Why did my husband leave Dana? Why do men leave their families?

To prevent the head of the family from leaving the family, analyze your relationships in advance and do “work on mistakes” - maybe it’s not too late to save the marriage and peace in the family.

After listening to many stories of husbands who left the family, we can identify 8 main reasons for this action:

Abandoned women often wonder why do men leave their families . Here is the story of one of them. From her story it is clear what mistakes she made and, perhaps, after analyzing the situation, she will still be able to regain her husband and father to her children.

Olga: My husband found someone else. He's been walking with her for two months now. He is going to rent an apartment with her and said that he is filing for divorce. He says that his mistress has nothing to do with it, that he was going to leave the family two years ago. I admit that I am guilty of many things: I sawed often, there was no harmony in sex. He doesn’t even want to go out with me – he’s ashamed. After giving birth, I gained a lot of weight and, with three children, I completely neglected myself and turned into a wimp. And he can afford to drink beer after work, sleep peacefully at night - he has to go to work! And I'm running around midnight small child- I’m sitting at home! So, girls, appreciate what you have...

Getting married, still “on the shore” Discuss all fundamental issues with your future husband , what you can put up with and what you will never put up with.

There seemed to be no signs of trouble: your marriage seemed quite happy. But the irreparable happened, and you are already crying alone, not understanding why a man leaves the family, so beloved and seemingly reliable. Should you blame yourself for what happened or take comfort in the thought that “all men are assholes”? Should I try to win him back or calm down and try my luck with someone else?

Myths about why men leave their families

First, let’s dispel your possible misconceptions about why a man leaves his family, where he is loved so much. These reasons may be imposed on you women's magazines or your own girlfriends.

• Myth 1

He left to gain freedom. You would like to think that he left because family life limited him in what he could enjoy before marriage: in unrestrained drinking and partying with friends, in close communication with other women, in the absence of children constantly demanding attention. However, this is not entirely true: men will never go “nowhere”. Most likely, he has a “backup front” in the form of a woman who understands him much better than you.

• Myth 2

• Myth 3

After your breakup, your husband becomes a desired “prey” for girls with matrimonial plans. Do you think that as soon as you get a divorce, how will your ex-husband women will attack, wanting to clamp him down as soon as possible. It is quite possible that this will be the case, but it is unlikely that a man who has just graduated serious relationship will hasten to tie the knot again.

Try to abstract yourself from such thoughts and look at the situation more soberly.

Why did he leave? Real reasons.

Now let’s talk about why men actually leave their families. Let's look at the situation from their side.

You stopped being interesting to him

Perhaps sexually, maybe as an interlocutor. The rule that a woman should be “a little smarter than a monkey”, in serious matters, and even more so in marital relations, doesn't work. You must be smart enough, but not smarter than him. And also important sexual compatibility, without a harmonious “bed” relationship, the marriage will collapse even faster.

Incompatibility of characters

“They don’t get along” is the most common reason given in divorce applications. Differences in temperament, attitude to life, habits: all this inevitably leads to a break.

Your intemperance

Don't confuse intemperance with unpredictability. If you were often unable to remain silent and fiercely defended your point of view, could yell at him over trifles, take out your bad mood on him, then don’t be surprised why your man left the family.

In the past, your behavior was quite "easy"

Only men are forgiven for frequent changes of partners and “mistakes of youth.” Women's behavior of this kind is condemned by society. And for men public opinion incredibly important, although they will never admit it. So, it is quite possible that, having learned about your stormy premarital life, he will leave.

You blame all your problems on him.

Of course, your husband should support you in difficult situations. But if all your communication comes down to your constant complaints and whining, then sooner or later he will get bored with it.

You let yourself go

Don't think that it was enough for him to like you at the very beginning of your relationship. Do you think that if he fell in love with you when you were a slender and well-groomed beauty, he will not stop loving you, even if your weight approaches the number “100”, and your set of clothes is limited to shapeless chlamys? Continue to be mistaken. Until the moment he leaves you for a seductive young lady who does not disdain visiting the gym and beauty salons.

You're wasteful

Of course, a man is the financial stronghold of the family. But by giving you a salary, he expects that you will manage the money wisely and not waste it on all sorts of nonsense.

As much as you don’t want to admit it, you have to come to terms with the fact that in most cases when a man leaves the family, the woman is to blame. Therefore, start looking for reasons in yourself, and do not blame him, such a scoundrel, who abandoned you to the mercy of fate.

As often happens - a seemingly normal family, so many years behind us life together, children, home, everything seems to be fine... But the man takes it and leaves the family.

And they often explain it this way: midlife crisis, wanted something new, tired of everyday problems, tired of a woman, wanted another younger one, men are all like that, etc.

When a man leaves the family, the woman feels confused and shocked and sincerely does not understand what happened, everything seemed to be fine. What didn't he like and why did he leave?

I do so much: I work a lot, manage to do everything around the house, raise and take care of the children. And everything goes to the family and home.

Yes, women do a lot of things, but they don’t do the main thing: they don’t respect and appreciate.

“After another conflict, my husband told me that I do not appreciate or respect him...”

How can I not appreciate and respect? - the woman wonders and begins to make plans to bring her husband back.

And it often ends up on my website; by the way, the article is the most popular. And the woman learns that a man in marriage does not need a package of household services, he needs a woman’s LOVE.

And love in a man’s understanding differs from a woman’s understanding, and is primarily contained in the word “respect.” Respect is one of the main male needs, if not the basic one.

Reproaches, comparison, dissatisfaction, inability to remain silent, the desire to defend one’s point of view, shouting, bad mood, the principle of “I myself” - all this is perceived by a man as disrespect and lack of love.

And even if he doesn't go away physical sense, he leaves the relationship: he doesn’t help, doesn’t notice, doesn’t love, no sex. There are quarrels in the house, the man is distant and cold.

IN family life Sexual relationships are not built on hormonal surges. If a woman does not respect a man, if she does not appreciate and recognize him, then she does not love him. This means that the man will have no desire. What kind of desire can a woman who doesn’t respect a man have?

- this is to give him the opportunity to feel his importance, value, to agree with his decisions because you think they are correct. You do not make comments to him because you trust him, and also understand that he is an adult and is capable of choosing for himself what is bad and what is good.

You can ask yourself simple questions:

• How does my husband feel next to me?
• Who does he feel like next to me?
• Does he feel like the main one in the family, does he feel respect?
• How often do I interrupt him? Am I listening? Am I making comments? Am I giving in?
• Do I appreciate him?
• Do I believe or doubt his male competence?

A woman often expects feats and actions from a man: I’m a woman and so should you! But at the same time, he does not respect or appreciate, and as a result, he receives nothing. As a result, she moves away even more, the gap grows, the man becomes rude and aloof.

And even if you say some words of gratitude, they will not hit the mark if you do not respect your man and do not accept him 100%. It is impossible to respect today and not respect tomorrow, to respect in the morning and argue in the evening, to prove that you are right, to make comments, to try to change him and to ignore the desire of a man to be the head of the family.

“I loved my husband very much, I only needed him. But I didn’t know how to fully accept him for who he is. At first I greatly idealized him, and then (when it turned out that he was not an ideal person), of course, I was offended and somewhat disappointed.”

A couple's relationship is a balance of give and take.“I’m a woman, and you owe me” - such principles do not work. And if you don't give a man what he needs, then you don't get anything. There is no point in demanding and insisting.

“In any union of a man and a woman, a certain economy of relationships inevitably turns on, a certain “you give me - I give you” - and violation of this unwritten regulation inevitably leads, if not to the destruction of the marriage, then certainly to the disappearance of love.” D. Sokolov-Mitrich.

And if a woman expects a man to make her happy and at the same time does not respect him, then this is generally an explosive mixture. The man will definitely run away. He won't stand it.

How often does a woman find in a man the reason for her bad mood and internal disharmony! How often does she shift responsibility for dissatisfaction with herself and life onto her partner. And at the same time she demands to make her happy. But there are things that a man cannot fix and change. And first of all, make you happy.

People often come to me with the request: I want to create an atmosphere in the house that you will want to return to. But we create the atmosphere with our mood and state.

Natural questions arise:

• What do I feel?
• How do I feel from day to day?
• What energy am I transmitting to my husband?
• Do I feel valuable?
• Am I capable of treating myself with respect?

A woman’s happiness directly depends on how quickly she learns to respect a man. But respect for a man is impossible without respect for yourself, your body, your feelings, your needs. After all, self-respect is the foundation on which respect for a partner is built.

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Tatyana Dzutseva

Problems with husbands sometimes arise out of nowhere. It seemed like there was a normal family, they lived according to the rules, without quarrels: home, work, children... And here it is on you: you packed up and left. Why? [discussion]

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This question torments many abandoned wives. Men explain everything by routine. But this sounds somehow unconvincing. But there is one pattern - the age of prodigal husbands. Most often, they part with their family and start a new one at about 30, around 40 - 45 and 50 years old.

Psychologist and sexologist Inna Chori claims that these are critical years for men. At these three ages, some of them have a strong desire for change. But if your husband is dear to you, you can prevent his departure, the psychologist is sure.

28 - 32 years

Stop liking skinny people

Irina and Evgeniy got married when they were both 23 years old. At 25, Ira gave birth to her first child, and at 28, her second child. She stayed at home with the children and didn’t go out; Zhenya worked a lot. And he made very good money. When the youngest turned one year old, Zhenya packed his things and, saying that he would support the children, went to live with his parents. He came once a week, bringing food and money. And he left again.

Eh, Irina didn’t know what the psychologist told her later at the training - at about thirty men’s erotic views can radically change. Instead of brunettes, they begin to like blondes, instead of skinny ones - plump ones. And his proposal to gain weight (lose weight), change your color, change your clothing style should be taken very seriously. Listen to wishes and agree to changes.

Exactly, he asked several times: “Ira, maybe you can grow your hair? Maybe you should change your hair color? A light one would suit you... Let's go buy you a dress...” I didn’t pay attention: short hair is more convenient, but a dress is uncomfortable when you’re walking with two kids, jeans are much more practical, Ira later recalled.

She heeded the coaching advice. The gray crew cut on her head was replaced in a few months by a still short, but already blond bob, dresses with a neckline, the right bras and moderate heels were bought. In general, it blossomed. I called recently and shared: my husband is back, everything is fine.

By the way, you will have to change at least outwardly for the rest of your life in order to deceive male polygamy.

Men, they are designed like this: I changed my dress and shoes - it’s something else, I changed my hairstyle, I switched on the playful mood - that’s it, new woman in his house,” the coach assures.

35 - 45 years

I'm still damn young!

At this age, a man re-evaluates what he has achieved.

The first signs of this condition are that a man changes his behavior, says the psychologist. - He starts to look younger, updates his wardrobe and perfume, starts listening to different music in the car. Casanova syndrome kicked in. It is now important for a man to prove that he is still very, very good in every sense! And his wife, unlike other ladies, no longer looks at him with admiration... Do not miss this call under any circumstances! Get young with him! Spend everything with him free time, don't leave alone. If you don’t want to lose your man, agree to his erotic fantasies, or even role-playing games. And keep in mind - almost no man is able to leave the family if his wife does not let him go!

Here are my friends - Misha and Lena. At the age of forty, Misha - a financier, a respectable family man and the father of two children - suddenly became interested in a work colleague, a young and cheerful young lady. And he told his wife Lena during a family dinner with cutlets: that’s it, I’m leaving, I’m tired! And he even slammed his fist on the table.

But he didn't leave. There is no second apartment, but Lena did not kick her out of the existing one. She looked at him with longing and good year I was grieving. And then suddenly I started organizing my personal life. And I got so carried away that Misha later told me:

It's like she was replaced. Laughs all the time. I used to walk around the house in a robe, and if I had to go to the store, I would wear sweatpants and sneakers. Now I'm always on parade. She likes someone...

In general, Misha is worried now. Looking for opportunities to “start over” with the new Lena. And Lena thinks whether she needs the old Misha.

What about talking?

This age is the simplest from a psychological point of view. The children have grown up and the nest is empty. It’s time to strike a balance, understand what you have achieved, because even if your career moves forward, it will be at a crawl, not like it was at thirty.

At this age, sex is no longer in the first place for men. Spiritual intimacy is more important to them. And if the wife has become family, if she has become a friend, the man most likely will not leave her, even if he is in love with a young woman. It’s scary to lose stability, domestic and psychological as well. But if kinship is not achieved, alas, the man does not see the point in such a family, explains Inna.

What if a wife finds out about cheating at this age? I saw a couple of acquaintances like this on vacation. Valya read her lover’s message while Sergei was taking a shower. It was at the beginning of summer, in Cyprus, on the day of the 25th anniversary of marriage - such a marriage that everyone seemed indestructible. I cried for a month and wore sunglasses, hiding the circles under my eyes. He hovered around like a moth: “Valyusha, maybe some water? Valyusha, maybe I should give you an umbrella, ultraviolet radiation is so harmful!”

It’s too late for me to care about youthful skin! - she said sarcastically in response.

A couple of months have passed. Valya underwent a course of psychotherapy - she was taught how to forgive her husband. The marriage seems ideal again on the surface. After all, Valya still loves Sergei. Sergei has become silky, rushes home after work, promises to take him to Cuba next spring.

In general, indeed, in all couples where the man did leave the family, there was a moment: the wife herself let go. And those wives who returned the prodigal to the family understood that if she got married, she went on the warpath. And the wealthier and more successful the husband, the tougher the war will be.

READERS' OPINIONS

This material has already collected more than 1,500 responses on our website. Here are some of them.

Tatiana:

I have a similar situation. The husband approached the first milestone. Left. He hasn't lived for a month now. He says he can't be with me. Hard. She says I have to change. At the same time, he doesn’t want to work on himself, his complaints are only against me. I also don’t like a lot of things, to which he told me - I got married, so be patient.

Georgy:

It was generally accepted that men change after marriage, there is no courtship, flowers, sweets, movies and theaters, etc. I think that the problem is often not in the man, the point is that the woman herself begins to consider all this nonsense and a stupid waste of money, oh which is what he says to his husband. The program point is completed, the box is ticked as a stamp in the passport, we move on to another point, career, children, apartment, dacha, car... And then surprise and tears, he left for someone else or he doesn’t pay attention to me at all. Don’t change yourself, remain a bride, and your husband will be the same, he will look after you and give flowers!

Simple Russian man:

To prevent a man from wanting to leave a woman, two factors must be met:

1) A man must marry her BY HIS ardent DESIRE (and not by hers).

2) A woman should not get on a man’s nerves.

And all other factors (the presence or absence of an attractive appearance, the ability or inability to run a household, the presence or absence of children, etc.) do not matter to a man and cannot deter him.

Yaroslav, 29 years old:

I approached the first line. It can be hard at times. A lot has changed, goals, views, tastes. I have a car, an apartment, good job. We live normally. I often spoil my children and wife. But my wife became cold towards me. He says that he loves me and cannot live without me, but there is less and less intimacy. It's a shame, all sorts of bad thoughts come to mind. Often depressed, fear appeared. You can't get rid of thoughts so easily. She is young and beautiful. The hostess is excellent. Of course, I value her because I love her. But without intimacy it’s hard to be married. I feel something is wrong. And what? What to do next? Pretend everything is fine? Just hang in there and see what happens? But this is a lie! And lying to yourself and your family is the last thing.

Men have recently been positioned in various women's programs as brainless pets that women must endlessly please, come up with something to keep them, interest them, etc. And what about the men themselves? Rarely do any of them fight for their woman; they believe that since she married him and has children, then she will not go anywhere.

Guest:

She lived with her husband for 30 years. Conclusions: 1. Everyone changes, everyone, believe me. 2. If you want to leave, there’s nothing you can do to stop him, but, as a rule (according to statistics), women are the first to file for divorce, and by the way, they often regret it later. 3. Why change the sewing for soap, your own is already dear, and a new one will come - a stranger, you still need to get used to it, and will he find it? common language with children (if any). 4. Who said it would be easy? Family is daily work, if you don’t learn to maneuver, not notice, forgive, endure, you will live alone, and whoever likes what, let him choose for himself.

Masha:

I wonder why it’s always the woman who has to do everything?.. I’ve been married for almost 40 years and now I don’t understand what I liked about him then? But I still love my husband, we are already like family, and I don’t understand how I could leave him! And men at 30, 40, 50, etc... leave anyway, if only there was a reason! Either I wanted to be younger, or something else didn’t suit me. When I was 30 years old, I started having virtual crushes, but it all happened before my eyes, in the same company, so I was able to stop it all! You know how, I just made all his friends fall in love with me! And he showed his love in all its glory! And he understood everything very quickly! And on my 25th wedding anniversary he said that I was the best... in every way! So know how to stand up for yourself!

Lapulya:

My dear one began to cheat on me at 33 with a young woman (even as a child - she was 23). I cried, begged him to come to his senses - but no... He deceived her, said that he had abandoned her, I, naturally, believed. And then I pulled myself together, began to take care of myself and... found myself a lover 7 years younger. The husband walks on his hind legs - no matter how you say it, they feel it.

Let's discuss!

What does a woman need to be happy? So that she has a beloved man who would reciprocate her feelings. And also family, children, spirituality and confidence in the future. In our youth, we all dream of a man who is impeccable in every way, and then we marry his complete opposite. Real life is far from your dreams and often prepares surprises for us.

As long as men and women exist, the topic of jealousy and betrayal will remain relevant. Let's figure out what pushes men to such actions, since it is the husband's infidelity that is the reason why women turn to me for individual advice.

Why do they change? Despite all the external frivolity, many men strive for a constant and reliable, kind and affectionate, loving and caring woman. They only said “they would come down from the mountains and slowly... the whole herd.” Most normal men strive for stability and reliability in their family. But punctures also happen. Why?

Each of you, first of all, is interested in why my husband is cheating, while my neighbor and friend’s husband are faithful to their wives? If my husband has not cheated on me yet, then what could be a potential reason, and how to prevent it? Is it possible to avoid adultery? How should we treat them?

Reasons for cheating

Cheating is usually caused by some unmet needs.

Sexual dissatisfaction

Due to the difference in temperament of the spouses. This also creates discord in the daily relationships of the spouses, and irritation arises on both sides. In such families, husbands often start drinking and lose interest in family matters, begin to look for a more attractive mistress and may even file for divorce.

Athletes sex

There are few of them, but they exist and are encountered by unfortunate women. Regular “victories” over representatives of the opposite sex are vital for them. They cannot be condemned, because the reason for their behavior is their nature. The life of such people takes place in bars and discos, where they can find a partner for the night. Characteristic feature These people often change partners.

Romance

There is a group of men who seek to experience additional pleasure. Spend the evening with friends, girlfriends, have fun, and if you're lucky, get something new. Looking closely at slender legs, new tights, catching the mysterious smells of skin and hair, listening to sensual conversations - this is what attracts such men.

Coincidence of circumstances

Some men cheat due to random circumstances. However, so do women. The same notorious business trip or vacation in Sochi for 3 nights. I do not recommend telling your spouse about cheating. Why tell him something that had no consequences? If you love your husband, then you should not talk about it so as not to hurt him. You cannot hide only what cannot be hidden, and what, ultimately, can harm the family. Your pregnancy is from someone else, you stopped loving your husband, but are afraid to admit it, etc. But a one-time confession can lead to unpleasant consequences: scandal, jealousy, divorce, or worse. Do you need it?

General fatigue from marriage

If a marriage is built on stereotypical relationships, fatigue sets in and you want to leave. The spouses do not see any light in their lives. Gray everyday life is not brightened up by anything. The “home – work – home” pattern does not break, and this gradually transfers to sexual relationships. Sex turns into boredom and also proceeds according to the following pattern: short foreplay - orgasm - sleep. And if you are sometimes unable to change your living conditions, place of work, profession, then change the conditions sex life you can without much difficulty.

Fanaticism

It happens that people enter into extramarital affairs out of feelings of respect, admiration, even fanaticism. For example, girls who are fans of pop artists.

Office romances

Relationship patterns can be very diverse. Some of them take on the character of obvious coercion.

Search for the eternal ideal

A man outside the family is looking for what he does not get in the house. A woman also looks for her ideal in her lover, which consists not in the length and thickness of the male organ, but in a thousand little things that are sometimes simply incomprehensible to outsiders. “There’s nothing in it!” “What did he see in her?” You hear something like this often.

Sex in friendships

Often it happens along the way. Friends of the opposite sex, often communicating with each other, begin to cross the boundaries initially established in communication between strangers. The relationship development pattern looks like this. Married couples are friends. They communicate often. After a while, someone begins to realize that they love or simply “want” another. Sometimes nothing happens, sometimes it happens after a long time. And their life is filled with new secret joys.

Treason as revenge

Women are often pushed into extramarital affairs by revenge for infidelity or bad attitude to her husband. From the moment her husband cheats, a woman has the moral right to respond in kind. And the woman is also driven by pain, from which she hopes to free herself through revenge. But, as a rule, this revenge leads women into an even greater dead end.

Emotional alienation of spouses

Often adultery arise when family relationships resemble the “Ice Palace”. In this kingdom eternal ice they never quarrel, the walls do not melt from the intensity of passions. The limits of decency are respected. No guests come to the sad palace. Sex happens only according to plan and strictly at the allotted time. An emotional wife will silently hate a restrained, unflappable husband.

Making money

There are many women (and more recently, many men) for whom extramarital sex is a way to make money. Married professional prostitutes have sex for money. There are wives who just earn extra money from this, receiving money or expensive gifts. The family does not know about additional income. Some of these women are very educated and have advanced degrees. Outwardly, these are attractive, fit, well-groomed women.

Love

Cheating caused by love can probably be justified. If we're talking about It’s about love, not about being in love. Sex in this case is, as it were, a self-evident detail in the complex mechanism of human relationships built on love.

It happens!

Real case:

One man, leaving his wife to live with his mistress, said: “Look, don’t walk around here without me... I’ll most likely be back soon.”

Be happy woman very difficult, but necessary, because they come back to such people, they are loved, serenades are sung to them and they are given the moon.

Svetlana Melnikova