Feminine energy. Vedic recommendations for women Vedas female strength and energy
According to Vedic knowledge, any person, be it a man or a woman, has 7 main energy centers (many call them chakras, which means “wheel” in ancient Indian). And the energy in these centers circulates in a special way. Some chakras are active in men, and some in women.
Thus, ideally, a man and a woman should complement each other energetically, as a plus and a minus: a passive chakra for a woman and an active chakra for a man and vice versa.
It is the activity and passivity of those or other chakras in opposite sexes that determines the destiny of a MAN and a WOMAN predestined by God and the distribution of energy between them.
To begin with, let's get acquainted with the 3 chakras responsible for security, pleasure and finance.
1. Muladhara
This is the lowest energy center responsible for protection, safety, survival and preservation of offspring. For the representatives of the stronger sex, this chakra is active, that is, a man must ensure the safety and protection of a woman. And a woman with her passive muladhara should learn to accept the help of a man.
As planned by God, a man takes care of a woman and their offspring. But often, in modern world, female role becomes more active and she takes care of herself.
If a woman herself begins to protect herself and her offspring, then her man's muladhara becomes passive, and her own becomes active. And it will be very difficult to change this situation in the future. In this case, it turns out the other way around - the fair sex gives, and the stronger sex receives.
Therefore, if you have a husband, and you are going to take care of yourself, then be sure that there will soon be no trace of your man's masculinity, as well as of your femininity. Just let the man do his part, no matter how difficult it may seem for you.
2. Swadhisthana
The second energy center is responsible for sensuality, desires and pleasure. Here the situation is opposite: the woman gives (her chakra is active), and the man takes.
From the point of view of Vedic psychology, a woman is one who gives pleasure. That is, she must create the most comfortable environment for her man in life. This is cooking delicious food, and putting things in order in the house, and sexual pleasures.
That is, the function of a woman in this regard is to form such a world in which her husband would constantly like to return, in which he would be comfortable, in which he would receive the satisfaction of all (to a reasonable extent!) His basic desires.
Consider what happens in most married couples. For example, how reluctantly a woman performs her marital duty, referring to the fact that her head hurts or she is tired. In this case, the man does not get proper pleasure, and the svadhisthana functions incorrectly for both.
3. Manipura
Or the money chakra, is responsible for money, success in life and achievements. It is active among the representatives of the stronger sex, that is, the man gives, and the woman takes. But modern women in connection with the growth of progress and an active life position in society, a problem arises with this: they cannot fully trust a man in a money matter.
Often this happens when a woman herself earned well before marriage, and now it is inconvenient for her to ask her husband for money for any purchase. Another option - a woman is not confident in herself and ask financial assistance just can't.
As a result, a conflict arises: a woman refuses money, and, accordingly, interrupts the flow of financial energy from a man, and he either earns little or finds another woman (as an option, a lover who accepts gifts with pleasure and stimulates him with her desires for even more earnings). An outcome is also possible when a man begins to live at the expense of a woman and becomes a gigolo.
It must be remembered that men, for the most part, need a limited number of things, and a woman, with her needs and desires, inspires him to succeed and achieve. Therefore, the same man with one woman can be financially insolvent, and with another (who knows how to inspire) - reaches significant heights in his career and becomes very wealthy.
In addition, it is possible that for a woman the meaning of life is making money, then her once successful husband is losing ground and begins to receive monetary energy from her. As a result, the woman's manipura becomes active, and the man becomes passive, and not vice versa. Then the only way for a man is the way of a housewife or a henpecked man.
4. Anahata
The energy center is responsible for such sensual manifestations as love and sympathy. The female anahata is considered to be giving, and the male - receiving.
It is very important for a woman to show love and learn to give it to a man. Although in our society it is believed that he should court for a long time and romantically. But, as a rule, men who "line" in front of women in order to win them do not receive a response.
A woman very soon becomes uninteresting: it seems that there is so much attention and compliments, but her heart does not lie. But that's not the point. It's just that a man takes on what a woman should do: his heart chakra becomes a giver.
So it's our - feminine - to give sensual manifestations of love to your men, pamper them, make surprises and gifts. You ask, how is it that he will never give me anything? He will give, but he will do it with another chakra: it can be gifts, money (active third chakra) or ensuring your safety (active first chakra).
Therefore, incredible romance and the fulfillment of all kinds of female whims are by no means masculine, as is commonly believed now. And our women's duty-responsibility is to love and give pleasure.
5. Vishuddha
The fifth chakra of self-expression and realization in life. She is active in men, and women accept her.
For males, self-realization and success in life, especially its financial component, are very important. A woman, mainly, must find herself in the family sphere, everything that goes beyond it is secondary. Moreover, if a woman truly loves a man (that is, she has realized herself through the fourth chakra), then such a man will succeed not only in making money, but will also leave a certain contribution to the development of society, and even in history!
Therefore, draw conclusions: having learned to give love, a woman manifested through the fourth chakra elevates her man so that he changes and improves the world. Only the energy of female love is able to raise the energy in a man to the fifth energy center.
It is also important that your husband introduces you to his friends, their families, and sort of introduces you into his social circle. Vishuddha is also responsible for this as the center of communication.
6. Ajna
The sixth energy center is responsible for clairvoyance. Let's remember the well-known female intuition, why don't you have clairvoyance? It is this sixth sense that can help a man avoid danger, conclude profitable contracts or stop communicating with unnecessary people. Women's intuition is a man's main assistant. Thus, by nature, women have developed clairvoyance, which means that the active sixth chakra and the woman gives back!
In addition, a realized man as an earner, the head of the family and a social activist very easily accepts the advice of his wife, which helps him achieve greater success! The manifested sixth chakra in a woman is able to protect and secure her beloved man!
7. Sahasrara
And the last - seventh chakra or energy center provide all people - both men and women - a connection with God. Having given us gender, here on Earth, God has determined for each of us his destiny: for women - to be receiving on the first and third chakras, and giving - on the second and fourth.
A woman is associated with an ideal, an angel. Listening to Vedic lectures and re-reading The Charm of the Feminine, we understand that this is exactly what a woman looks like, and there is a clear sense of correctness, even if this does not happen to us.
However, should a woman always be white and fluffy?
A woman creates many problems for herself and her loved ones, denying another, dark part of the female essence.
According to the Indian Vedas, the energy of a woman consists of three elements that bear the names of the Goddesses inherent in the mythology of various cultures and countries. The goddess of prosperity is Lakshmi, the goddess of knowledge is Saraswati and the goddess of destruction is Durga.
Recently, creativity and knowledge have been strongly promoted, thereby building a cult of Saraswati energy.
The energy of Lakshmi is positioned in the family, love and fidelity, the support of the spouse and the well-being of the family.
However, the energy of Durga's destruction is rarely remembered by us.
Many women develop according to the “good girl” scenario, we are used to earning the love and respect of others and our relatives. Almost every woman tries to suppress the energy of destruction in herself, not suspecting that this particular energy is primordially feminine.
She is not given a way out, confusing with a man's. It is assumed that the energy of destruction is bad, unacceptable. But this assumption is wrong. Therefore, it is very important to know about the principle of this energy and its benefits.
Whose energy is it: male or female?
The very first thing we try to do is determine the gender of Durga's energy. It is mistakenly believed that she is male, while in fact she is female. And you can determine this by the direction vector. Masculine energy lies in struggle and competition, leadership and conquest.
The masculine energy always goes out, on the world and people. Only by protecting his loved ones, a man is capable of self-sacrifice and exploits.
The female energy of Durga is the energy of self-preservation and self-protection. It is activated in emergency situations and is always directed only inward. With the help of this energy, a woman protects her own - children, family, loved ones. She is very fast and accurate, because she protects her own and herself as well.
Durga energy - good or bad?
Often people evaluate their behavior and the situation around them on a good-bad scale. The same assessment is made with respect to energy. Many of us believe that being right and good means being loved and needed. In this case, it is important to understand how much the energy of Durga is in demand and in what situations it is applicable.
Energy becomes saving in cases when children are in danger. For example, a mother, in order to protect her child from the influences of the outside world, is capable of doing incredible things.
A good example is the time of the Great Patriotic War and the blockade of Leningrad: in a difficult and almost hopeless situation, mothers resolutely and by any means saved their children.
Any energy is a gift from God. Everything that is given to us, we need to be able to use it, it is given not just like that, but for the sole purpose of using the gift if necessary.
Therefore, the question - is this destructive energy really needed in ordinary life - you can find the answer.
The energy of Durga becomes a life jacket, which is thrown out of the boat of Life to a person who is drowning in a difficult situation. This is a secret room, the key to which is lost during peacetime and is in an emergency.
What happens to a woman who ignores her Durga energy
- she doesn't know what she wants
Part of a woman is her desires, and the ability to desire something is the basis of the survival of any woman. That is why having desires is the energy of self-preservation.
- inability to inspire your man
Male progress depends on female desires, and how challenging they are. If it is difficult and a woman thinks only about how to pay bills and simply survive, a man will not dare to do anything global. It is necessary to set goals that will be much higher than reality.
Only in this way can you get everything you need "along the way." A woman who does not use the energy of Durga's destruction cannot ask her husband to buy a new dress, earrings or a tour abroad, she is ashamed and uncomfortable, but this is necessary for male progress.
- inability to raise a spouse
A woman who does not use the energy of Durga often breaks down without completing the task, without raising her husband for any unacceptable action. Lack of understanding of how important this process is, and firmness make a woman take actions that further destroy the basis of her self-preservation. So she goes to talk, caresses and, feeling sorry, forgets about energy.
- has no opinion
Often a woman ignores energy, choosing what she herself does not dream of. She studies for a profession that her parents like - but not for her, marries the one who called, and not the one she likes, makes friends with people with whom she should be friends, but not with those with whom it is pleasant.
- she allows herself to be treated inappropriately
If a woman allows cases of beatings and humiliation, she makes a huge mistake - close person shows his weaknesses and vices, this mistake will be made all the time, and subsequently you will have to pay for it.
- can't say "no"
When a woman does not have the strength to refuse, she does not have time and energy for herself. After all, all the energy, all the time is spent on fulfilling other people's requests. Everyone uses the fail-safe.
Recently, there have been especially frequent cases when a woman goes for a sexual relationship only because of the fear that she will be abandoned. And this happens even with the realization that it is only being used and nothing serious will come of it in the future.
In addition, by giving consent to such a relationship, they cause great harm to men who will later have to pay for such behavior.
- no self-esteem
If you can't answer, you don't feel worthy.
- can't set boundaries of personal space
Everyone can walk through her soul, but she has nothing to defend herself with. Therefore, everyone can dictate to her how to live.
Here's one story for you. The Vedic scriptures speak of one queen. Her husband went to fight, but on the battlefield he got cold feet and fled to the palace to save his life. However, the queen did not even open the gate, saying that she did not recognize her husband and king in it. “My husband is brave and bold. He will not leave the battlefield: either he will win or he will die in battle. Faced with a choice, the king returned to the battlefield and won, even with strong fear and a large preponderance of forces towards the enemy. The energy of Durga helped the queen to show steadfastness and direct her husband on the right path.
Of course, it can be said that the queen acted very cruelly by not accepting her husband and not hiding him from enemies. However, in fact, she chose the right path, because she thought not only about herself and her husband, who would simply lose his dignity in the future, but also about the people of the kingdom. The queen was guided only by love for her husband and the desire to help and guide him. Love, not cruelty, initiated the manifestation of Durga's energy.
How to use the energy of Durga
How to use the energy of Durga is the most difficult question. There are two sides here. On the one hand, there is energy and it must be used. On the other hand, the energy use manual is very narrow, incomplete and does not cover all positions. Failure to use the energy of destruction is fraught with big problems. If something accumulates for a long time, then it breaks out with destructive force. Energy can burst inside a person and express itself in illnesses and various personal problems, or it can break out and affect loved ones.
But you should not think that this energy is the main one, and you should use it everywhere. You should not use energy for rudeness, your own recognition and being right, because this already characterizes feminism and emancipation.
Goddess Durga
There are several rules, following which you can direct the energy of Durga in the right direction.
1. The energy of Durga is only one of the feminine energies.
There are three energies - the energy of love and care (Lakshmi), the energy of creativity (Saraswati) and the energy of destruction (Durga). All three energies must exist in balance, and for this it is necessary to fulfill several conditions:
Taking care of your body, beauty and yourself in general;
Caring for loved ones, cooking with love;
Taking care of the comfort and beauty of your home - to feed the energy of Lakshmi;
Art activities;
Raising loved ones with love and care;
The ability to say "No" to what does not suit you, and to those with whom you do not go along the way;
Understand the soul and the house - use the energy of destruction of Durga.
2. Do not suppress the energy in yourself
If you don't like something, say so. It is not recommended to remain silent about what does not suit you and outrages, to hide your indignation at what is happening behind a smile and politeness. As a result, all the accumulated energy of destruction will break out - you simply will not be able to control yourself.
Often the explosion does not occur at work or in a circle strangers, and among the closest and dearest - in the family, and the spouse and children suffer from this first of all.
However, one should not be rude at every opportunity, hiding behind the need to release the energy of Durga. The best expression of your position, your protest will be the presence of an inner core, the ability to say “No”.
3. Use of energy only for good purposes
Energy should only be used with good intentions. Saving a child, one's own soul, one's husband - from an addiction or leaving the family. Saving your family is the most peaceful use of energy.
4.Daily and peaceful application of energy in daily life
Direct energy to cleaning the house, clearing debris and putting things in order - both in life and within yourself. Take care of your family, heal them.
Of course, at first, the use of the energy of destruction may seem very unusual, unusual, and even impossible. This is especially true for women who are used to being "good girls". Not only is it difficult to say “no” to someone, but simply not to make the bed in the morning. But this is only the first time, because with experience comes a complete understanding of the facets - where it is worth using the energy of Durga, and where not.
Use all aspects of your Femininity and be happy and harmonious with yourself!
Yes, Gurdjieff did say that a woman cannot reach except through a man – and he is right. He is right because the feminine energy is different from the masculine energy.
It's like if someone says that only a woman can give birth to a child. A man cannot give birth to a child – he can only give birth to a child through a woman. The physical structure of a woman contains a womb, the physical structure of a man is devoid of a womb – he can only have a child through a woman. And the same thing happens in reverse in spiritual birth: a woman can only achieve enlightenment through a man. Their spiritual energy is as different as their physical part. Why? Why is it so?
And remember, it's not a question of equality or inequality - it's a question of difference. Women are not inferior to men because they cannot reach directly, a man is not inferior to women because he cannot directly give birth to a child. They are different. It's not a question of equality or inequality, it's not a question of evaluation. They are just different, that's a fact.
Why is it difficult for a woman to achieve enlightenment directly? And why is it possible for a man to achieve enlightenment directly?
There are two paths, only two, in fact only two, that lead to enlightenment. One is meditation and the other is love. They can be called Gyana Yoga and Bhakti Yoga - the path of wisdom and the path of devotion. There are only two main routes.
Love needs another; Meditation can be done alone. A man can reach through meditation -- so he can reach directly. He may be alone. Deep down he is alone. Loneliness naturally comes to a man. It is difficult for a woman to be alone, very difficult, almost impossible. Her whole being impels her to love, and love needs another. How can you love if there is no other? You can meditate if there is no other - it is not a problem.
The woman, the feminine energy reaches the meditative state through love, and the masculine energy reaches love through meditation. Buddha becomes a great loving force - but through meditation.
When the Buddha returned to his palace, his wife was very angry, naturally, because he had not shown himself for twelve years. One night he just disappeared without even saying anything to her. When she slept, he just ran away like a coward.
Buddha's wife, Yasodhara, would let him go. She was a brave woman. If the Buddha had asked, she would have let him go, there was no problem, but the Buddha had not asked. He was afraid that something would go wrong, she might start crying and sobbing or something. But the fear was not because of her—the fear was deep within him. He was afraid that it would be difficult for him to leave Yasodhara weeping and weeping. Fear is always for yourself. It would have been very cruel, and it couldn't have been so cruel - it was better to run away while his wife slept. So he escaped and twelve years later he returned.
Yasodhara asked many questions. Specifically, she asked, "Tell me, what did you achieve there, could you achieve it here by living with me? Now that you have achieved, you can tell me."
It is said that the Buddha remained silent. But I will answer: Buddha could not have attained, because a passionately in love man... and he loved Yasodhara very much. It was a very intimate relationship. If there was no loving relationship with Yasodhara, if she were just a Hindu wife, without love, then Buddha could have attained even while living with her. Then there really is no problem. The other is on the periphery, you are not connected. If you are not connected, there is no other – he is only physically present, on the border.
But Buddha was passionately in love. And it is difficult for a man to achieve meditation when he is in love – that is the problem. It is very difficult, because if he is in love, whenever he sits in silence, the other will arise in the mind, his whole being will start revolving around the other. It was fear - so Buddha ran away.
Nobody talked about it before, but Buddha ran away from this house, from his wife, from the child, because he really loved. And if you love someone, when you are busy you can forget him, but when you are not busy the other is immediately remembered. And then there is no entrance for the divine.
If you are busy working in a shop, or... Buddha was on the throne and looked after the affairs of the kingdom, then everything was fine - he could forget Yasodhara. But when he was not busy, there was Yasodhara - Yasodhara filled the passage and the divine could not enter.
Man cannot reach the divine through love. All his energy is completely different from female energy. First he has to achieve meditation - then love will happen to him. Then there is no problem. First he must reach the divine, then the beloved will also become divine.
After twelve years, the Buddha returned. Now there is no problem – now there is God in Yasodhara. Before there was too much Yasodhara and it was difficult to find God. Now God is completely there, there is no room left for Yasodhara.
The exact opposite happens to women. She cannot meditate because her whole being demands something else. She can't be alone. When she is alone, she is unhappy. And if you say that being alone is bliss, being alone is ecstasy, a woman cannot understand it. And this emphasis on being alone exists all over the world because of so many seekers - men - Buddha, Mahavir, Jesus, Mohammed. They all walked alone, and they only reached alone. They created the milieu.
But a woman, when she is alone, feels suffering. If there is a lover, even in her mind, she is happy. If someone loves, if someone is loved - if love exists around a woman, it feeds her. This is nutrition, this is subtle food. When a woman feels that there is no love, she simply starves, suffocates, her whole being shrinks. So, a woman cannot think that loneliness can be blissful.
This feminine energy has created a path of love and devotion. Even a divine lover will do - no need to look for a physical lover. Krishna will suit Mira, that is not a problem - because there is another for Mira. He may not be here. Krishna can only be a myth, but for Mira he exists, the other exists - and Mira is happy. She can dance, she can sing, and she is satisfied.
Only a thought, only an idea, only a feeling that the other exists and is love - and the woman feels satisfaction. She is happy and alive. Only with such love will she come to the point where the lover and the beloved become one. Then meditation happens:
For the feminine energy, meditation happens only in the deepest love union. Then she can be alone – then it is not Mira or Radha or Teresa – they have all reached through the beloved – Krishna, Jesus.
I feel that when a male seeker comes to me, he is interested in meditation, and when a female seeker comes to me, she is interested in love. She might be interested in meditation if I say love will happen through it. But her deep passion is love. Love is God for a woman.
This difference has to be understood, deeply understood, because everything depends on it – and Gurdjieff is right. The feminine energy will love, and through love, a meditative state, samadhi, will blossom. Satori will come, but deeply rooted will be love, and satori will be a flower. For male energy, satori will be in the roots, samadhi will be in the roots, meditation will be in the roots - and then love will blossom. But love will blossom.
And when female seekers come to me, the following always happens: they will feel more love, but then the physical partner will satisfy them less, because the physical partner can only satisfy the periphery, he cannot satisfy the center.
So in ancient countries like India we never destroyed love - we allowed arranged marriages. Because if love is allowed, sooner or later the physical partner will stop satisfying, and then frustration will arise.
Now the whole West is in turmoil. Now there can be no satisfaction at all. Despite the fact that love is allowed, an ordinary man cannot satisfy it. He can satisfy sex, he can satisfy the superficial, but he cannot satisfy the deep, the depth. Once the depth works, once you are disturbed by the deep, only God can satisfy, no one else.
So, when female seekers come to me, their depth is shaken. They begin to feel a new awakening, a sunrise new love. But now their husbands or their friends, their partners will be unable to satisfy it. Now it can only be satisfied by a much higher quality of existence. It goes to this.
Or your friend, your husband has to become more meditative, to create higher qualities of life – only then can he satisfy. Otherwise, the relationship will be broken, the bridge cannot be restored. You will have to look for a new friend. Or if it is impossible to find a new friend - as Mira was - hard to find, then you have to love the divine. Then forget the physical part - now it is not for you.
The same thing happens with male seekers, but in a different way. When they come to me, they become more meditative. As they become more meditative, the bridge to their old partners collapses, becomes shaky. Now their girlfriend or their wife will have to grow up, otherwise the relationship is broke, it can no longer be maintained.
Remember that all your relationships, your so-called relationships, are adjustments. If one person changes, the adjustment is broken - for better or for worse, it doesn't matter. People come to me and say: "If meditation brings higher qualities, then why are relationships broken?" It's not a question. The relationship was an accommodation between two people as they were. Now one has changed, the other has to grow with him, otherwise there will be disturbance, everything will become false.
When a man is here, he becomes more meditative. The more meditative he is, the more he wants to be alone. The wife, the beloved will be concerned about this. If she does not understand, she will start to worry: this man wants to be more alone. If she understands, then there is no problem: however, this understanding can only come to her if her love grows. If she feels more loving, then she will guard his loneliness. She will try to understand that this is not a hindrance - now this will be her love.
And if this man feels ... if the Buddha feels that Yasodhara is protecting, guarding, watching, taking care that his meditation is not disturbed, to help his silence, then there is no need to run away from such Yasodhara. But this only happens if Yasodhara's love grows.
As the meditation of a man grows, the love of a woman must also grow. Only then can they keep pace, and the highest harmony will arise, and this will continue higher and higher. And a moment comes when the man is completely in meditation and the woman is completely in love – only then is the meeting made. only then is a real, supreme orgasm between two people. Not physical, not sexual - total! Two existences merged into each other, dissolved. Then the lover becomes the door, the beloved becomes the door, and they both reach the same.
So, whoever comes to me, he must be clearly aware that it is dangerous to be around me. Your old adjustments will be shaken - and I can't help it. And I'm not here to help you adjust; it's up to you.
I can help you grow - grow in meditation, grow in love. To me, both words mean the same thing because they lead to the same end.
The weaknesses of women are actually not a whim at all, but precisely what gives a woman true strength and inexplicable magnetism.
According to Vedam, which arose about 5 thousand years ago, the energy of a woman is the basis of the World. Because it is the creative female "I" that gives the man the forces that direct him to exploits and accomplishments.
Everyone has periods of energy decline.
Veda offer amazing ways to increase the Power of a Woman.
So, the list of things that give us strength!
1. Massage. According to the Vedas female body just needs touch. Our body needs to move, knead. Otherwise, the energy stagnates. Presses on the body from the inside. And it causes illness.
2. Visiting a hairdresser - pretty haircut It's not just a way to cheer yourself up. Hair for a woman and for a woman is a reflection of her thoughts. That is why in India, where Vedic knowledge is very popular, such importance is attached to the female hairstyle.
3. Manicure - beautiful hands want to kiss! That's what men say. This item was tested by myself and several of my friends. After a manicure with red lacquer, the attention of husbands, loved ones and just men has increased!
4. Communication with other women - the mutual exchange of energy greatly strengthens women. A man needs silence to realize himself. A woman understands her feelings better in communication with her friends.
5. Long conversations and conversations - on the same phone - are not a waste of time. This is the burst of energy that a woman needs. If words accumulate in a woman, then she will surely splash them out on a man. And this is not the best way.
6. Walking - a woman just needs to go outside at least once a day. Despite the fact that we are the guardians of the hearth, the connection with nature is very important!
7. Music - listen to music every day. Meditative, classical. Make it a habit to turn on music, for example, over a cup of tea.
8. Refuse difficult topics for reflection and negotiations - yes, it is useful for a woman to be frivolous and think about trifles. The role of the "girl" gives invincible youth. This point is especially important for a business woman. Try to leave things at work and not bring them into the house.
9. Bath with rose petals, oils - this is not pampering, but a necessity! Having given such a small amount to your body, to yourself, you will be surprised at your own radiance and excellent mood.
10. Meditation - like any relaxing practice, raises the level of female power. Meditate at least once a day before bed. Meditation in nature is very helpful.
11. Take singing lessons - singing clears the throat chakra. And we no longer want to swear, reproach men. In Sparta in ancient times, one of the compliments for a woman was the words "she is like a song."
12. Shopping - Shopping is not just a way to look for new things. Learn to shop even if you don't have money. Try on things. Enjoy your beauty. And remember - the female energy is so strong that sometimes it is enough to see, touch a thing so that it soon migrates to your wardrobe. And the money for it is, as it were, out of nowhere.
13. Visiting a psychologist - but always a woman. A wise, experienced woman can help you see things differently. And understand her. Wisdom is passed down from older women. For the same reason, it is useful to communicate with your own grandmother, great-grandmother.
14. Dancing - in any form - is a great thing to enhance female power and sexuality. Arabic dances, Latin are especially good.
16. Regular gatherings with girlfriends - getting out together in a public place, you create a strong background of female Power. And exchange with each other the missing qualities.
17. Caring for flowers - a small garden at home and digging in the garden - this is an additional way to stock up on feminine energy. Flowering, growth - it's all a reflection of feminine energy.
18. Talking to married friends is very important for those who want to get married. The energy of the family in the Vedas is considered the most beneficial and valuable. Therefore, do not rush to abandon the party, where there will be only married couples. After such a meeting, you will accumulate energy that will more likely attract a man to you than after visiting a nightclub where there are many single women.
19. Help - to help someone or ask for help. All this strengthens the woman. Learn to let go of the “I am myself” principle. Because this is a typical principle for a man.
20. Visiting a bookstore is amazing, but walking among books is very inspiring for a woman. Try to devote at least a couple of hours a week to this activity. Knowledge woman. And books are a source of knowledge.
21. Ask for help from a man - any manifestation of care makes us more feminine. Do an experiment and ask a stranger to help you carry your bag. The mood will rise 100%!
22. Reading - read a good book that you bought a long time ago and put on the shelf. It is especially useful to read stories about people's lives. By studying fate, you understand yourself better.
23. Sharing household responsibilities with someone - thinking that without you everything will “grow with mold” is a way to reduce your feminine energy. Feel free to trust some things to loved ones. Give yourself the free time!
24. Cooking - everything related to cooking significantly raises the level of female energy. A hostess who knows how to feed and drink. If you don't know how to cook, learn. You know how - improve your skills. Master the cuisine of some country.
25. A house is not just an apartment in which we live. A woman has a powerful energy connection with the house. That is why we are so annoyed by a creaky door or a leaking faucet. For a woman, these are not just shortcomings. Feminine energy flows through such holes. But just in such trifles, sometimes it is important not to disturb a man. Why?
A man thinks big: “When all the tiles in the bathroom become unusable, then we’ll make a new one. Why grease the walls ten times!” Sometimes it's easier to hire someone to fix minor bugs. Just be sure to tell your husband that you did it, realizing that he is very busy. And not because his hands are growing out of the wrong place. Male self-esteem is very vulnerable.
26. Planning - any incompleteness and doubts destroy a woman. A clear plan is a way to conserve your energy. Learn to plan for the little things, then move on to planning for several months and even years of your life. What will you do tomorrow evening?
27. Gala dinner - or dinner with candles, a beautiful tablecloth and gourmet dishes. It turns out that we do all this even more for ourselves, although we want to raise the tone of our beloved. Bring those magical moments to life. Please yourself and loved ones.
28. Teaching, raising children - by communicating with children, a woman can raise her energy level. For this reason, sometimes you should not refuse to play with children. And it is even better to teach children what you can: drawing, singing, dancing.
30. Have a picnic in nature - always in the company of friends. Here several things come together that raise the level of female energy: bonding, being in nature, cooking.
31. Makeup - and personal care - is not a way to please a man, but to please yourself.
Therefore, while at home, it is important to do hair, wear clothes and look good.
32. Giving yourself flowers is one of the most easy way increase energy levels. Flowers not only decorate a woman, but also instantly remove the negative, taking it on themselves. Therefore, if you are sad, do not rush to cry into the pillow. Buy a bouquet of flowers.
33. Wearing skirts, dresses - such clothes restore the connection with the energy of the family through the female line. There is a rule - do not wear trousers on the first 7 (!) dates. In the event that you want to really charm a man. In addition, it has been found that the constant wearing of trousers negatively affects the female organs.
34. Young Moms Club - if you have Small child, be sure to communicate with the same mothers. This is not only an exchange of experience, but also an exchange of energy. Motherhood is represented by the Moon. And lunar energy is female energy.
35. Caring for children - do not refuse to help a married friend play with a child. Any manifestation of care for a woman is the path to Strength. The main thing is not to consider your man as a child.
36. Feed the needy - mercy is a quality that enhances lunar energy. It is not necessary to help everyone. Surely there is a person whom you can easily please with a pleasant trifle. Buy fruit for a lonely neighbor. Do not refuse a cup of tea to a guest who has run to you.
37. Communication - it is difficult for a woman to do without contact with other people. We draw energy from conversations. It is only important to ensure that the information you transmit is not gossip and other negativity.
38. Romantic movie - arrange with a friend and watch a melodrama together. Any film about love is a useful pastime for a woman. But it is better to do it in the company of other women.
39. Learning a new culture - contributes to the expansion of the worldview and allows a woman not to become isolated in the inner world. Feminine energy tends to expand. No need to narrow it artificially.
40. Water sources - rest on the river, lake, by the sea - this is a great way to raise your energy level. Water is the basis of a woman's sexuality and her ability to be harmonious, adaptable to circumstances, or vice versa stormy.
In the ancient Greek temples of Aphrodite, young priestesses were taught to swim and communicate with the water element. (More about all the joint secrets of Woman and Water in the issue "Favorite: Energy of Water")
41. Exercise stress- if you feel a breakdown, start mastering the new kind sports. It can be not only a new kind of fitness, but also just a morning run. Dancing is very helpful! great way recover if you are exhausted after breaking up with a partner.
42. Outfits - Nice dress This is one way to raise your energy levels. By the way, in order to dress up, you don’t have to go somewhere. wear nice clothes in a home environment.
43. Dismantle the rubble - old things, garbage and trash weaken the energy of a woman. If a difficult period has come in life, it's time to sort out the rubble.
44. healthy image life - needless to say, bad habits have a negative impact on female energy and beauty. bad habit maybe not only smoking, but also the habit of going to bed late, slandering or being lazy.
45. Poetry - reading poetry helps to reveal the romantic side of your "I". Feel free to write your own poetry. The energy splashed out on paper will save you from worries. A beautiful syllable teaches you to speak beautifully and think correctly.
46. Feeding birds, animals is a very easy way to raise your energy level. Build a bird feeder under a window. Get the canaries. This bird helps a happy marriage.
47. Visit a museum or an exhibition - everything beautiful makes a woman more beautiful.
48. Communication with the Teacher - go to a lecture by your favorite author, attend a training. Books provide knowledge. This is undeniable. But when we meet the Teacher, we are recharged with energy from a person.
49. Keep a diary - daily write down your thoughts, desires, goals. You can paste pictures into the diary or draw yourself. Your feelings matter! Therefore, it is important to write them down. Accumulating the energy of emotions in herself, a woman will then be forced to throw it out on a man. Which in itself is not very good. In addition, writing down thoughts contributes to their analysis.
50. Make an album of your beautiful photos - paste your most best photos. And don't be afraid to admire yourself. Remember that you are always beautiful!
51. Decide on your desires - formulate desires for yourself, what you really want, especially in a relationship. Focus on "I want" and forget about "I can". I can is the prerogative of the Man.
The man says: I can win her, I can take her as a wife (or I can't). When a woman begins to think a lot in the “I can” style, she becomes a “man”. Compare: I want to look good. I want to please him. I want to get married. And - I can look good, he can like me, I can get married.
52. Affectionate speech - learn to communicate without aggression and pressure. Feminine energy blossoms from a couple of gentle words spoken by you. Scolding, obscene words reduce female energy to nothing.
53. Obedience - arguments, competitions and other aspects of active behavior reduce energy levels. Try to be gentle and diplomatic. For this reason, the conquest of a man is very debilitating for a woman. And a man does not want a woman who is so proactive towards him. Her behavior reminds him of a man.
54. Selectivity in sexual relations - if a woman has several sex partners, she is doomed to devastation. Have sex only with the person you love. Be faithful to your husband. Try to postpone the first sex after meeting. In order to interest a man, you need a lot of energy. Do not lose it ahead of time in sex.
55. Cleanliness - keep your home, your body and your mind clean. Get home early. Do not accumulate negative memories of the past. The easiest way to boost your energy is to get in the shower. Purity will bring Strength.
56. FEEDING YOURSELF WITH LOVE is one of the most important aspects. If a woman has not filled her heart and soul with love, she is energetically weak. And nothing can give a man. Worse than that, she will begin to vampire energy from him. Hence - the decline of men, financial collapse, illness. Use any technique to fill your well with love. A woman is a giver. It must be FULL of love.
57. Arts and crafts - knitting, embroidery, modeling ... - everything that you can do with your own hands raises the level of your feminine energy.
58. Compliment - yourself and other women. kind word makes us stronger. If it's hard for you to say something good about other women, solve this issue. Rejection of women can give difficulties in relations with the mother, mother-in-law, daughter.
59. Express love - in any form, at any time. Hug, kiss your loved ones. Speak words of love to the world, to people, to your things. The sun, the spring breeze, the rain, and even your sadness. Because she is your teacher. Any rejection and struggle devastates a woman.
60. Composing bouquets - working with flowers gives a charge of new strength. Charge of renewal and flowering.
61. Proper nutrition– use products that have undergone less processing and are closer to nature. Remember what strength an apple you picked in the garden gives? And some hamburger. Feelings are very different.
62. Caress - gentle touches help a woman understand herself. And to know. Caress your body. Even if you do not have a man, do not deny yourself tenderness. Start every morning and end the day in bed with gentle touches to your face, body, legs. Kiss your hands yourself - and others will idolize them.
63. Being alone with yourself - do not be afraid of those moments when you are left all alone. Don't get married just because you're lonely. Use this time to take care of yourself. Nature has a monthly period when a woman should think only about herself. This is the period of menstruation.
64. Soft toy- do not scold yourself for the fact that you are still sleeping in an embrace with a teddy bear. It is harmful for a woman to sleep alone. And the toy gives a feeling of warmth. Buy yourself a toy if you feel a lack of love and attention.
65. Learn to work with the energy of the Moon - stand outside in the moonlight, charge the water with moon rays. And then add it to the bath. Turn to the Moon for help in women's ailments. To do this, you need to imagine in meditation how you bathe in the moonlight. You and the moon are one
(More about interaction with the Moon is described in the second lesson of the Course of the Goddess)
66. Send someone a postcard - for any reason. Having shown a sign of attention to someone, you will be filled yourself. Remember: a woman is a giver. Giving - is filled.
67. Charity is pure expression of female energy. If you can help someone in some way, do it.
68. Aromas - You should always radiate an aura of pleasant aroma. The woman is a flower. Buying new perfumes and choosing a fragrance enhances feminine energy.
69. Dignity - be confident in your uniqueness. According to the Vedas, a Woman is the most beautiful thing that the Creator could create. You are beautiful! You are charming! You are sexy! You are a woman!
When a flower is loved, it is watered. That is, they nourish life and give energy.
When a woman is loved, she is taken care of. She is not a flower, but without love may also fade.
And if outward love is not enough, look for love in yourself.
This is the most rewarding job. Also, increase your energy. It will give you strength and a feeling of fulfillment inside.
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In young years, a woman easily becomes the object of attention of the opposite sex. Youth itself is beauty.
But with age, they attract with energy. Here lies the answer to the question “What did he find in her?” When you meet an unequal couple, where the advantage in appearance is clearly on the side of the man.
An internally free woman will be happy, she will find a resource and a way out of any difficult circumstances. Internally unfree will suffer even in a favorable situation.
Therefore, it is not necessary to wait for a good day when the Universe is with you at the same time and gives strength for the current day.
You can water the so-called flower of energy yourself, filling with true femininity and self-love.
How to increase female energy - 14 rules
1. Sleep 8 hours and go to bed before 24.00
Train your body to take time to rest. The night is made for love or for sleeping.
Find motivating quotes, reading which you will feel the beauty of getting up in the morning. Ritual coffee or tea, preferably a bite with a view from the window, communication with yourself, unhurried planning of the day.
And most importantly - silence.
And also self-pride.
Believe me, space will quickly respond to these changes. And the most common saying on this topic, “He who gets up early, God gives to him,” will also work in your life.
2. Use spiritual readings, gratitude, prayer
It doesn't matter what your faith is. The main condition is sincerity.
When your brain censor has not yet fully woken up, say words important for the heart, communicate with your guardian angel. AND give thanks.
At the beginning, at least for the seven wonders of the world that are constantly with you - you can see, hear, breathe, walk, and also feel, love and smile.
3. Take time to meditate
Especially after crowded places, it is useful to come home, take a contrast shower and be alone in silence.
Five minutes is better than nothing.
This may be the study of some chakra associated with the current day. Or just a trip to the colorful world of your dreams.
In the modern world, meditation has ceased to be sacred (hidden) knowledge, and has become available to each of us. After all, these are not just abstract metaphysical practices, but a very useful and valuable tool for improving everyday life.
4. Be filled with joy and positive emotions
You can develop a habit - at the end of the day, write down in a beautiful notebook "5 things that made me happy."
It will be an invisible and constantly updated collection. interesting meetings, fleeting smiles, joyful discoveries.
Isn't it more pleasant than collecting your failures, empty wallets and bad news.
And then you will notice that during the day you began to stop more often and notice more beauty and wonder.
The best materials on femininity, female energy and strength that will remind you that everything you need is within you.
5. Create and express yourself
Even if you are not an artist, a needlewoman or a poetess, create anytime and anywhere.
This is how you share what you have accumulated inside, express yourself, leave a personal imprint in this world. In the end, this is how you calm your nerves.
Write down an interesting thought - yours, collect autumn leaves and make a bouquet, tie a scarf in a new way, decorate the ceiling insanely.
It can't work out. This is creativity.
And you can always say: I see it!»
A woman creates every moment, looking for non-standard options. She sees and creates beauty and magic even in the simplest everyday things. A dance, a painting, a game with a child or a meal - everything in her hands becomes a miracle.
6. Travel
A very pleasant and varied source of replenishment of energy.
Make it a rule once a year to visit places where you have never been before.
Go out of town at least once a month.
Once a week, travel through the unexplored streets of the area where you live.
And once a day, you can change the usual route - to work, to the store, to a friend.
Refresh the picture. The journey never fails. This is a much needed reboot.
What a pleasure to be back home!
7. Be closer to nature, forest, mountains, water
This is also a journey. But more cleansing and energizing than just visiting new places.
Embrace a tree and let its power flow through you through your spine. Greet the mountains with open arms.
Go into the river with the words "wash everything off me."
And just scream. From the heart!
8. Give yourself flowers
It doesn't matter if you get them from men or not. Wanted - buy.
We choose so carefully for others. Why not choose for yourself?
Not for a holiday. And just like that!
But this should not be a demonstrative reproach to someone who, perhaps, has not yet presented them.
Let it be your harmless whim. A little joy given to myself.
9. Eat Right
We are what we eat. A very broad topic. Try to eat 30% cooked food and 70% vegetables. Drink natural virgin oils.
Every year, the female body needs more and more Vitamin E, which is best absorbed with Vitamin C. Therefore, feed your body and energy with a spoon olive oil with lemon juice drunk in the morning on an empty stomach.
Have pity on the liver and remove white bread from the diet.
But a woman should not be too pedantic in food. Have a day of frivolous behavior and eat what your body asks for.
Our body is a unique tool with a body mind that knows much more about our needs than we ourselves often realize. Our body is able to "read" what exactly we need at one time or another, and gives clear clues. For example, the body tells you what substances and microelements you lack today.
10. Move and move again
We all know about it, but we put it off new life for tomorrow. Everyone needs sports, even slim and beautiful. It just needs to be in your life.
In any form. And that's it.
The rest of the comments are redundant.
The only and effective method stop weight gain as soon as it has begun - exercise. I mean very intense exercise like lifting weights, cycling, running or swimming. Exercise should be enough to start building muscle mass.
11. Cleanse the body
Not too poetic point of replenishment of female energy. If the doctor approves, a castor oil cleansing once a week is useful. 1 g of castor oil is recommended for 1 kg of body weight.
In the morning there are only vegetables and fruits. From 14 to 17 drink water. And at 17, take the right amount of castor oil and 150 g of lemon juice. And there is nothing else.
To restore the acid-base balance, it is recommended to eat only fruits three days a month.
A nice bonus awaits you - a change in appearance (of course, for the better) and external changes))
12. Train your intimate muscles
In addition to additional energy, you will improve your health and surprise your loved one.
The most common option is Kegel exercises. For the shy, but purposeful, there is the Internet. Or go to a training where you will be taught how to breathe correctly.
13. Keep a diary
You can call it "The Diary of a Successful Woman". He will become your silent interlocutor and the most faithful friend.
Write down your plans for life, for a year, for a day, prioritize. There may be quotes you like or useful conclusions made during the day.
Find time for letters "to nowhere". In them, your liberation from negative thoughts, resentment, forgiveness of yourself and others. And hide away from prying eyes. And for better therapy and safety, destroy immediately.
14. Chat with girlfriends
A woman has a natural need to communicate a lot. She needs girlfriends, bachelorette parties, long phone calls.
In addition, during the day she is assigned a certain, much larger masculine, vocabulary that needs to be exhausted.
The main thing is that these conversations should not be chatter, after which a feeling of fatigue and emptiness, but a full-fledged energy exchange that fills.
If these rules are not to your liking, there is an even simpler way to increase energy:
Fall in love. And choose for this the most worthy object - YOURSELF.
Natalia Stepanova
Especially for the project "Keys of Mastery"