mean all that, because a woman doesn't have to like you to be attracted to you.
Courtship is a challenge, and attraction is a challenge. Courtship means being a suitor, submissive and weak; attraction is leadership, strength and dominance.
Stop courting, start getting her attention, and you won't BELIEVE how it will turn your relationship with a woman around.
6. Be strong
Women change their opinion about a man if they see that he behaves confidently. Therefore, you need to show the girl that you are one of those rare guys.
And if she told you that another guy is interested in her, or that she is busy tonight, then you need to understand that she is just testing you.
Simply answer: “Come on, I know that’s not true,” and she will understand. And more importantly, she will understand that she is dealing with a real man.
7. Stay the course
Most men immediately focus themselves on courting a woman and seeking her affection. She leads, you follow.
In fact, she doesn't even lead. The man is simply trying to convince her of this with the help of appropriate questions and body movements.
This is a terrible mistake that will lead nowhere. Instead, stay the course, even if it isn't "leading." Let her change her behavior, body language, mood according to your behavior.
Never let her get ahead. Show her that you are the type of man who is used to being the captain of his ship, and this will undoubtedly attract her.
8. Never stop halfway and don’t explain your actions.
If you did something that seemed to upset her, don't try to apologize or do anything to make her feel better.
There is no need to feel or act like a guilty person or show her that you feel bad about what you did. Just act like nothing happened.
Move on to the next topic or story. If she starts complaining, just say it was just a joke and move on with your story.
If you try to stop and start apologizing for what you said, you may consider it over for you. If you say something and she doesn't like it, then that's HER problem.
Women often complain just to see how you will behave in such a situation. And if you don't give in to this, her respect and attraction for you will increase significantly.
9. Show that you are a normal man
There are a lot of different idiots, perverts and psychologically unstable guys in our world, so it is very important to demonstrate with all your behavior that you are not one of such subjects.
Tell the girl that you are busy and hang up without even asking her to come on a date. Make fun of the stupid behavior of other guys who act like wimps. If she calls you but doesn't leave a message on your answering machine, tell her she's stalking you, and normal people leave messages.
Doing this will show her that you are not one of those creeps who is desperate to get into her panties. And she will understand that you are better than those other guys she usually dates.
10. Use her own games on her
We all know that women love to "play games." And when you turn the situation around and start playing her own game with her, it shifts the emphasis in your favor.
One of my favorite games is “You are a poorly behaved child and I don’t like it.” I don't think this requires any explanation.
Others use the “Let’s see who will be more interested” method, and “I am difficult to win, and you will come running to me.” Use these methods and you will soon find that she realizes that she cannot resist you as an individual. And if you are interested
Instructions
Everyone wants love - both girls and boys. Another thing is that not every young person is able to admit how much he lacks real feeling and simple human warmth. In addition to this, it is also generally accepted that it is the guy who should take the initiative in the relationship and seek the girl’s attention. Are there any secrets to not running after girls, but for them to run after you?
One of the 100% effective methods to interest a girl is to surprise her. Show her how different you are from all the young people she knows. For example, if she asks you a question, answer it differently than she expects to hear. You can comment sarcastically on what she says or does - this will certainly not leave her indifferent and will make her start analyzing the reasons why you behave this way. In this case, it will be the girl who initiates communication.
Please note that there are two main reasons why girls enter into a relationship with a young man. Such an alliance can be based on courtship - then the girl seems to give in to the guy who has been wooing her for some time. In simple terms, the girl seems to be running away from you, which naturally spurs you on and makes you chase her. Another type of relationship is one that is based on the girl’s attraction to young man. In this case, she is already more interested in contact with the young man and is forced, as it were, to pursue him.
Attraction is more likely to arise towards a strong and brutal male than to a sweet and kind young man. Become the dominant partner, strong and confident, and then the girls will compete with each other in order to attract your attention.
Never apologize if you said or did something she doesn't like. Most women, consciously or unconsciously, use a lot of manipulative techniques, and one of the most common is to make a man feel guilty. In this case, the girl may not actually be offended at all, but only pretend to be so in order to observe how the guy will behave in this situation. If you do not react to such provocations, then she will begin to respect you more, and as a result of this, her attraction to you will only intensify.
“Beware of those who make you feel guilty, for they crave power over you,” as one of the greats said. A young man who wants to be attractive to girls must always remember her and not succumb to the manipulations of the fairer sex.
November 28, 2013, at 3:28 pmMost men believe that it is the man who should chase women. However, those guys who are successful with women do not share this point of view.
That's why they're always at parties with the coolest girls. What would your life be like if instead of chasing girls, they chased you? Here are 10 tips to help you find out.
1. Use the “reverse approach”
The "reverse approach" is when you say and do the opposite of what you say and do to pick up a girl. However, this approach assumes that the woman already knows and trusts you.
Your goal is NOT to try to be nice and nice to earn her approval. How to do this?
One way is to use sarcastic comments that are the opposite of what the girl wants to hear.
Or your answer to her question should be the opposite of what she expected to hear, and this should be done in a tone that clearly implies that you are simply laughing at her. If you do this, a reverse polarity connection will be formed, implying that it is she who will haunt you.
2. Read between the lines
If you are talking to a girl on the phone and she says that she is seeing someone else, then you need to understand that she is saying this more for herself than for you.
Perhaps she just accidentally agreed to go on a date with another guy, but she still feels sympathy for you, and she needs to tell you this in order to convince herself that she is not single.
If you find yourself in this situation, then tell her something like: “Yes? Congratulations. Or do you think that I was trying to run after you? She won't know how to answer you and will begin to understand that you are an independent guy who doesn't need any woman, and this is exactly the type of man that girls LIKE.
Don't be surprised if she calls you back within a week and says she'd like to go out with you because she doesn't want to see the guy she dated last week again.
3. Go beyond “sexual relationships”
When I first started studying the question “How to be successful with women,” the idea of “sleeping a girl” seemed much more interesting to me than now, because I believed that if I could learn how to seduce a girl, then I would be successful with any woman.
Well what can I say now. A lot of guys who are great at seducing women can't find the right woman to spend their life with.
And when they do find one, they cannot keep it. I think it is much more interesting and useful to understand how and why a woman is attracted to a man, and why she stays with him. With this knowledge, you can find “your” woman and keep her close.
There is nothing wrong with seduction, but it is only a piece of the puzzle that alone will not make you happy and successful in life.
4. Stop courting and start winning her attention.
There are two main ways a man meets a woman: courtship and attraction. If you base your relationship on ATTRACTION, then the approach is significantly different from courtship.
If you are courting a woman, then her first reaction will be to “run away”, and this turns you on even more, and you continue to run after her. 10 ways to make a girl run after you!
And if a girl likes you, then her natural reaction is to want to pursue you. This subtle, barely perceptible difference makes up all the diversity of the world.
5. Dominate
Courtship is based on your ACTIONS, OFFERS and what you GIVE, which mainly means gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments, etc.
Attraction involves the way you communicate, your personality traits, and your masculinity. Courtship involves a “become a friend” strategy, you need to be very nice to get her to like you.
Attraction doesn't mean all that, because a woman doesn't have to like you to be attracted to you.
Courtship is a challenge, and attraction is a challenge. Courtship means being a suitor, submissive and weak; attraction is leadership, power and dominance.
Stop courting, start getting her attention, and you won't BELIEVE how it will turn your relationship with a woman around.
6. Be strong
Women change their opinion about a man if they see that he behaves confidently. Therefore, you need to show the girl that you are one of those rare guys.
And if she told you that another guy is interested in her, or that she is busy tonight, then you need to understand that she is just testing you.
Simply answer, “Come on, I know that’s not true,” and she’ll understand. And more importantly, she will understand that she is dealing with a real man.
7. Stay the course
Most men immediately focus themselves on courting a woman and seeking her affection. She leads, you follow.
In fact, she doesn't even lead. The man is simply trying to convince her of this with the help of appropriate questions and body movements.
This is a terrible mistake that will lead nowhere. Instead, stay the course, even if it isn't "leading." Let her change her behavior, body language, mood according to your behavior.
Never let her get ahead. Show her that you are the type of man who is used to being the captain of his ship, and this will undoubtedly attract her.
8. Never stop halfway and don’t explain your actions.
If you did something that seemed to upset her, don't try to apologize or do anything to make her feel better.
There is no need to feel or act like a guilty person or show her that you feel bad about what you did. Just act like nothing happened.
Move on to the next topic or story. If she starts complaining, just say it was just a joke and move on with your story.
If you try to stop and start apologizing for what you said, you may consider it over for you. If you say something and she doesn't like it, then that's HER problem.
Women often complain just to see how you will behave in such a situation. And if you don't give in to this, her respect and attraction for you will increase significantly.
9. Show that you are a normal man
There are a lot of different idiots, perverts and psychologically unstable guys in our world, so it is very important to demonstrate with all your behavior that you are not one of such subjects.
Tell the girl that you are busy and hang up without even asking her to come on a date. Make fun of the stupid behavior of other guys who act like wimps. If she calls you but doesn't leave a message on your answering machine, tell her she's stalking you, and normal people leave messages.
Doing this will show her that you are not one of those creeps who is desperate to get into her panties. And she will understand that you are better than those other guys she usually dates.
10. Use her own games on her
We all know that women love to “play games.” And when you turn the situation around and start playing her own game with her, it shifts the emphasis in your favor.
One of my favorite games is “You are a poorly behaved child and I don’t like it.” I don't think this requires any explanation.
Others use the “Let’s see who will be more interested” and “I’m hard to win and you’ll come running to me” method. Use these methods and you will soon find that she realizes that she cannot resist you as an individual.